{"id":19897,"date":"2020-06-19T06:43:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T06:43:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19897"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:01:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:01:46","slug":"el-lado-feo-de-ser-empatico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-lado-feo-de-ser-empatico\/","title":{"rendered":"El lado feo de ser emp\u00e1tico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Los emp\u00e1ticos son un tipo muy raro de personas hipersensibles, fr\u00e1giles, melodram\u00e1ticas y m\u00e1s emocionales que los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Tienen la capacidad de sentir la energ\u00eda de la gente que les rodea y en la mayor\u00eda de los casos esas energ\u00edas son malas y las absorben todas.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, ser un emp\u00e1tico<\/a> tiene aspectos buenos y malos.<\/p>\n

El lado bueno es que saben escuchar y siempre hacen un esfuerzo adicional para ayudar a los dem\u00e1s, pero el lado malo es que siempre dan prioridad a los dem\u00e1s, pero se olvidan de s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

Pueden agotar toda su energ\u00eda positiva ayudando a otros que nunca estar\u00e1n ah\u00ed cuando los necesiten.<\/p>\n

When you are an empath, you attract negative energy and you won\u2019t know why that happens to you.<\/p>\n

El problema es que la gente siempre reconoce a los emp\u00e1ticos y se aprovechan de ellos, mientras que un emp\u00e1tico nunca dir\u00e1 que no si existe la posibilidad de que ayude a alguien.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

They will feel bad if they know that they could have helped someone and they didn\u2019t do so.<\/p>\n

Gente as\u00ed perder\u00e1 el sue\u00f1o por alguien que nunca har\u00eda lo mismo por ellos, pero es la \u00fanica forma que conocen de funcionar.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si te reconoces en estas l\u00edneas y si te han hecho da\u00f1o muchas veces en tu vida, existe la posibilidad de que tambi\u00e9n seas un emp\u00e1tico.<\/p>\n

And even if you belong to this rare type of people, don\u2019t consider yourself lucky because there is an ugly side to being an empath as well.<\/p>\n

Absorbes todas las energ\u00edas negativas que te rodean.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A veces quieres ser el ser querido, el que la gente cuide, pero todo lo que consigues es gente que necesita ayuda, pero nunca se ofrecen a ayudarte.<\/p>\n

And you, as a natural giver, can\u2019t just look at someone having problems and getting hurt and not do anything about it.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Y al final, acabas como el m\u00e1s triste, sin todo lo que anhelabas. The world\u2019s problems are on your shoulders.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t resist helping the ones who are not so lucky and who han sido heridos<\/a> en sus vidas.<\/p>\n

Sabes lo que es haber sido herido y no tener a nadie que te consuele, as\u00ed que siempre est\u00e1s al lado de las personas que te necesitan para curarse.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even think about yourself and your needs but instead about others and their needs and in most cases you feel sorry for doing that but you just can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n

Siempre est\u00e1s abrumado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando eres emp\u00e1tico le das demasiadas vueltas a las cosas y sientes constantemente cierta ansiedad por las cosas malas que ocurren en el mundo.<\/p>\n

You will want to help others but you won\u2019t be able to do so and you will be disappointed because of that.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todos los pensamientos malos y buenos se mezclar\u00e1n en tu cabeza y te sentir\u00e1s agotado porque nunca podr\u00e1s controlar tus pensamientos.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t fall head over heels in love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Los emp\u00e1ticos se enamoran, pero siempre guardan una parte de su coraz\u00f3n porque temen que les hagan da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

So, even if they say that they are in love they actually don\u2019t give their heart to their partner totally but they keep something for themself as well.<\/p>\n

Se podr\u00eda pensar que son ego\u00edstas y desalmados porque siempre mantener la guardia alta<\/a> but they do it because they don\u2019t know any different.<\/p>\n

Tu cabeza es como una zona de guerra. <\/strong>Te pasan muchas cosas por la cabeza y la mayor\u00eda son negativas.<\/p>\n

Piensas en tus problemas y en los problemas que tienen los dem\u00e1s y nunca puedes sentir la paz que realmente mereces.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Piensas en la oscuridad y en cosas malas todo el tiempo y te sientes perdido y aislado.<\/p>\n

You feel like people can\u2019t truly understand you and it is really hard for you to function normally in that kind of environment.<\/p>\n

Descuidas tu cuerpo y tu mente por el bien de los dem\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Acabas totalmente perdido y desorientado y tienes que volver a buscar tu verdadero yo, pero en la mayor\u00eda de los casos te lleva mucho tiempo hacerlo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t understand that people wouldn\u2019t do the same for you and that you just have a golden heart but others often take advantage of you by taking you for granted.<\/p>\n

Los emp\u00e1ticos necesitan personas que sean capaces de comprenderles de verdad, ayudarles y escucharles.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo cuando vean algo bueno en el mundo que les rodea podr\u00e1n bajar la guardia.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo as\u00ed pondr\u00e1n fin a la guerra de emociones a la que se enfrentan cada d\u00eda y encontrar\u00e1n por fin la paz que merecen.<\/p>\n

\"El<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Empaths are a very rare type of people who are hypersensitive, fragile, melodramatic and more emotional than others. They have the ability to feel the energy of the people around them and in most cases those energies are bad and they absorb all of them. So, being an empath has some good and bad sides….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":116475,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19897","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-An-Empath-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","parent":22911,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29677,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","cat_name":"personality types","category_nicename":"personality-types","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19897","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19897"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19897\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116475"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19897"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19897"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19897"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}