{"id":20321,"date":"2020-06-29T06:50:59","date_gmt":"2020-06-29T06:50:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20321"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:04:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:04:20","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-se-siente-al-amar-a-alguien-que-no-te-ama-a-cambio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-se-siente-al-amar-a-alguien-que-no-te-ama-a-cambio\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que se siente al amar a alguien que no te quiere a cambio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una de las peores cosas que puedes experimentar cuando se trata de romance y amor es preocuparte por alguien que no se preocupa por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I should know because I\u2019ve been through that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When I first met this guy, he made it very clear that he was emotionally unavailable. I can\u2019t say that he wasn\u2019t honest with me.<\/p>\n

Pero de alg\u00fan modo, aunque deber\u00eda haber huido de \u00e9l en cuanto o\u00ed esas palabras, esto me atrajo a\u00fan m\u00e1s hacia \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Tonto de m\u00ed, pens\u00e9 que yo ser\u00eda la chica que cambiar\u00eda su visi\u00f3n sobre el amor y las citas...<\/strong>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 que ser\u00eda yo quien le convencer\u00eda de que empezara a creer en el amor y que mi amor le ayudar\u00eda a cambiar de opini\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Empec\u00e9 a pensar en este tipo como una especie de desaf\u00edo. Pens\u00e9 que yo ser\u00eda el que para salvarlo<\/a> y el que abra su coraz\u00f3n al amor.<\/p>\n

I have to admit that I didn\u2019t take this guy\u2019s words or actions seriously\u2014I assumed that he was just playing hard to get and that he needed more time to open up to me and to let me in his life.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que ignor\u00e9 todas las banderas rojas y todas las advertencias que segu\u00eda recibiendo de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

En cambio, me esforzaba por encontrar alguna peque\u00f1a pista de su inexistente amor por m\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Segu\u00ed diseccionando cada movimiento que hac\u00eda y cada mirada que me dirig\u00eda, tratando de encontrar migajas de su afecto y algo a lo que pudiera aferrarme. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cada vez que le miraba a los ojos, intentaba encontrar alguna chispa, una pista o una se\u00f1al que me dijera que ese hombre me quer\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Somehow, I lost all of my integrity and pride. I had no trouble literally begging for this guy\u2019s love and attention.<\/p>\n

Y no me cost\u00f3 mentirme a m\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que este tipo me llamaba borracho, a altas horas de la noche, yo lo confund\u00eda con una muestra de su amor.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que me tocaba accidentalmente, yo encontraba algo de pasi\u00f3n en ese roce, aunque en realidad no hab\u00eda ninguna.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, me llev\u00f3 demasiado tiempo aceptar que this guy didn\u2019t love me<\/a> y que nunca me corresponder\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Pero finalmente lo hice. \u00c9l y yo pasamos a\u00f1os en este tipo de relaci\u00f3n antes de que finalmente me diera cuenta de algunas cosas.<\/p>\n

En realidad, pas\u00e9 a\u00f1os siendo suya en mi cabeza, mientras \u00e9l llevaba su propia vida, como si yo nunca hubiera existido.<\/p>\n

Y cuando por fin me di cuenta de que \u00e9l nunca ser\u00eda m\u00edo<\/a>Me di cuenta y volv\u00ed a la realidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But it didn\u2019t bring the end of my misery.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me quedaba un largo camino por recorrer, luchando contra mis inseguridades y mi autoestima. Me preguntaba si habr\u00eda podido hacer algo m\u00e1s para que ese chico me quisiera.<\/p>\n

Why wasn\u2019t I enough for him? Why couldn\u2019t he at least have tried to love me?<\/p>\n

Y s\u00ed, en cierto modo le odiaba, por no quererme nunca como yo quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Pero luego, tras mucha introspecci\u00f3n, me di cuenta de que era mejor que las cosas hubieran ido as\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because when I come to think of it, the last thing I wanted was for someone to love me out of pity and because he felt sorry for me. I didn\u2019t want someone to love me just because I loved him.<\/p>\n

I finally came to the conclusion that this guy wasn\u2019t to blame for anything. He simply couldn\u2019t force himself to feel something that he couldn\u2019t feel.<\/p>\n

Y no hab\u00eda nada malo en ello. S\u00ed, era doloroso, pero era la realidad.<\/p>\n

And I wasn\u2019t to blame for anything either. Yes, for a long time I felt ashamed for all the things I did to make this guy love me and for the effort I\u2019d been putting into something that actually never existed.<\/p>\n

Pero ahora s\u00e9 Acabo de amar a un hombre con todo mi coraz\u00f3n<\/a> y ese amor me ceg\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Y tampoco hab\u00eda nada malo en ello.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que algunas personas son simplemente no debe ser<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que algunos amores nunca suceder\u00e1n, por mucho que intentemos que sucedan.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y me di cuenta de que todo eso forma parte de la vida.<\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

One of the worst things that you can experience when it comes to romance and love is caring about someone who doesn\u2019t care about you. I should know because I\u2019ve been through that. When I first met this guy, he made it very clear that he was emotionally unavailable. I can\u2019t say that he wasn\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91168,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20321","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/This-Is-How-It-Feels-To-Love-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Love-You-In-Return.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20321","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20321"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20321\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91168"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20321"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20321"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20321"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}