{"id":20186,"date":"2019-06-26T07:39:49","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T07:39:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20186"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:10:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:10:53","slug":"se-que-enamorarse-da-miedo-pero-el-chico-adecuado-hara-que-valga-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-que-enamorarse-da-miedo-pero-el-chico-adecuado-hara-que-valga-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e9 que enamorarse da miedo pero el chico adecuado har\u00e1 que merezca la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca has sido un cobarde. Al contrario, siempre has caminado por la vida con fiereza y sin miedo. Siempre has sido valiente y fuerte.<\/p>\n

Excepto por una cosa.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve become terrified of love and anything that has to do with it. Even la idea de enamorarse se ha vuelto aterradora<\/a> a ti.<\/p>\n

You justify yourself by saying that you can\u2019t force yourself to have faith in love when you\u2019ve been betrayed and hurt so many times because of it. You can\u2019t believe that love can be pure and that it can have a positive outcome on you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve even become sarcastic and pessimistic when love is in question. But if you are honest toward yourself, you\u2019ll see that you are only trying to mask your fear with this sarcasm and irony.<\/p>\n

But the way you see love is nothing unnatural, taking into consideration everything you\u2019ve been through in the past.<\/p>\n

Cuando miras tu vida sentimental y tu historia de amor desde este punto de vista, no ves nada positivo.<\/strong> S\u00ed, claro que tienes algunos recuerdos cari\u00f1osos, pero prevalecen los feos.<\/p>\n

Sadly, the pain and the sadness prevail in the rare moments of happiness you\u2019ve experienced.<\/p>\n

Era como si cada hombre que entraba en tu vida tuviera una agenda oculta. Era como si todos ellos s\u00f3lo quisieran utilizarte, hacerte da\u00f1o y dejarte para que lucharas por tu cuenta, mientras ellos continuaban con sus vidas.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve had different types of men in your life but somehow they all turned out to be wrong for you. Somehow, they\u2019ve all managed to hurt you in different ways.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y, por supuesto, todo lo que ha pasado ha dejado secuelas en tu personalidad. Cambi\u00f3 tu visi\u00f3n de la vida y del amor y te cambi\u00f3 como persona.<\/p>\n

All of these men didn\u2019t just hurt you\u2014they\u2019ve made you believe that every person in this world will treat you the same. They\u2019ve made you think that you are obviously not worthy of someone loving you the right way and they\u2019ve convinced you that you shouldn\u2019t trust anyone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So naturally, you\u2019ve become scared and you\u2019ve te prometiste no volver a amar<\/a>. You\u2019ve become afraid of letting anyone in your life, of giving yourself to someone new and of giving men a chance.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve become petrified of trusting people and most of all, you\u2019ve become scared of falling in love, thinking it would only bring you suffering.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know you are scared and there is nothing wrong with that. I know you\u2019ve lost all faith in ever finding the man who would derriba tus muros<\/a> because you think he would destroy you. I know you\u2019ve lost all faith in ever loving someone and of ever being loved.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that the right guy will make all of these fears go away, as if they never existed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te dar\u00e1 todo su amor y su apoyo y te har\u00e1 comprender que siempre puedes contar con \u00e9l, pase lo que pase. Har\u00e1 de su deber convencerte de que es alguien en quien puedes confiar.<\/p>\n

Har\u00e1 todo lo posible por demostrarte que nunca se ir\u00e1 de tu lado y que se quedar\u00e1 contigo en las buenas y en las malas.<\/p>\n

Este chico nunca te har\u00e1 dudar de su lealtad o del amor que siente por ti. Nunca te har\u00e1 cuestionar tu val\u00eda y nunca te har\u00e1 mendigar su amor y su atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And most importantly\u2014he will always fulfill his promises. He will never back out on you nor will he leave you hanging.<\/p>\n

En cambio, siempre respaldar\u00e1 sus palabras, demostr\u00e1ndote que puedes confiar en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Nunca har\u00e1 nada para herirte deliberadamente, porque siempre tendr\u00e1 en cuenta tus emociones.<\/p>\n

Y por \u00faltimo, este hombre nunca te abandonar\u00e1 y se esforzar\u00e1 por demostrarte que es diferente a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

I know you think a guy like this doesn\u2019t exist. And even if he does, that he won\u2019t happen to you.<\/p>\n

But trust me\u2014all of this is just in your head. Because this guy will come along when you least expect it.<\/p>\n

When he comes, he\u2019ll show you why it never worked out with all of these men from your past. And he\u2019ll make you understand that everything you went through was worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque cada peque\u00f1a cosa en tu vida, cada tipo equivocado y cada paso en falso que diste, te llev\u00f3 a \u00e9l.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n

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You\u2019ve never been a coward. On the contrary, you\u2019ve always walked through life fiercely and fearlessly. You\u2019ve always been brave and strong. Except for one thing. With time, you\u2019ve become terrified of love and anything that has to do with it. Even the thought of falling in love has become scary to you. You justify…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":20191,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/valerie-elash-623418-unsplash.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20186"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20186\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20191"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}