{"id":20278,"date":"2019-06-28T11:01:11","date_gmt":"2019-06-28T11:01:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20278"},"modified":"2022-01-14T01:19:36","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T01:19:36","slug":"dame-ese-amor-de-la-vieja-escuela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dame-ese-amor-de-la-vieja-escuela\/","title":{"rendered":"Dame ese amor de la vieja escuela"},"content":{"rendered":"

No es ning\u00fan secreto que El diario de Noa es la novela rom\u00e1ntica favorita de casi todos los millennials. Y, para ser sinceros, nadie puede culparles.<\/p>\n

I think I can speak for most millennial females in today\u2019s society: we want genuine love and partnership but what we want is from a completely different era.<\/p>\n

Una generaci\u00f3n en la que los hombres siempre abr\u00edan las puertas del coche a sus mujeres. Una generaci\u00f3n en la que tu coraz\u00f3n solo era fiel a uno.<\/p>\n

Una generaci\u00f3n que siempre te llenaba el coraz\u00f3n de felicidad. Una generaci\u00f3n en la que, cuando te miraba a los ojos, se notaba en su mirada estrellada que te adoraba y te veneraba por completo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s very clear to me that the love I want is simply from another generation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un amor en el que recib\u00edas cartas escritas a mano, una generaci\u00f3n en la que cuando recib\u00edas flores en el trabajo eran entregadas en mano por tu amante y no por alguna empresa de reparto online.<\/p>\n

Un mundo donde el amor era el poder m\u00e1s fuerte que nunca podr\u00eda ser tentado por una aventura de una noche. Una generaci\u00f3n en la que el amor era tan seguro como las estrellas.<\/p>\n

A menudo me pregunto si la tecnolog\u00eda es la culpable del fracaso de muchas relaciones de esta generaci\u00f3n. A menudo me pregunto por qu\u00e9 la comunicaci\u00f3n, que antes se hac\u00eda cara a cara, ahora se hace detr\u00e1s de una pantalla.<\/p>\n

Receiving hand-written love letters just simply doesn\u2019t exist anymore.<\/p>\n

No cabe duda de que esta generaci\u00f3n de millennials<\/a> sufren m\u00e1s. Sufran los m\u00e1s grandes porque esta generaci\u00f3n ha perdido la el verdadero significado del amor<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ha pasado con los hombres que cortejan a las mujeres? \u00bfQu\u00e9 pas\u00f3 con los hombres que se acercaban a las mujeres por la calle, las paraban y les dec\u00edan que estaban guapas?<\/p>\n

Oh, s\u00ed, Tinder sucedi\u00f3, junto con Bumble y todos los dem\u00e1s interminables buffets que nuestras redes sociales tienen para ofrecer.<\/p>\n

Hemos suprimido la comunicaci\u00f3n que antes se hac\u00eda cara a cara, y ahora la hemos sustituido por algunos personajes entre bastidores.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 querr\u00eda un hombre del milenio comprometerse \u00fanicamente con un amor verdadero cuando tiene un sinf\u00edn de oportunidades en su camino? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 un hombre del milenio, mientras camina por la calle, siente la necesidad de parar a una mujer para decirle que es guapa?<\/p>\n

Puede hacerlo en l\u00ednea, con un cat\u00e1logo interminable de fotos y biograf\u00edas entre las que elegir. Puede hacer m\u00faltiples cumplidos en l\u00ednea con unos pocos clics y pulsaciones de teclas.<\/p>\n

El valor parece ser mucho mayor cuando uno se esconde detr\u00e1s de una pantalla.<\/p>\n

I have suffered the consequences of dating millennials and Generation Xers. All too often, these relationships end because they lack that \u2018something\u2019, that \u2018understanding\u2019, that goes along with true love and real gentlemen.<\/p>\n

Los estudios han demostrado que los hombres tienen mayor impulsos sexuales<\/a> que las mujeres. Las mujeres tienen un mayor control sobre s\u00ed mismas.<\/p>\n

Men relish the idea that they genetically have an \u2018animal instinct\u2019 for sex with multiple partners.<\/p>\n

Today\u2019s Internet, with all its trappings, provides men with their \u2018go to spot\u2019 when there are little bumps in the relationship road.<\/p>\n

Rather than stay and work on the relationship, they open their laptop or phone and search numerous websites promoting that \u2018perfect\u2019 woman, that perfect \u2018sexual partner\u2019 with no strings attached.<\/p>\n

Puede buscar en estos sitios como mi abuela buscaba en el cat\u00e1logo de Sears. Puede hacer un pedido para salir a cenar y otro para tomar algo por la noche.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest with ourselves, men who are on dating apps are not really looking for love but are rather seeking prey.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In addition to seeking \u2018relationships\u2019 online, today\u2019s generation lack the ability to communicate in real time, face-to-face. How often do you see couples sitting together in a restaurant on their phones and not talking to each other?<\/p>\n

When problems do come up in a relationship, it\u2019s all too easy to hide behind that screen and send a text or email.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Viv\u00ed con alguien durante un a\u00f1o a quien tuve que rogar que se abriera sobre sentimientos, que hablara conmigo. Despu\u00e9s de m\u00faltiples veces de tratar de averiguar d\u00f3nde estaba su cabeza en, I found out via a text message that we were \u2018over\u2019.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Detr\u00e1s de esa pantalla m\u00e1gica que proporciona a los individuos el poder de ser despiadados y despiadadas, that place where cowards don\u2019t have to listen to another\u2019s hurt or anger, they can simply type, click and send.<\/strong> Entonces podr\u00e1n borrarte de su tel\u00e9fono, de su port\u00e1til y de su vida.<\/p>\n

Para muchos hombres del milenio, el amor ha sido sustituido por el sexo<\/a>.<\/strong> Parece que el sexo es m\u00e1s importante y es el factor estabilizador de las relaciones.<\/p>\n

Sorry male millennials, I\u2019m calling you out!<\/p>\n

\u00bfLa capacidad de mantener relaciones sexuales apasionadas y locas, en todas las posturas imaginables, es m\u00e1s importante que la compasi\u00f3n y la intimidad intelectual? Atr\u00e1s quedaron los d\u00edas en que aprend\u00edamos a amarnos emocional y f\u00edsicamente.<\/p>\n

Today\u2019s millennials want a fully charged, fully sexed model.<\/p>\n

I was passed along like a rag doll because I couldn\u2019t perform these crazy acts. I couldn\u2019t believe it. My desires and my feelings did not matter. All that mattered was a few minutes of sex.<\/p>\n

Being a good person, a compassionate person, a loving person, did not matter\u2014what mattered was a few minutes of sex his way.<\/strong> Don\u2019t get me wrong, sex is very important in relationships but it should be something done out of love and should be mutually satisfying and should be something that a couple builds on over time.<\/p>\n

Male millennials, think about this: when you\u2019re sitting in your easy chair, with gray hair, dentures, and you\u2019ve soiled your adult diaper, who is going to change it for you? <\/strong>\u00bfSer\u00e1 esa zorra sexy de tus tiempos mozos o la mujer que te am\u00f3 y cuid\u00f3?<\/p>\n

Men also don\u2019t feel accountable for the pain they create in relationships these days. I\u2019m not sure if giving zero fucks is now encoded into their DNA but when there\u2019s a bump in the road, the quickest and easiest way out is to ghost\u2014literally disappear.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter how long you have dated, most millennials are now just adapting to this so-called method. They expect everything to be perfect and the moment it\u2019s not, they walk away silently.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Today, social media determines whether your relationship is worthy or not. How many \u2018likes\u2019 and \u2018shares\u2019 are more important than heartfelt feelings for each other.<\/p>\n

Los selfies, mejorados gracias a las numerosas aplicaciones disponibles, inundan Internet.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones reales est\u00e1n siendo sustituidas por im\u00e1genes ficticias de nosotros mismos y expectativas poco realistas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s sad to say but over and over we see ourselves getting wrapped up into a relationship category that we allow social media to define. Honestly, how stupid is that!<\/p>\n

\u00bfDesde cu\u00e1ndo el concepto de relaci\u00f3n necesita la aprobaci\u00f3n de otras personas con las que apenas hablas o ves? Apenas publicaba en las redes sociales, simplemente porque disfrutaba de los momentos y las fotos que compart\u00eda con mi pareja en privado.<\/p>\n

SINCERAMENTE odiaba tanto a esas parejas que constantemente posteaban sobre sus relaciones porque esas parejas que estaban #SoInLove eran las mismas parejas que constantemente se met\u00edan en discusiones o esas mismas parejas que constantemente se enga\u00f1aban.<\/p>\n

Nadie deber\u00eda buscar validaci\u00f3n en las redes sociales, \u00a1y mucho menos basar el \u00e9xito de su relaci\u00f3n en ellas!<\/p>\n

So for now, until the real thing comes along, the only thing I\u2019ll crave is that endearing love from the old school love. Those handwritten love letters, those hand-delivered flowers.<\/p>\n

I’ll wait. I\u2019ll wait because I know I deserve that legendary love story.<\/p>\n

\"Dame<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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