{"id":20212,"date":"2020-09-27T08:37:51","date_gmt":"2020-09-27T08:37:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20212"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:17:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:17:42","slug":"una-carta-a-la-chica-que-se-esfuerza-tanto-pero-no-llega-a-ninguna-parte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-se-esfuerza-tanto-pero-no-llega-a-ninguna-parte\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que se esfuerza tanto pero no llega a ninguna parte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Miel,<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>I see your effort. I know how hard you\u2019re trying. I know that you feel like you\u2019re going around in circles doing the same things all over again. I know that you think it\u2019s all in vain because you\u2019re going nowhere. You think you\u2019re going nowhere.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quiero tomarte en mis brazos. Quiero asegurarte que todo ir\u00e1 bien mientras est\u00e9s a mi lado. Quiero secar las l\u00e1grimas de tus ojos.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quiero mirarte profundamente a los ojos vidriosos e hinchados mientras te acaricio suavemente la mejilla. Quiero sonre\u00edrte porque s\u00e9 que mientras est\u00e9s a mi lado, todo ir\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>I will respect your hard work and I will value you. I know that at the end of the day, you need some rest. I know that you\u2019ve been working hard and you don\u2019t need to come home and do it all over again because of me. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>I want you to know that I know you\u2019re giving your best.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>I know that you want to make the world a better place. You are aware that any change you are making is just like a small drop in the ocean, but you\u2019ll never stop.<\/p>\r\n<p>You know that you\u2019re making a difference. You want to inspire others to do the same because together we are stronger and we can make a change.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121179 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo largo y casta\u00f1o con un abrigo gris se para en la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-gray-coat-stands-in-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>I understand that it\u2019s hard to be you. I know that you doubt yourself on a daily basis. You\u2019re always questioning whether the cause you\u2019re fighting for is right, whether you\u2019re going to make it. But, I want you to know that I\u2019m on your side.<\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019m going to be your support and you can lean on me whenever you feel tired and you feel like you can\u2019t take it anymore. You can trust me because I\u2019ll help you.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re not putting the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-de-que-no-vale-la-pena-el-esfuerzo-que-le-estas-haciendo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">esfuerzo<\/a> in vain. You\u2019re not buzzing around in circles and going nowhere. You just feel like it because you have had too much on your plate and no support\u2014at least, not until now.<\/p>\r\n<p>I know that you are giving your best to make everyone around you happy. But, be careful because you\u2019re neglecting yourself in the process. You\u2019re putting up with the pain, stress, and pressure, and you won\u2019t let anyone see that. You keep pretending everything is alright when actually, you\u2019re on the verge of breaking.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>I\u2019m proud of you and of everything you\u2019ve accomplished so far. But, slow down a bit. Things don\u2019t have to be done right away. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>The world won\u2019t fall apart because you\u2019ve taken a day off to take care of yourself. That pressure you\u2019re feeling will tear you apart. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>That pressure is not real. It\u2019s in your head and if you organize your thoughts and goals in your head, you\u2019ll see that you have all the time in this world to do whatever you want and you won\u2019t burn out.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019m begging you, slow down. Take a break and take care of yourself. You have to respect your body and mind, and you mustn\u2019t force too hard because you won\u2019t be able to do that for so long.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s better to take some rest now and continue with full strength when you\u2019re ready.<\/p>\r\n<p>I don\u2019t doubt you, not even for a second. I know you are capable of great things and I know they are yet to come. I don\u2019t want you to give it your all and use everything up before it\u2019s time.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quiero que sigas adelante porque te esperan muchas cosas bonitas. Celebra tus victorias, trabaja duro, pero s\u00e9 inteligente y t\u00f3mate un descanso cuando sientas que lo necesitas.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>In the end, everything will end up the way you wanted. And if it doesn\u2019t, then it\u2019s not the end yet. Just wait and see.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>El amor,<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>Tu mayor y m\u00e1s querido admirador<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>Por Owen Scott<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-121177\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Is-Trying-So-Hard-But-Getting-Nowhere-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Carta a la chica que se esfuerza tanto pero no llega a ninguna parte\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Is-Trying-So-Hard-But-Getting-Nowhere-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Is-Trying-So-Hard-But-Getting-Nowhere-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Is-Trying-So-Hard-But-Getting-Nowhere-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Is-Trying-So-Hard-But-Getting-Nowhere-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Honey, I see your effort. I know how hard you\u2019re trying. I know that you feel like you\u2019re going around in circles doing the same things all over again. I know that you think it\u2019s all in vain because you\u2019re going nowhere. You think you\u2019re going nowhere. 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