{"id":20072,"date":"2020-06-21T12:42:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T12:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20072"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:45:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:45:04","slug":"asi-es-como-reconoceras-a-un-hombre-roto-con-carga-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-reconoceras-a-un-hombre-roto-con-carga-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como reconocer\u00e1s a un hombre roto con carga emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando oyes hablar de hombres rotos, asumes que ser\u00edas capaz de reconocerlos enseguida, a primera vista. Supones que este tipo de hombre nunca podr\u00eda enga\u00f1arte y que al menos tu intuici\u00f3n te dir\u00eda que algo va mal.<\/p>\n<p>But trust me\u2014that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>When you first meet a damaged guy who carries a lot of emotional baggage within himself, you will have no idea about everything he\u2019s been through. Instead, he will act like any other guy.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, he even might act better than any man you\u2019ve met before him. You might think you\u2019ve finally found the man of your dreams and that he is everything you\u2019ve been waiting for.<\/p>\n<p>But as time goes by, you\u2019ll see some<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-signs-dating-broken-man\/\"> signos de que est\u00e1 roto<\/a>. You\u2019ll see that there is something bothering him, deeply hidden inside of him. And you\u2019ll try to figure out what this is.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque cada individuo es diferente, todos los hombres rotos tienen algunas cosas en com\u00fan.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93986\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre barbudo con chaqueta marr\u00f3n en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/bearded-man-wearing-brown-jacket-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, <b>este chico probablemente ser\u00e1 misterioso contigo. Ser\u00e1 reservado sobre su pasado y sobre sus emociones.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>At first, you\u2019ll assume he is just pretending to be this tough guy and that he might not be in touch with his feelings. You\u2019ll think that he is afraid of looking too desperate and less of a man in front of you and that is why he pretends to be cold.<\/p>\n<p>But you\u2019ll try very hard to get to the bottom of this. You\u2019ll want to know what is hiding behind this mask and you\u2019ll want to meet the man who is hidden deep inside of this guy. You\u2019ll want to meet the real him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y aunque su lado misterioso deber\u00eda ahuyentarte, en realidad te acercar\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s a \u00e9l.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that this guy is cold toward everyone and you\u2019ll have the urge to change that. You\u2019ll have the urge to prove to him and to yourself that you can become special to him\u2014that you can be the only person in this world he trusts and can open up to.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93987\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja abraz\u00e1ndose en la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019ll think he is special and his love is special, because he apparently isn\u2019t giving it away to just anyone who comes into his life.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Incluso cuando aceptas que<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-asombrosos-consejos-para-salir-con-un-hombre-emocionalmente-danado\/\"> est\u00e1 emocionalmente da\u00f1ado<\/a>, you\u2019ll want to prove that you are the only one worthy of his love and trust. You\u2019ll want to prove to yourself that you have a special place in his life, that you are different from everyone else and that you\u2019ll manage to do some things nobody before you has.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll never know much about this guy\u2019s dating history, about his traumas from the past, about his trust issues, his insecurities or his anxiety and depression.<\/p>\n<p><b>Whenever this guy feels bad, he\u2019ll want you to stay away.<\/b> He might simply disappear on you, wanting some time for himself because he feels like he can\u2019t trust anyone and that he can solve his problems on his own.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque al principio este chico pretenda tener mucha confianza, la verdad es que en el fondo siente que no es lo suficientemente bueno para ti. <\/b>La verdad es que es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-signs-hes-emotionally-insecure-dont-even-bother-date\/\">emocionalmente inseguro<\/a> y que se compara con cualquier otro hombre, pero intenta disimularlo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93988\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-leaning-on-wall-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre apoyado en la pared exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-leaning-on-wall-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-leaning-on-wall-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-leaning-on-wall-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019ll never know his weaknesses and you\u2019ll rarely see his vulnerable side.<\/b> Puede que pienses que le da verg\u00fcenza mostrarte esta faceta suya, pero lo cierto es que tiene miedo.<\/p>\n<p>This guy is terrified to give you his heart and to open up to you, because he is certain you\u2019ll use all of this against him, despite the fact that you\u2019ve never done anything that could make him think or feel this way.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que esto es lo \u00faltimo que quiere que sepas, pero la verdad es que este hombre sufre un trauma por abandono. La verdad es que fue herido y da\u00f1ado en el pasado y perdi\u00f3 la confianza en las personas, especialmente en las mujeres.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s simple\u2014he assumes that every woman who comes into his life will break him even more and will hurt him the same way someone toxic from his past did.<\/p>\n<p><b>As\u00ed que cre\u00f3 un escudo, una fachada para protegerse de todo el mundo, lo que le hizo emocionalmente inaccesible.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And you\u2019ll have to be pretty damn special to change that.<\/b> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-93989 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"As\u00ed es como reconocer\u00e1s a un hombre roto con carga emocional\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you hear about broken men, you assume that you would be able to recognize them right away, at first sight. You assume this kind of guy could never fool you and that at least your intuition would tell you something was wrong. But trust me\u2014that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. When you first&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":93985,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20072","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/This-Is-How-Youll-Recognize-A-Broken-Man-With-Emotional-Baggage.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20072","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20072"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20072\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20072"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20072"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20072"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}