{"id":20275,"date":"2018-06-28T10:29:21","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T10:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20275"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:43:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:43:26","slug":"la-verdad-es-que-es-dificil-olvidar-a-alguien-con-quien-has-imaginado-pasar-toda-la-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-es-que-es-dificil-olvidar-a-alguien-con-quien-has-imaginado-pasar-toda-la-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad es que es dif\u00edcil olvidar a alguien con quien has imaginado pasar toda la vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pens\u00e9 que cuando me enamorara de ti aprender\u00edamos a convertirnos en la mejor versi\u00f3n de nosotros mismos. \u00c9ramos la pareja poderosa a la que todos admiraban. \u00c9ramos dos almas que conectaban entre s\u00ed.<\/strong> Every fiber of my being loved every beautiful imperfection in you. However, every fiber in you looked at me as if I wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

If I\u2019m being honest with myself, it still burns that we didn\u2019t work out<\/strong>ya que a\u00fan veo nuestra relaci\u00f3n a trav\u00e9s de unas distorsionadas gafas de color rosa. Sigo pensando en nuestro \"felices para siempre\".<\/strong> Todav\u00eda pienso en los buenos tiempos. A\u00fan nos veo ri\u00e9ndonos en la cocina. A\u00fan nos veo trabajando juntos para cambiar la valla que se cay\u00f3 durante la tormenta. Todav\u00eda tengo im\u00e1genes de cuidarte cuando estabas enfermo. I still see all the wonderful moments we had, and what\u2019s pathetic is that I still see glimpses of our future.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, now you are just some ghost who haunts me when I\u2019m feeling weak.<\/strong> Now I have to learn to move on without you\u2014to live what feels like half a life without you. I have to learn to be OK with the stupid and selfish decision you have made. Tengo que aprender a vivir con el hecho de que lo que para m\u00ed era un alma gemela era un casi amor<\/a> para ti.<\/strong> Ahora s\u00f3lo somos extra\u00f1os en la noche que intercambian miradas al pasar.<\/p>\n

El desamor nunca es f\u00e1cil.<\/strong> However, with you this was different. You told me pretty little lies of wanting to settle down, wanting to have children, and wanting to lead an honest life. However, it still stings to know I wasn\u2019t the one for you. I wasn\u2019t the one for you because at 35 you were nowhere near ready to settle down. While I was ready to accept the future, you decided to close the door. To close the door because you weren\u2019t ready. To close the door because you couldn\u2019t fathom the idea of being with one single woman for the rest of your life. Me dejaste completamente perplejo y con el coraz\u00f3n roto en mil pedazos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cre\u00eda que eras mi mejor amigo y darme cuenta de que nunca lo fuiste fue uno de los peores d\u00edas de mi vida.<\/strong> Best friends don\u2019t lie to each other. Best friends are honest and sincere toward one another. Best friends are empathetic and understand the hardships you\u2019ll endure throughout life. Best friends are persistent and never give up on each other\u2026 but that\u2019s exactly what you did.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A menudo me pregunto si el karma vendr\u00e1 alguna vez a morderte el culo.<\/strong> A menudo me pregunto si siente alg\u00fan tipo de culpabilidad por el da\u00f1o que ha causado. Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, A menudo me pregunto cu\u00e1ndo llegar\u00e1 el momento en que pueda perdonarme a m\u00ed misma por amar a alguien mucho m\u00e1s que a m\u00ed misma.<\/strong> And, again, I often wonder if or when you\u2019ll realize that una buena chica vale mucho m\u00e1s que mil zorras.<\/strong> I often wonder when the day will come when I\u2019ll hear my phone vibrate and the apologies will start pouring in. El d\u00eda que reconozcas que deb\u00edamos estar juntos.<\/strong> I often wonder when I\u2019ll stop having these wretched fantasies.<\/p>\n

I understand that the ride is over. I understand this is for the best, because I deserve the absolute best. However, it still doesn\u2019t help the pain and hurt I feel. It still doesn\u2019t help knowing you gave up the best damn thing in your life for the choices and consequences you weren\u2019t ready to give up. And although we both got off of what was the best ride of our lives to walk in separate directions, my heart still turns around to follow you and your heart. La pesadez en mi coraz\u00f3n parece abrumadora.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Entiendo que soy el \u00fanico que puede arreglar mi angustia. Tengo que aceptar tus decisiones y tu ego\u00edsmo. S\u00e9 que tengo que crecer y sanar mi propio coraz\u00f3n. S\u00e9 que a trav\u00e9s de toda la angustia y a trav\u00e9s de todos los errores que cometimos, esto tendr\u00e1 un resultado positivo. Lo positivo es saber que encontrar\u00e1 el amor verdadero<\/a>.<\/strong> Tengo una mentalidad mejor para reconocer lo que es y lo que no es amor. Encontrar\u00e9 el amor verdadero con alguien que reconocer\u00e1 que soy mi propia persona, amar\u00e1 eso de m\u00ed y \u00e9l y yo trabajaremos juntos para crear una relaci\u00f3n amorosa y de apoyo mutuo. Heartbreak is painful but it\u2019s only temporary. What\u2019s permanent is the happiness you learn to exhibit from within yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The truth is, it\u2019s hard to forget someone whom you\u2019ve imagined spending forever with.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I thought that when I fell in love with you we would learn to become the best version of ourselves. We were the power couple everyone looked up to. We were two souls who connected to each other. Every fiber of my being loved every beautiful imperfection in you. However, every fiber in you looked…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20276,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/rich-brown-219577-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20275"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20275\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20276"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}