{"id":20099,"date":"2020-10-22T09:00:05","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T09:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20099"},"modified":"2022-09-26T12:21:34","modified_gmt":"2022-09-26T12:21:34","slug":"7-razones-por-las-que-tantos-hombres-sufren-problemas-de-compromiso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-tantos-hombres-sufren-problemas-de-compromiso\/","title":{"rendered":"7 razones por las que tantos hombres sufren problemas de compromiso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n y parece que las cosas nunca avanzan, probablemente te preguntes por qu\u00e9 ocurre eso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably thinking it\u2019s all your fault because you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s true but maybe it\u2019s not you at all. I know it\u2019s not fair to blame it on men all the time but in this case, if you\u2019re clean and not guilty for your relationship fallout, then it must be him.<\/p>\n

Y esta vez s\u00ed. Tiene miedo de cometer<\/a> y no s\u00f3lo a ti, sino a casi todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, esto se puede arreglar, pero s\u00f3lo si sabes cu\u00e1l es el verdadero problema y por qu\u00e9 \u00e9l tiene miedo de invertir en vuestra relaci\u00f3n y darle una oportunidad para que sea duradera.<\/p>\n

Y si quieres averiguar cu\u00e1l es el verdadero problema, tienes que ofrecerte a ayudarle para intentar resolverlo.<\/p>\n

Su problema se remonta a su pasado. Tiene miedo a comprometerse porque probablemente tuvo problemas en el amor, con un familiar o con un amigo.<\/p>\n

Once you find the cause, you\u2019ll be able to find the solution, too. But only if he wants to cooperate and if he is honest with you.<\/p>\n

Las razones por las que tantos hombres tienen miedo al compromiso pueden ser:<\/p>\n

Miedo al rechazo<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Muchos hombres simplemente tienen miedo de amar a alguien porque han tenido una mala experiencia con el amor en su pasado.<\/p>\n

They may have loved someone but that person walked out on them or didn\u2019t love them back, which caused them to never trust anyone again.<\/p>\n

Les hirieron y ahora les lleva tiempo abrirse y volver a confiar en alguien.<\/p>\n

Miedo al fracaso<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Some men are scared they are not going to fulfill the other person\u2019s expectations.<\/p>\n

They are scared that their relationship is not going to work and since they want everything to be perfect and this relationship potentially won\u2019t be, they will avoid it to avoid failure.<\/p>\n

Siempre hay elecci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Some men are just cowards. Instead of fighting and trying to work out problems, it\u2019s easier for them to just break up and find someone who won\u2019t object to their demands and someone who will do whatever they say.<\/p>\n

So they won\u2019t commit because it\u2019s easier to find someone else who will do as they say. In this case, don\u2019t waste your time trying to \u2018fix\u2019 him because it\u2019s impossible.<\/p>\n

Miedo al abandono<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Este miedo se desarrolla debido a una relaci\u00f3n pasada que un hombre ha tenido. Se enamor\u00f3 antes que t\u00fa y tal vez pens\u00f3 que eso era todo.<\/p>\n

Maybe he thought that he had found the right one and that \u2018right one\u2019 dumped him on his birthday, let\u2019s say.<\/p>\n

Whatever she has done to him, it has caused him to be scared of abandonment. That\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t se encari\u00f1an tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de que, si lo hace, la persona con la que est\u00e1 le deje, por lo que tendr\u00e1 que volver a pasar por el proceso de curaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to lose their independence<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Some men think that dating will take away their independence. They don\u2019t understand that dating is basically sharing and mutual helping. It\u2019s not about who obeys whom.<\/p>\n

They have these independence issues because they don\u2019t want to depend on anyone, especially a woman.<\/p>\n

What they don\u2019t understand is that they don\u2019t depend on a woman but they are in a relationship where both of them are equal.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t let go of the past<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

If a man who is in a relationship has commitment issues, it\u2019s possible that he suffers from it because he is already committed to someone else.<\/p>\n

Maybe he fell in love long time ago and that relationship failed and although it failed he can\u2019t let go of the past. He can\u2019t force himself to stop loving whoever broke his heart.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he can\u2019t commit to you. His heart belongs to someone else who sadly rejected him.<\/p>\n

Si tropiezas con una situaci\u00f3n as\u00ed, lo mejor que puedes hacer es marcharte porque eres t\u00fa quien va a acabar con el coraz\u00f3n roto si te quedas.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t like you enough to commit<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to hear it but sometimes it\u2019s true. Sometimes, it\u2019s as simple as that\u2014he doesn\u2019t like you enough to commit.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change that and you can\u2019t talk about this to him because you won\u2019t be able to change his mind.<\/p>\n

He likes you, he thinks you\u2019re fun, your relationship is cute but it isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to admit it to yourself and deal with it in your mind so you can move on, than to suffer and torture yourself by staying in a relationship with a man who will never love you.<\/p>\n

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