\u00bfSabes que es f\u00e1cil tachar a alguien de simp\u00e1tico, charlat\u00e1n y amable, mientras que otro es engre\u00eddo, grosero y arrogante? Pues no lo hagas m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n
I know that we, as human beings, like definitions and crystal clear situations. And that\u2019s really great. We would be lost in space without defining what space is. Not everything is simple to define but there is one thing that\u2019s impossible\u2014and that is ourselves.<\/p>\n
I tried so hard to define who I wanted to be and how I wanted to act. I even made up a list of characteristics that I wanted to be known for. After that, I was trying to implement those characteristics in my behavior. And my curious mind wouldn\u2019t let me finish that project.<\/p>\n
Empec\u00e9 a fijarme en c\u00f3mo actuaban los dem\u00e1s y cu\u00e1les eran sus deseos. Llegu\u00e9 a una conclusi\u00f3n muy importante: no puedes luchar contra ti mismo.<\/p>\n
There are millions of different emotions one can feel and express. And you really are not in a position to fight them all. Sometimes you\u2019re angry, sometimes happy, other times you\u2019re simply indifferent. People who saw you once in your life, and that happened to be when you were angry, will always remember you as \u2018that angry girl\u2019. And that\u2019s completely fine. Feeling how you feel is part of who you are, and being yourself is okay. You can\u2019t control how someone will remember you or what emotion they\u2019re going to notice but you can control how you feel about it. Just let it go. It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re \u2018that angry girl\u2019 to someone, because they will also be \u2018that angry person\u2019 to others. One human holds a whole spectrum of emotions and reactions and that makes him or her impossible to define.<\/p>\n
I am angry, happy, depressed, satisfied, curious, crazy, arrogant, rude, cocky, nice, friendly, and a lot more. And I\u2019m fine with it. I don\u2019t need to define myself. All I need to do is let myself feel. I must let myself fully experience every emotion I have because that is what living is all about. When you let yourself feel, be certain that you\u2019re alive.<\/strong><\/p>\n Hermann Hesse once said: \u201cWithin you there is a stillness and sanctuary to which you can retreat at any time and be yourself,\u201d and he was right. Your emotions are your best friends that live within you. Hold on to them. Make them a nice cup of tea and spend some time together. Make them your sanctuary and you\u2019ll forever be feeling happiness the most.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" You know how it\u2019s easy to label someone as nice, chatty, and friendly, while someone else is cocky, rude and arrogant? Well, don\u2019t do that anymore! I know that we, as human beings, like definitions and crystal clear situations. And that\u2019s really great. We would be lost in space without defining what space is. Not…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":20282,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/ikk-bahctiar-391169-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","parent":22911,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29677,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","cat_name":"personality types","category_nicename":"personality-types","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20281","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20281"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20281\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20282"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}