{"id":20007,"date":"2020-06-20T12:19:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T12:19:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20007"},"modified":"2022-04-01T11:14:33","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T11:14:33","slug":"8-dolorosas-senales-de-que-ha-llegado-el-momento-de-renunciar-a-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-dolorosas-senales-de-que-ha-llegado-el-momento-de-renunciar-a-el\/","title":{"rendered":"8 dolorosas se\u00f1ales de que es hora de renunciar a \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tal vez no pensaste que esto pasar\u00eda nunca, pero aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s ahora, pensando si deber\u00edas quedarte con \u00e9l o encontrar tu propia felicidad.<\/p>\n<p>And you think and think, but you can\u2019t think of anything smart. A part of you still loves him while the other part is hurt deeply by his behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Para ayudarle a encontrar la mejor soluci\u00f3n, he aqu\u00ed algunos consejos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/11-dolorosas-senales-de-que-no-eres-mas-que-su-plan-de-apoyo\/\">signos dolorosos<\/a> que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tal-vez-es-hora-de-renunciar-a-las-citas\/\">es hora de rendirse<\/a> sobre \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Espero que te abra los ojos cuando veas que cosas como estas te ocurren a diario, pero te has negado a verlas todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Te hace dudar de ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta mordi\u00e9ndose las u\u00f1as en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mindful-woman-biting-her-nail-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your partner doesn\u2019t accept you the way you are and you need to doubt your self-worth in your relationship, it is time to give up on him.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre que te quiere de verdad te aceptar\u00eda con todos tus defectos y nunca te pedir\u00eda que cambiaras. Pero si te sientes mal y como si no fueras suficiente, algo tiene que cambiar.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes intentar hablar con \u00e9l de tus sentimientos, pero si despu\u00e9s persiste en su decisi\u00f3n, hacer cualquier otra cosa al respecto ser\u00eda en vano.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Caminas sobre c\u00e1scaras de huevo cuando est\u00e1s con \u00e9l.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa pone la cabeza en la espalda del hombre mientras est\u00e1 de pie fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you feel like you need to watch out what you say or do in front of your partner? Are you afraid that he will freak out if you do something that he doesn\u2019t like?<\/p>\n<p>If the answer is \u2018yes\u2019, then you should think about where you are now and if you want to be in the same place in a couple of years.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t put your life on hold just to satisfy him and you can\u2019t put him first all the time. What was the last time he did that for you?<\/p>\n<p>Nunca, lo s\u00e9. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te sacrificar\u00edas<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/carta-chica-intento-duro-hombre-no-le-importaba-menos\/\"> for the man who couldn\u2019t care less for you<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te menosprecia delante de todos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96695\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg\" alt=\"hombre avergonzando a su novia en p\u00fablico\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l lo considera s\u00f3lo una broma, pero lo cierto es que, a causa de esa broma, te sientes profundamente herido.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, he always says something that you don\u2019t think is nice in front of the others and he never shows that he cares about you. By belittling you, he feels dominant and like someone who is the main part of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que decirle que lo que hace no est\u00e1 nada bien y que tiene que espabilar si quiere seguir contigo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nada de lo que hagas es bueno para \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja sentada a la mesa en la cafeter\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-sitting-at-the-table-in-the-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabes lo que se siente al no ser nunca suficiente para el hombre que es todo tu mundo? Hagas lo que hagas no es suficiente para \u00e9l y siempre quiere algo mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it is time to sit down and think about your feelings toward him. Maybe you don\u2019t like his behavior as well, but you just don\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n<p>I am telling you\u2014it is better to be alone than in a bad and toxic relationship. I am sure that in the end, you will figure out what is the best for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He isn\u2019t interested in you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de mujer joven y hombre joven al aire libre en la calle teniendo problemas de relaci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-young-man-outdoor-on-the-street-having-relationship-problems-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSientes que lleva su vida sin <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/you-shouldnt-be-the-only-one-putting-in-all-the-effort\/\">esforz\u00e1ndose<\/a> para que formes parte de ella?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSientes que la vieja chispa ha desaparecido de vuestra relaci\u00f3n y que \u00e9l ha perdido totalmente el inter\u00e9s por ti?<\/p>\n<p>If these are the things you think about, it is time to give up on him because he obviously doesn\u2019t give you what you crave.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you don\u2019t think that you will ever meet someone new, someone who will know to cherish you, you are not right.<\/p>\n<p>The man who thinks you are worthy will come along. But you know, good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Suplicas por su amor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96699\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer reflexiva abrazando a un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tienes que rogarle por el amor y el afecto que son parte normal de toda relaci\u00f3n, entonces ya no vale la pena intentar esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Si vas a ser el \u00fanico que quiere, intenta y se esfuerza, no tiene sentido continuar con ese tipo de relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Si un hombre ve que le necesitas y se aleja, es se\u00f1al de que algo no va bien y de que estar\u00edas mejor sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Esperas que cambie<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96700\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa pone la cabeza en la espalda del hombre mientras est\u00e1 de pie fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si sufres en silencio, esperando que \u00e9l cambie, entonces no merece la pena luchar por esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, your man doesn\u2019t cherish you and he does things his way, not even thinking about what you will say about it.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, cuando te enteras de toda la mierda que hizo para herirte, le perdonas porque, joder, a\u00fan le quieres, y rezas a Dios para que cambie.<\/p>\n<p>Darling, let me tell you something: He will never change. If you let him, he will lead you on and he won\u2019t even feel remorse about that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tu instinto te dice que algo va mal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96701\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido blanco apoyada en su rodilla ojos cerrados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know that small voice inside you telling you what is wrong and what isn\u2019t? What does it say right now?<\/p>\n<p>Nada agradable, \u00bfverdad? Probablemente te diga que ya no merece la pena luchar con \u00e9l y que deber\u00edas dejarlo y encontrar a alguien que te haga feliz de verdad.<\/p>\n<p>Te dice que abandones al hombre que te abandon\u00f3 hace mucho tiempo y que por fin te pongas t\u00fa primero. Si yo fuera t\u00fa, le har\u00eda caso, \u00a1porque nunca se equivoca!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96703 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 dolorosas se\u00f1ales de que es hora de renunciar a \u00e9l\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you didn\u2019t think that this will ever happen, but here you are now, thinking if you should stay with him or find your own happiness. And you think and think, but you can\u2019t think of anything smart. A part of you still loves him while the other part is hurt deeply by his behavior&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":96691,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/8-Painful-Signs-It-Is-Time-To-Give-Up-On-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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