{"id":20271,"date":"2018-06-28T09:59:20","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T09:59:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20271"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:32","slug":"no-te-conformes-con-un-chico-que-no-esta-preparado-para-ser-un-hombre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-conformes-con-un-chico-que-no-esta-preparado-para-ser-un-hombre\/","title":{"rendered":"No te conformes con un chico que no est\u00e1 preparado para ser un hombre"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve always been someone who\u2019s followed your heart, especially when it came to love and romantic relations. Even when your mind was telling you that something was a bad idea and when you clearly saw that a certain guy was not good for you, you would still let your emotions guide you and they were always stronger than your reason.<\/p>\n

But when you come to think of it and when you look at your life so far from this point of view, you see that you\u2019ve made some wrong choices.<\/p>\n

Hubo momentos en que tu coraz\u00f3n te gui\u00f3 a algunas decisiones equivocadas y a algunos hombres equivocados.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de estos hombres eran emocionalmente inmaduro<\/a> and they didn\u2019t know what they wanted from life.<\/p>\n

Yes, at first, they were attractive and interesting. They were fun to be around and they made you feel good. They made you feel like there was no tomorrow and like you shouldn\u2019t have a care on your mind.<\/p>\n

Pero ninguno de estos chicos ten\u00eda lo que realmente hac\u00eda falta. Ninguno de ellos ten\u00eda madera de novio y ninguno estaba preparado para construir una vida contigo. La mayor\u00eda de ellos simplemente viv\u00edan el momento, sin pensar en el futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And although living your life day by day was fun at the time because you didn\u2019t burden yourself with future plans, when you come to think of it, this type of guy rarely brought you something good in the long run.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 claro que todos estos chicos eran ni\u00f1os en lugar de hombres.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En weren\u2019t ready to commit<\/a> y rara vez estaban dispuestos a asumir la responsabilidad de sus palabras y acciones.<\/p>\n

Yes, you would fall in love in love with them hard but when those initial butterflies would fade away, you would immediately see that these boys couldn\u2019t offer you what you were looking for.
\nViste que merec\u00edas m\u00e1s. Y yo estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que ten\u00edas raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

After all, you are not some immature girl who doesn\u2019t know what she wants. Instead, you are a grown ass, independent woman who has a clear vision of the future and who needs a real man to accompany her through life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a boy who needs you to save him and to lead him through life.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a mama\u2019s boy<\/a> que quiere que seas su padre, un hombre que se sentir\u00e1 intimidado y amenazado por estar contigo.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, necesitas un hombre que te deje ser independiente y que te permita tener una vida propia.<\/strong> Someone who won\u2019t feel the need to complete you but who will want you two to be equals in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Necesitas un hombre que conf\u00ede en ti, pero tambi\u00e9n un hombre en el que t\u00fa puedas confiar<\/strong>\u2014a man who will be your equal partner through life and someone who will be your rock, your home and your safe haven. I am not telling you that you need to find someone who will secure you financially, but you don\u2019t need a lazy boy who never thinks of the future and who doesn\u2019t know what he wants to achieve in life.<\/p>\n

Definitivamente necesitas un hombre ambicioso que tenga metas en la vida y que pueda apoyarte en tus logros.<\/strong> Necesitas a alguien que sepa lo que quiere y que no tenga miedo de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a boy who is scared of commitment and of real relationship.<\/strong> You don\u2019t need someone who will back out on you when things get serious or someone who will run away the second things get rough and when you need him the most.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, you need a man who is ready to share his life with someone and who knows when it\u2019s time to take responsibility for some things.<\/strong> Necesitas un hombre maduro que no tenga miedo de todo lo que la vida trae consigo.<\/p>\n

Y sobre todo, you need a man who won\u2019t be intimidated by your strength and power.<\/strong> You don\u2019t need someone to hold you back to make himself feel better and to make himself look like a bigger man because that is exactly what boys do. You don\u2019t need someone who will use you for his own insecurities and to boost his fragile ego.<\/p>\n

En cambio, necesitas a alguien que siempre te empuje hacia adelante sin intentar cambiarte. Necesitas a alguien que te acepte en tu grandeza y que te inspire a ser a\u00fan m\u00e1s grande y mejor, porque eso es exactamente lo que har\u00e1 un hombre de verdad.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve always been someone who\u2019s followed your heart, especially when it came to love and romantic relations. Even when your mind was telling you that something was a bad idea and when you clearly saw that a certain guy was not good for you, you would still let your emotions guide you and they were…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":20273,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/blake-cheek-656561-unsplash.jpg",800,550,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20271"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20271\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}