{"id":20044,"date":"2020-07-21T08:50:35","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T08:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20044"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:56:19","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:56:19","slug":"ser-lo-suficientemente-fuerte-como-para-alejarse-de-un-manipulador-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ser-lo-suficientemente-fuerte-como-para-alejarse-de-un-manipulador-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e9 lo bastante fuerte para alejarte de un manipulador t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que a\u00fan le quieres.<\/strong><\/em> Y tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que sigues queriendo que sea la persona con la que pasar\u00e1s el resto de tu vida, pero paso a paso, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que no es el hombre adecuado para ti.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo est\u00e1s cegada de amor por \u00e9l, pero su mal comportamiento hacia ti te abrir\u00e1 los ojos. Ver\u00e1s c\u00f3mo te manipul\u00f3<\/a> y te ha hecho sentir mal todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n

You will realize that all this time, he didn\u2019t make any effort to make you happy. He just kept you close with his lies every time when he would feel like you are leaving.<\/p>\n

Te enga\u00f1ar\u00eda de tantas maneras que te perder\u00edas totalmente por un hombre t\u00f3xico como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

So, I am begging you: don\u2019t listen to what he has to say.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t let him lead you on one more time. You are much smarter than that.<\/p>\n

If you could just think with your head instead of with your heart, you wouldn\u2019t have been hurt. If you could just open your eyes in time and see what he put you through.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He put you through hell and he called it love. Don\u2019t you know that you deserve better? And yes, you hear well, un hombre<\/em> te est\u00e1 diciendo que mereces mucho m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l puede darte.<\/p>\n

Aunque sea un hombre, puedo sentir tu dolor.<\/strong> <\/em>Puedo verlo en el fondo de tus ojos. S\u00e9 que intentas ocultarlo con tu sonrisa, pero no funciona.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que quieres sonre\u00edr a tu dolor, tus labios empiezan a temblar como si estuvieras a punto de llorar.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t try to fool me. I know very well what it looks like when a woman smiles with her heart and when she smiles with the pain that is inside her.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quiero que sepas que deber\u00edas dejarlo<\/a> y hazte una vida mejor.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that nobody will want you because he once broke you. Even if you are broken, you will be someone\u2019s perfect woman.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Vendr\u00e1 un hombre que ver\u00e1 lo digna que eres.<\/p>\n

There will come a man who won\u2019t fix you but who will love all your broken pieces.<\/strong><\/em> Y un hombre as\u00ed ser\u00e1 verdaderamente digno de tu amor.<\/p>\n

But if you stay with the wrong one, you won\u2019t have a chance to meet the right one.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que re\u00fane el valor suficiente para alejarte de ese manipulador t\u00f3xico que es arruinando tu vida<\/a>. Al\u00e9jate del hombre que te lleva a la muerte emocional cada vez que te descuida.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9jate del hombre ni siquiera es capaz de amarse a s\u00ed mismo.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t choose to stay with someone who doesn\u2019t ask for any help and who pushes you away when you come closer.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9jate de un hombre que nunca tratarte como una opci\u00f3n<\/a>pero siempre estar\u00e1s en segundo lugar para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with the man who will never die for you and who will never be madly in love with you. And whatever you do, don\u2019t blame yourself for his behavior.<\/p>\n

Se trata de \u00e9l y no de ti. \u00c9l es el que necesita conseguir su mierda juntos y una vez que te vayas, se dar\u00e1 cuenta de qu\u00e9 tipo de mujer que perdi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Once you walk away from him, he will be so lost because he won\u2019t have anyone to feed on.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Cuando te alejes, \u00e9l morir\u00e1 con su esp\u00edritu porque se jug\u00f3 a la mejor mujer que existe.<\/p>\n

Si decides alejarte de \u00e9l pero sus manos t\u00f3xicas intentan imped\u00edrtelo, recuerda esto:<\/p>\n

Mereces que te quieran. Mereces que te persigan. Mereces que te cuiden. Mereces que te respeten. Y mereces que todo eso ocurra de forma natural.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Since he never provided any of that to you, bite your lip and close the door once you leave him. Pretend that you don\u2019t hear him calling your name.<\/p>\n

Finge que no eres desmoron\u00e1ndose<\/a> because all that you had is now ruined. Pretend that you don\u2019t love him anymore and don\u2019t let him see that tear that is running down your cheek.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the pleasure to see your breakdown. Because if he sees that you are weak, he will try to win you back. He will come up with a million reasons for you to stay.<\/p>\n

He will use his claws to bring you to him again. But don\u2019t allow him to do that because I know you are strong enough to walk away from him. I know what I am talking about.<\/p>\n

If you go back to him knowing you shouldn\u2019t<\/a> volver\u00e1 a maltratarte.<\/strong> <\/em>Volver\u00e1 a hacerte sentir como una mierda y nunca te dar\u00e1 el amor que anhelas.<\/p>\n

Life with him will be like a battle lost in advance, so please don\u2019t do that to yourself.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque le sigas queriendo, al\u00e9jate de \u00e9l porque la situaci\u00f3n nunca mejorar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

I know that he doesn\u2019t love you anymore. I can see that by the things he has done to make you cry. I know that from his every look toward you when you smile.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quiere borrar esa sonrisa de tu cara y verte triste.<\/strong><\/em> Quiere que te sientas culpable por cada problema que teng\u00e1is y quiere hacerte sentir como una mierda.<\/p>\n

Because if you feel that way, you won\u2019t be strong enough. If you feel that way, you will always try to find comfort in him.<\/p>\n

And he will be there just to tell you that he won\u2019t give you what you need, but he will a coward to let you go.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t wait for him to embarrass you and hurt you once more. Leave while it is time; leave while you have at least a little bit of pride.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Because he can take it all away from you, but he can\u2019t touch your pride.<\/p>\n

Y una vez que te vayas, ver\u00e1s que las cosas no son como \u00e9l dec\u00eda que eran.<\/strong> <\/em>Ver\u00e1s que hay vida sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s que puedes respirar sin \u00e9l, amar sin \u00e9l y ser feliz sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s que est\u00e1s bien sola y que \u00e9l s\u00f3lo fue una dura lecci\u00f3n que tuviste que aprender.<\/p>\n

Cuando veas que la vida puede ser bella sin \u00e9l, recuerda mis palabras: que eres digna y que eres m\u00e1s que suficiente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I know that you tend to avoid men\u2019s opinions after what you had with him, but I am begging you to listen to me this time.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que te sientes insegura y que tienes miedo de que el amor no vuelva a tu vida. S\u00e9 que ha hecho tambalear tu confianza en ti misma y que dudas de ti misma.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am here to tell you that I am proud of you for walking away from a man who was your whole world but who hurt you the most.<\/p>\n

Y espero que llegue un hombre que vea lo incre\u00edble que eres, como yo te estoy viendo ahora.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed, cuando venga, sentir\u00e1s que es el adecuado. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Por fin encontrar\u00e1s en \u00e9l todo lo que has estado buscando todo este tiempo. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And this time, his love won\u2019t be manipulation. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Su amor ser\u00e1 real. Su amor se sentir\u00e1 como en casa.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"S\u00e9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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