{"id":19968,"date":"2020-06-20T08:04:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T08:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19968"},"modified":"2022-03-22T02:04:18","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T02:04:18","slug":"si-quieres-ser-el-infierno-nunca-olvidar-no-jugar-su-juego","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-quieres-ser-el-infierno-nunca-olvidar-no-jugar-su-juego\/","title":{"rendered":"Si quieres ser la persona a la que nunca olvidar\u00e1, no juegues a su juego"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The dating scene today is messy, to say the least. It\u2019s filled with players and their manipulative <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/soplar-caliente-y-frio-la-psicologia-detras-del-juego-de-citas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">juegos fr\u00edos y calientes<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, most women don\u2019t see much choice in the matter other than playing along.<\/p>\n<p>Al hacer eso, se quedan atrapados en esta red de amor a medias que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-enviaria-un-jugador-un-mensaje-todos-los-dias\/\">los jugadores<\/a> construido que nunca ser\u00e1 suficiente para hacerles felices.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s see if some of these scenarios sound familiar: You receive a text message and then you wait a bit to text back; you do your best to make him jealous; you give him attention then you pull away and pretend like you don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>In a nutshell, you are giving him a taste of his own medicine. And while that works for a bit, it doesn\u2019t give you the result you need, it just keeps you in the game.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Correct me if I am wrong but inside of the game isn\u2019t somewhere you want to live. It\u2019s exhausting and tiring to always keep your guard up.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quieres una relaci\u00f3n normal y cari\u00f1osa. Quieres calidez, respeto y honestidad que seas capaz de devolver.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to think ahead and strategize your every move. You want love that flows, not one that is full of dams.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t play his game. You should have your own rules and do your own thing.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>No hay necesidad de que entres en manipulaciones y juegos mentales y te rebajes a su nivel.<\/p>\n<p>Deber\u00eda ponerse a tu altura y tratarte bien o abandonar tu vida para siempre.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90214\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"pareja mir\u00e1ndose\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-looking-at-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t change your essence, stay true to yourself but by all means <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/establecer-normas-relacion-algo-obligatorio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">establecer algunas normas<\/a>. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>La \u00fanica forma de obtener el amor y el respeto que mereces es queri\u00e9ndote y respet\u00e1ndote a ti mismo en primer lugar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Having standards means demanding that at all times. It means not putting up with somebody&#8217;s poor treatment.<\/p>\n<p>Significa quererte lo suficiente como para alejarte de situaciones que te hacen desgraciado o infeliz.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Be the one who isn\u2019t afraid to close her eyes, fall in love and hope for the best.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, tu ca\u00edda puede ser mala y puedes hacerte da\u00f1o. Pero tambi\u00e9n puedes seguir levitando si el amor es verdadero.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t pretend like you don\u2019t care or act like a bitch to make somebody like you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00e9 el que se niega con elegancia a estar en algo a medias.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>If he wants something laidback, casual, or no strings attached, tell him that\u2019s great for him but it doesn\u2019t quite work for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90215\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven hablando mientras el hombre se siente ofendido\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-talking-while-man-feels-offended-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wish him luck and send him on his way. Someone who will give you everything will come along but you won\u2019t be able to notice if you are playing games that will lead you nowhere.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00e9 t\u00fa quien ame sin contenerse.<\/strong> <\/em>La que lo dar\u00e1 todo para que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n<p>The one who doesn\u2019t give up easily but knows that sometimes enough is enough and it\u2019s time for her to go.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00e9 la que persigue s\u00f3lo si la persiguen.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t go after somebody who doesn\u2019t go after you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be the girl waiting by the phone hoping to hear from him. Don\u2019t be the one who drops everything when he calls.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not playing games, it\u2019s not prioritizing somebody who never puts you first.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00e9 t\u00fa quien construye su propia vida. Sea el usted del que se sienta orgulloso.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Be someone who conquers her fears and thrives in spite of everything that\u2019s holding her back.<\/p>\n<p>Be the one who doesn\u2019t allow sadness to stay in her life for too long. Be the one who laughs from her soul and smiles with her heart.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90216\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer con camisa blanca informal al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Woman-wearing-casual-white-shirt-outdoors-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>S\u00e9 t\u00fa quien espere el mismo respeto, amor, honestidad e inversi\u00f3n que ella est\u00e1 aportando a la relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for lame excuses. Don\u2019t buy into stories that players use to lure you in. Don\u2019t participate in the game\u2026 leave.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him treat you like a toy and you won\u2019t be remembered as one.<\/p>\n<p>Un d\u00eda ese jugador al que est\u00e1s enganchado ahora mismo se cansar\u00e1 de sus juegos. Cambiar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/se-vera-cada-mujer-promesa-youll-nunca-encontrar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Te buscar\u00e1<\/a> when you lose all interest in him. He will look for you when you find your home in somebody else&#8217;s arms. He will remember your warmth. He will miss your smile.<\/p>\n<p>Pensar\u00e1 en todas las cosas que podr\u00eda haber hecho de otra manera para que tal vez ahora estuvieras a su lado. Permanecer\u00e1s encriptada en su mente como la que se le escap\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ver\u00e1s, lo que pasa con los jugadores es que s\u00f3lo saben lo que ten\u00edan cuando ya lo han perdido para siempre.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-90210 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Si quieres ser la persona a la que nunca olvidar\u00e1, no juegues a su juego\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The dating scene today is messy, to say the least. It\u2019s filled with players and their manipulative hot and cold games. Naturally, most women don\u2019t see much choice in the matter other than playing along. By doing that, they get stuck in this web of half-assed love that the players constructed that will never be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":90213,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19968","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Want-To-Be-The-One-He\u2019ll-Never-Forget-Don\u2019t-Play-His-Game-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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