{"id":19872,"date":"2020-06-18T10:03:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-18T10:03:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19872"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:09:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:09:18","slug":"al-hombre-que-me-hizo-dudar-de-mi-misma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-hombre-que-me-hizo-dudar-de-mi-misma\/","title":{"rendered":"Al hombre que me hizo dudar de m\u00ed misma"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n con alguien, es natural que esa otra persona sea el viento m\u00e1s fuerte para tus vientos.<\/p>\n

Esta persona deber\u00eda ser tu mayor apoyo y tu fan n\u00famero uno. Deber\u00eda ser el primero en empujarte hacia adelante cuando te sientas mal o cuando est\u00e9s pasando por momentos dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n

Y, por supuesto, t\u00fa deber\u00edas actuar de la misma manera con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Es natural que los dos se\u00e1is socios y que os apoy\u00e9is mutuamente.<\/p>\n

But you were never like this. I don\u2019t know whether <\/b>estabas intimidado<\/b><\/a> por mi fuerza o simplemente eras inseguro por naturaleza y quer\u00edas arrastrarme a tu nivel, pero el hecho es que siempre hac\u00edas todo lo posible por menospreciarme y disminuir mi val\u00eda.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, al principio, sus acciones eran sutiles.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t directly insulting me but you would always make sure to imply that you were better than me and that I was beneath you in every possible way.<\/p>\n

Pero con el paso del tiempo, tus maltratos y tu menosprecio hacia m\u00ed en todos los sentidos se hicieron m\u00e1s frecuentes, m\u00e1s directos y menos sutiles.<\/p>\n

Aprovechaste todas las oportunidades posibles para hacerme sentir mal conmigo misma y alimentar mis inseguridades.<\/p>\n

Y con el tiempo, empezaste a insultarme y ridiculizarme tambi\u00e9n delante de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Cuando me conociste, yo era una mujer de alto valor <\/a> who knew her worth and you couldn\u2019t lower my self-confidence.<\/p>\n

Pero con el paso de los a\u00f1os, de alg\u00fan modo conseguiste meterte en mi cabeza y empec\u00e9 a cuestionarme si todo lo que me dec\u00edas era realmente cierto.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Con el paso de los a\u00f1os, me convert\u00ed en una chica que cuestionaba cada uno de sus movimientos, una chica que cuestionaba su val\u00eda y una chica que a veces incluso dudaba de su cordura.<\/b><\/p>\n

Empec\u00e9 a dudar de si era lo bastante guapa o bella, de si era lo bastante inteligente y de si merec\u00eda que estuvieras conmigo.<\/p>\n

Whenever I would put my mind to something, there was your voice in the back of my head, telling me I wouldn\u2019t make it and telling me I should quit.<\/p>\n

Empec\u00e9 a dudar de mis capacidades y habilidades con respecto a todo en la vida.<\/p>\n

Empec\u00e9 a dudar y a cuestionarme mi carrera, mi relaci\u00f3n con otras personas y Sobre todo, empec\u00e9 a dudar de mi relaci\u00f3n conmigo misma.<\/b><\/p>\n

I started questioning myself about if I was lovable and if I was worthy of anyone\u2019s respect and appreciation.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Y lo peor fue que empec\u00e9 a cuestionarme si era digna de mi propio amor y respeto.<\/p>\n

I started questioning if I was enough and why I wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

Y cuando me admit\u00eda a m\u00ed mismo que todo esto era culpa tuya, empezaba incluso a dudar de mi cordura.<\/p>\n

I thought you loved me unconditionally and that it wasn\u2019t possible that you were the one playing mind games with me.<\/p>\n

Of course, I would never admit any of these things out loud, not even to myself. I tried to hide the opinions I had about myself but that doesn\u2019t mean I didn\u2019t have them.<\/p>\n

Y todo eso fue culpa tuya. <\/b><\/p>\n

I know that because I regained my confidence the moment I left you. Of course, it didn\u2019t happen overnight and it is something still in process but I felt this unexplainable relief the moment I walked away from you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, fue doloroso, pero tambi\u00e9n liberador.<\/p>\n

Pero no te escribo todo esto porque est\u00e9 resentida contigo por todas las cosas que me hiciste y no lo hago porque quiera o necesite una disculpa.<\/p>\n

I am telling you all of this because I want you to know that you haven\u2019t succeeded. I want you to know that you didn\u2019t manage to kill my spirit and that you didn\u2019t manage to destroy the person I used to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te cuento todo esto porque quiero que sepas que <\/b>Soy lo suficientemente bueno<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, estuviste muy cerca de matarme espiritualmente, pero resurg\u00ed de las cenizas m\u00e1s fuerte que nunca.<\/p>\n

Y s\u00e9 lo valiosa que soy en realidad. S\u00e9 que no hay raz\u00f3n para que me sienta inseguro.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que soy digno y estoy seguro de que ni t\u00fa ni nadie puede disminuir mi val\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Sobre todo, s\u00e9 que nunca deber\u00eda haber dudado de m\u00ed misma. En cambio, eras t\u00fa quien deber\u00eda haberlo hecho todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

\"Al<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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