{"id":20106,"date":"2020-05-22T10:29:47","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T10:29:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20106"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:14:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:14:22","slug":"7-dolorosas-senales-de-que-no-quiere-que-seas-su-novia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-dolorosas-senales-de-que-no-quiere-que-seas-su-novia\/","title":{"rendered":"7 dolorosas se\u00f1ales de que no quiere que seas su novia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You want a boyfriend and you\u2019ve been searching for the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-adorable-signs-he-wants-you-to-be-his-girlfriend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> se\u00f1ales de que quiere que seas su novia<\/a>, too, but you can\u2019t seem to find any?<\/p>\n<p>Well, maybe he really doesn\u2019t want anything serious and he is not on the same page as you.<\/p>\n<p>This happens all the time and you are not the only one who\u2019s faced with this problem.<\/p>\n<p>Muchos chicos env\u00edan se\u00f1ales de que les gustas, pero cuando empiezas una relaci\u00f3n notas una falta de inter\u00e9s y acabas ocup\u00e1ndote t\u00fa de todo. Eres la \u00fanica que intenta que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la diferencia entre los hombres que est\u00e1n interesados en salir contigo y los que s\u00f3lo buscan pasar un buen rato no es tan grande. A menudo puedes mezclar se\u00f1ales e interpretarlas como m\u00e1s te convenga.<\/p>\n<p>So, to escape a potential catastrophe and run away in time, read the signs he doesn\u2019t want you to be his girlfriend:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vosotros dos sois tan diferentes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94088\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de mujer joven y hombre al aire libre en la calle teniendo problemas de relaci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the reasons he doesn\u2019t want you to be his girlfriend can be that the two of you are very different.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que teng\u00e1is sistemas de creencias diferentes, o que t\u00fa seas vegetariano y \u00e9l no.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what is at stake, if it bothers him, he won\u2019t be able to let it go that easily. Maybe he is shy and you are outgoing, it really doesn\u2019t matter as long as it\u2019s different.<\/p>\n<p>Most people don\u2019t see these differences as things that can bring you together even closer, things that can teach you a thing or two; they look at them as things they won\u2019t be able to handle, things that will destroy a potential relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to label things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94089\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"pareja seria en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/serious-couple-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he refuses to define what kind of relationship you\u2019re in, then he definitely doesn\u2019t want to be with you.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably just stringing you along because he doesn\u2019t have the courage to say to your face that it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<p>Los chicos que quieren estar contigo te lo dir\u00e1n y los que s\u00f3lo quieren una cosa tambi\u00e9n te dar\u00e1n pistas de que no eres m\u00e1s que un ligue.<\/p>\n<p>Los que se niegan a ponerle una etiqueta son los m\u00e1s peligrosos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t show interest in you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94090\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre ignorando a su novia y usando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/man-ignoring-his-girlfriend-and-using-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t mean sexual interest, I mean that he is not interested in what kind of a person you are.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t ask questions about your life and he is not interested in your past.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care whether you\u2019ve dated one guy or twenty. He doesn\u2019t care if you have a brother or sister and he really doesn\u2019t care about your hobbies.<\/p>\n<p>A guy who is into you will put the effort into trying to find out what you like and don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>Se esforzar\u00e1 por averiguar cosas sobre ti porque le importas de verdad.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nunca te llama<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94091\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer desesperada mirando su tel\u00e9fono en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/desperate-woman-looking-at-her-phone-in-cafe-1-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He only texts you and that is a clear sign that he doesn\u2019t want to communicate with you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to make your relationship deeper, he wants to keep you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n<p>Texting someone only means you\u2019re trying to avoid communication with that person.<\/p>\n<p>And why is someone trying to avoid communication? He doesn\u2019t care enough to get involved so much.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to introduce you to his friends<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94092\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer junto a hombre con sombrero negro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Woman-stands-next-to-man-with-black-hat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to involve you in his personal life. Friends are like family and if you don\u2019t mean that much to him, he won\u2019t introduce you to them.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want them to meet you because he is not planning on keeping you around that long, so why then bother introducing you to them?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t care about impressing you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando a un hombre mientras se apoya en una valla\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-while-leaning-on-fence-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care about your opinions because he is not interested in a long-term relationship with you and that\u2019s why he doesn\u2019t even bother impressing you.<\/p>\n<p>He basically doesn\u2019t care about what you think about him because he is probably just keeping you as a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/11-dolorosas-senales-de-que-no-eres-mas-que-su-plan-de-apoyo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">plan de respaldo<\/a>. He probably only wants you for sex and nothing else and he doesn\u2019t care about your opinions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He doesn\u2019t mention the future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94094\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together.jpg\" alt=\"pareja j\u00f3venes personas juntas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/couple-young-people-people-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He is not specific any time you talk about the future, like he doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n<p>Is it to stay with you or to be with someone else? There are no future plans that involve you. That is the worst sign you can get from a man that you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando le preguntas qu\u00e9 piensa hacer en el futuro, te da respuestas vagas.<\/p>\n<p>He does this because he doesn\u2019t want to include you in his plans, which means <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/6-senales-desgarradoras-de-que-no-esta-interesado-en-ti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">no est\u00e1 interesado en ti<\/a> tanto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94086 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 dolorosas se\u00f1ales de que no quiere que seas su novia\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You want a boyfriend and you\u2019ve been searching for the signs he wants you to be his girlfriend, too, but you can\u2019t seem to find any? Well, maybe he really doesn\u2019t want anything serious and he is not on the same page as you. This happens all the time and you are not the only&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":94087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20106","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/7-Painful-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-You-To-Be-His-Girlfriend.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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