{"id":20312,"date":"2019-06-29T06:28:39","date_gmt":"2019-06-29T06:28:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20312"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:27:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:27:24","slug":"la-vida-es-demasiado-corta-para-enamorarse-de-gente-que-no-te-trata-bien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-vida-es-demasiado-corta-para-enamorarse-de-gente-que-no-te-trata-bien\/","title":{"rendered":"La vida es demasiado corta para enamorarse de gente que no te trata bien"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Haven&#8217;t you had enough? Haven&#8217;t you had enough of all those people who treat you the way they do?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfComo si siempre fueras a estar ah\u00ed para ellos, sin importar lo mal que se comporten? Pues d\u00e9jame decirte que la vida es demasiado corta para esa gente.<\/p>\n<p>Sobre todo si uno de ellos es el hombre con el que eliges pasar tus d\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Life is too short to fall for someone who doesn&#8217;t treat you the way you deserve.<\/strong> I know that this sounds like a clich\u00e9 but isn&#8217;t it true?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re devoting your days to this person who&#8217;s only there to take advantage of you. He acts like he won&#8217;t ever lose you, like you&#8217;ll forever stay by his side.<\/p>\n<p>Demu\u00e9strale que tiene que pens\u00e1rselo dos veces.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tratar bien a alguien significa respetar sus l\u00edmites.<\/strong> Sabiendo que t\u00fa y yo somos diferentes cuando se trata de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/establecer-limites-como-mujer-de-alto-valor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">nuestros l\u00edmites<\/a>, you should also be aware of the fact that people don&#8217;t usually take them into consideration.<\/p>\n<p>What about all those times he made you have sex with him even though you weren&#8217;t feeling too great? What about all those times he made you feel bad about saying &#8216;no&#8217; to anything?<\/p>\n<p>Esas fueron todas las veces que cruz\u00f3 tus l\u00edmites, creyendo que siempre conseguir\u00eda lo que quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tratar bien a alguien significa amarlo incondicionalmente.<\/strong> \u00bfCrees que alguien que te quiere y te seguir\u00e1 queriendo en cualquier condici\u00f3n te tratar\u00e1 mal?<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto que no. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/amor-incondicional-solo-cuidar-a-alguien\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Amar incondicionalmente<\/a> significa que les quieres sin hacerles sentir nunca mal por lo que son y sin juzgarles nunca por sus decisiones.<\/p>\n<p>Pero lo \u00fanico que hace es se\u00f1alarte siempre tus defectos y te hace creer que incluso podr\u00eda tener raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tratar bien a alguien significa no hacerle llorar nunca.<\/strong> Like life isn&#8217;t hard as it is, he makes it even harder for you.<\/p>\n<p>He hurts you with his words and actions, never trying to understand you or apologizing. He thinks that it&#8217;s your fault because you&#8217;re &#8216;too emotional&#8217; and that&#8217;s what makes you cry even more.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t understand. He doesn&#8217;t even try to. All he does is break you, each day a bit more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La vida es demasiado corta para gente como \u00e9l.<\/strong> Only you know how torn your heart is inside and how much it hurts. Is it really fine to spend your days with him, knowing what he&#8217;s doing to you?<\/p>\n<p>Even though you love him so much and even though you two have been through so many things together, he isn&#8217;t worth your while.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La vida es demasiado corta para esperar a que cambie.<\/strong> He won&#8217;t change. Sorry to disappoint you, because that might be the only hope that kept you by his side but believe me, people like him do not change.<\/p>\n<p>Even if one day he is going to be aware of his wrongdoings, that is somewhere far in the future. So while you&#8217;re here sobbing and breaking apart he doesn&#8217;t even mind flirting with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 esperar? Mu\u00e9vete y salva el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al\u00e9jate porque toda tu vida te espera delante de ti.<\/strong> It&#8217;s waiting for you to realize that it&#8217;s OK to discard and move on from someone who doesn&#8217;t love you enough.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s fine to want to be selfish once in a while and save yourself, because that&#8217;s sometimes the only way you can be happy. It&#8217;s fine to love yourself enough and just start over.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So the next time you find yourself in a situation where you feel like you&#8217;re not being appreciated, loved or cared for\u2014you are allowed to leave. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Just remember that in a few years you will happy that you didn&#8217;t waste your valuable time on someone whose intentions aren&#8217;t good and someone who isn&#8217;t even aware that they are doing something wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Life is too short to fall for someone who won&#8217;t treat you right.<\/strong> Hay tantos hombres incre\u00edbles por ah\u00ed que se mueren por una mujer hermosa y cari\u00f1osa como t\u00fa y te prometo que ser\u00e1s capaz de enamorarte de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t stand around and waste your life. You don&#8217;t have forever.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-54858\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/LIFE-IS-TOO-SHORT-TO-FALL-FOR-PEOPLE-WHO-WON\u2019T-TREAT-YOU-RIGHT.jpg\" alt=\"LA VIDA ES DEMASIADO CORTA PARA ENAMORARSE DE GENTE QUE NO TE TRATA BIEN\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/LIFE-IS-TOO-SHORT-TO-FALL-FOR-PEOPLE-WHO-WON\u2019T-TREAT-YOU-RIGHT.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/LIFE-IS-TOO-SHORT-TO-FALL-FOR-PEOPLE-WHO-WON\u2019T-TREAT-YOU-RIGHT-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/LIFE-IS-TOO-SHORT-TO-FALL-FOR-PEOPLE-WHO-WON\u2019T-TREAT-YOU-RIGHT-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/LIFE-IS-TOO-SHORT-TO-FALL-FOR-PEOPLE-WHO-WON\u2019T-TREAT-YOU-RIGHT-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Haven&#8217;t you had enough? Haven&#8217;t you had enough of all those people who treat you the way they do? Like you will forever be there for them, no matter how shitty they behave? Well, let me tell you that life is too short for these people. Especially if one of them is the man you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":20313,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20312","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/david-fanuel-714234-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20312","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20312"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20312\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20313"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20312"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20312"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20312"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}