{"id":20018,"date":"2020-09-20T13:15:14","date_gmt":"2020-09-20T13:15:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20018"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:15:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:15:02","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-pasa-cuando-el-que-se-escapo-vuelve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-pasa-cuando-el-que-se-escapo-vuelve\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que ocurre cuando vuelve el que se escap\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando mire su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-maneras-increibles-de-mejorar-la-vida-amorosa\/\"> amar la vida <\/a> from this point of view, you can say you\u2019ve had a rich dating experience.<\/p>\n<p>Fueron muchos los chicos que pasaron por tu vida. Algunos te gustaron menos y otros m\u00e1s, y puedes decir que a algunos los quisiste. Y algunos te correspondieron.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero hay un chico que siempre destac\u00f3, el \u00fanico que era especial y diferente a todos los dem\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you come to think about it, you don\u2019t know what made him so unique. It wasn\u2019t his looks, it probably wasn\u2019t his brains either.<\/p>\n<p>When you look at things realistically, it wasn\u2019t his personality that made him stand out from all these other men in your life.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lo que hace diferente a este tipo es c\u00f3mo te hizo sentir.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y es un hecho que te sientes como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-maneras-de-superar-al-hombre-que-se-escapo\/\">se ha alejado de ti<\/a>. Sientes como si se te hubiera escapado de las manos, como si siempre hubiera permanecido inalcanzable e inalcanzable para ti, aunque lo tuvieras. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que no dejas de pensar en todo lo que podr\u00eda haber pasado entre vosotros dos y en c\u00f3mo podr\u00edan haber resultado vuestras vidas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119765 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"una chica asi\u00e1tica triste se sienta en el sof\u00e1 y piensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-on-the-couch-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, tuviste otros chicos en tu vida despu\u00e9s de \u00e9l. Y amaste despu\u00e9s de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t even say you miss him all the time and that you actively think of him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero la verdad es que no importa lo que pase en tu vida, \u00e9l existe en alg\u00fan lugar profundo de tu mente. No importa qu\u00e9 tipo de chico que est\u00e1s viendo, siempre te encuentras compar\u00e1ndolo con este tipo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>No importa por lo que est\u00e9s pasando, siempre te preguntas c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda si ese chico volviera a ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Supones que los dos ser\u00edais finalmente felices si tuvierais una segunda oportunidad. Supones que todo saldr\u00eda bien la segunda vez. Que todo saldr\u00eda bien esta vez, si tuvierais la oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p>Pues d\u00e9jeme decirle que se equivoca.<\/p>\n<p><b>I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but the truth is that you don\u2019t love this guy<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>solo amas la idea de el, solo amas su recuerdo y tu <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-te-pierdas-sentir-el-amor\/\"><b>echar de menos la sensaci\u00f3n de estar enamorado<\/b> <\/a><b>con \u00e9l.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You think of this man because nobody after him provoked the same intensity of emotions inside of you. But that doesn\u2019t mean it won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119767 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss.jpg\" alt=\"la pareja de enamorados se abraza y se besa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/the-couple-in-love-hug-and-kiss-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And it definitely doesn\u2019t mean this guy is your soulmate and the person you are meant to be with.<\/p>\n<p>Lo ver\u00edas por ti mismo si volviera a ti.<\/p>\n<p><b>You hold on to him and to the idea that your relationship with him would have worked out if he hadn&#8217;t gotten away and you idealize everything that went on between the two of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo recuerdas las cosas buenas y los recuerdos bonitos y desatiendes por completo todo lo malo que ocurri\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>You think that your life would have been different if he hadn\u2019t left you or if he came back. You think you would be happier and that everything would be better.<\/p>\n<p>But the truth is that it probably wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you probably wouldn\u2019t know what to do with this guy if he came back to you, because he wouldn\u2019t be the same man you pictured in your head.<\/p>\n<p><b>Because there is a reason the two of you didn\u2019t work out.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119768 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de una pareja de enamorados tras una discusi\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-loving-couple-after-an-argument-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E incluso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/lee-esto-si-vuelve-arrastrandose\/\"> si volviera arrastr\u00e1ndose <\/a> , you two would still be facing the same problems you had. You two would still have your differences and you wouldn\u2019t be complete.<\/p>\n<p>Because he is not perfect and he wouldn\u2019t give you the perfect life you crave. He is a man made of flesh and he has his flaws.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que ese chico s\u00f3lo existe en tu imaginaci\u00f3n. Ya no es el hombre que conociste y t\u00fa definitivamente no eres la chica que lo am\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>When you think about it, you two don\u2019t know each other any longer because you are not the people you were. You have different opinions, attitudes and habits.<\/p>\n<p><b>As\u00ed que, por favor, dejad de fantasear con ese chico y con c\u00f3mo podr\u00edan haber sido las cosas entre vosotros porque eso es cualquier cosa menos realidad.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Instead, focus on your present and future because this won\u2019t lead you anywhere.<\/p>\n<p><b>Deja a este tipo en el pasado, donde pertenece. Acar\u00edcialo como un recuerdo lejano y amable, porque no es m\u00e1s que eso.<\/b> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119770 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Esto es lo que ocurre cuando vuelve el que se escap\u00f3\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you look at your love life from this point of view, you can say you\u2019ve had a rich dating experience. There were numerous boys who passed through your life. You liked some of them less and some more and you can say you loved some. And some loved you back. But there is this&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":119764,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Here-Is-What-Happens-When-The-One-Who-Got-Away-Comes-Back-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20018"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20018\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}