{"id":19909,"date":"2020-06-19T08:11:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T08:11:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19909"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:04:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:04:54","slug":"si-la-amas-dejala-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-la-amas-dejala-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Si la amas, d\u00e9jala ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dices que la quieres pero herirla<\/a> de todos modos. Dices que la quieres pero que te gusta m\u00e1s pasar tiempo con tus amigos que con ella.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo dices todo lo que ella quiere o\u00edr s\u00f3lo para que se quede contigo, s\u00f3lo porque eres un cobarde al admitir que ya no te ves con ella.<\/p>\n

You just want her to be there because you are afraid to be alone or to end up with someone who won\u2019t be able to understand you as well as she does.<\/p>\n

Porque amor ya no es lo que sientes por ella.<\/strong> Te encanta la sensaci\u00f3n de que te resulte familiar.<\/p>\n

Te encanta que sepa qu\u00e9 tipo de comida te gusta m\u00e1s y c\u00f3mo comes la ensalada con un poco m\u00e1s de sal.<\/p>\n

Te encanta c\u00f3mo te cuida cuando est\u00e1s enfermo y te proporciona todo lo que necesitas o\u00edr cuando est\u00e1s deca\u00eddo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te encanta verla cerca de ti, darte palmaditas en el hombro cuando haces algo bueno. Te encanta ver el brillo de sus ojos cuando te admira y te dice que est\u00e1 muy contenta de tenerte en su vida.<\/p>\n

But you don\u2019t love when she needs you to hold her hand when she is afraid to do something new. You don\u2019t love her hugs and kisses because you feel she is suffocating you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t love when she talks about her life, her work and her friends in front of you. You don\u2019t love when she asks you for advice because taking care of her problems is simply too much for you.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 demonios la enga\u00f1as dici\u00e9ndole que te encanta todo de ella?<\/strong> Amar todo de ella significa aceptar sus pedacitos m\u00e1s peque\u00f1os y amarlos.<\/p>\n

But you don\u2019t do that, you don\u2019t even want to make an effort to make things work between the two of you. Don\u2019t think that you are doing her a favor for staying with her even if you don\u2019t love her.<\/p>\n

Eso no es un favor, es s\u00f3lo una extensi\u00f3n del dolor que sentir\u00e1 cuando la dejes.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t play juegos mentales<\/a> with her and instead admit to her that you don\u2019t love her anymore. Tell her that your love died because of some things that happened somewhere along the road.<\/p>\n

Dile que la dejas porque no tiene sentido aferrarse a algo que ya no es real.<\/p>\n

Nobody said that love can\u2019t die and unfortunately, that happened to the two of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero el truco est\u00e1 en c\u00f3mo lo afrontas. Si hablas con ella abiertamente y le explicas tus sentimientos, estoy segura de que te entender\u00e1.<\/p>\n

She also doesn\u2019t want to be in an almost relationship, she wants the real thing. So, if you can\u2019t provide her with mind-blowing love, just let her go. If you really love her, let her go.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jala ir a su lugar m\u00e1s feliz, d\u00e9jala ir a los brazos de un hombre que realmente le dar\u00e1 el amor que se merece.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Llegar\u00e1 un hombre al que le encantar\u00e1 c\u00f3mo sonr\u00ede y c\u00f3mo llora cuando ve una pel\u00edcula triste.<\/p>\n

There will come a man who will think that she is worthy, that she is enough and he won\u2019t be able to stop smiling when he sees her.<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e1 mariposas cada vez que ella camine por la calle, alargando las manos para abrazarle. Y un hombre as\u00ed le dar\u00e1 el amor que realmente se merece.<\/p>\n

Con un hombre as\u00ed se sentir\u00e1 realizada, feliz y complacida. Ser\u00e1 su diario humano, su mejor amigo, su llamada nocturna y su alma gemela. Y su el amor se sentir\u00e1 como en casa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So when you realize how many ways you can actually make her happy, don\u2019t miss the chance to do that for her.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que ella har\u00eda lo mismo por ti. Preferir\u00eda dejarte ir en vez de seguirte la corriente.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si sientes al menos un poco de amor por ella, por favor d\u00e9jala ir. Incluso t\u00fa sabes que ella se merece un hombre mejor que t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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