{"id":20331,"date":"2018-06-29T08:34:19","date_gmt":"2018-06-29T08:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20331"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:38:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:38:06","slug":"una-carta-a-mi-marido-de-mierda-esta-es-tu-llamada-de-atencion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-mi-marido-de-mierda-esta-es-tu-llamada-de-atencion\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta a mi marido de mierda: Esta es tu llamada de atenci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

A mi \"querido\" marido,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que piensas que eres genial. S\u00e9 que crees que trabajando duro, llevando a los ni\u00f1os al colegio, pagando facturas y acost\u00e1ndote conmigo de vez en cuando te hace un gran marido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m sorry to burst your bubble but you are not! You are far from a perfect husband and I am here today to tell you that out loud.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to pretend that everything is okay just because we have a roof over our heads and because you can afford for us whatever we need.<\/p>\n

It is true \u2014you can afford nice trips, expensive cars for both of us and some extra money for having a good time when we want it.<\/p>\n

Pero d\u00e9jame preguntarte algo: \u00bfEs eso todo lo que puedes ofrecer?<\/strong> <\/em>Do you think that you will be happy if we have money? You see, money is there just to make life easier but it didn\u2019t make anyone happy.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La gente con dinero enferma, la gente con dinero muere, la gente con dinero se decepciona.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think that providing material things will make you perfect in my eyes because it won\u2019t. It is great that you are a hard worker, it is great that you are a good father but think about me a little bit.<\/p>\n

You are probably confused now and you can\u2019t recover from the shock because of the things I am saying, right?<\/strong><\/em> Perm\u00edtame que le ayude a comprender mejor esta situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Dejaste de ser el marido perfecto<\/a> el d\u00eda que nos descuidaste a m\u00ed y a nuestros hijos y te quedaste en casa viendo la tele mientras nosotros \u00edbamos de picnic los domingos.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

The kids wanted to spend some time with you so much because you work all day and sometimes even at night and there are times when they don\u2019t even see you for a couple of days.<\/p>\n

Nuestro hijo quer\u00eda que jugaras al f\u00fatbol con \u00e9l, quer\u00eda demostrarte lo mucho que hab\u00eda mejorado en ese juego.<\/p>\n

\"ni\u00f1o<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que su padre estuviera orgulloso de \u00e9l. Nuestra hija quer\u00eda hablarte de las clases de ballet a las que se apunt\u00f3 hace poco.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda ense\u00f1arte el vestido nuevo que se hab\u00eda comprado s\u00f3lo para que le dijeras que estaba guap\u00edsima. \u00bfY yo? S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda a mi marido cerca.<\/p>\n

I wanted a hug, a kiss and one \u2018I love you\u2019 from your mouth. But none of us got anything that we wanted.<\/p>\n

Habr\u00edas preferido quedarte en casa viendo alg\u00fan partido de f\u00fatbol realmente importante porque s\u00f3lo ocurre una vez al a\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Well, you know what? That day happens only once a year and you won\u2019t be able to bring the past back.<\/p>\n

Dejaste de ser el marido perfecto cuando me dejaste al cuidado de dos ni\u00f1os peque\u00f1os.<\/strong><\/em> You said that someone had to work and you didn\u2019t even sleep with me while they were babies.<\/p>\n

You slept in another room because you didn\u2019t want them to wake you up during the night, so you could be fresh for work the next morning.<\/p>\n

\"beb\u00e9<\/p>\n

And on the other hand, I was all alone with two small babies crying all night long, trying to find out what was happening with them and why they wouldn\u2019t stop crying.<\/p>\n

Y por la ma\u00f1ana, cuando se durmieran, te preparar\u00eda el desayuno aunque Yo era un desastre total<\/a>. Pero necesitabas desayunar y yo era el \u00fanico que se ocupaba de todo.<\/p>\n

Entonces, todo cansado y somnoliento te preparaba algo y te daba un beso, dese\u00e1ndote un buen d\u00eda en el trabajo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPero sabes qu\u00e9? Nunca me besaste de esa manera para decirme que soy una mujer incre\u00edble y que tienes mucha suerte de tenerme en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Tu jornada laboral duraba 8 horas, mientras que la m\u00eda era de 24 horas, sin descansos. Y eso es algo que t\u00fa nunca podr\u00edas entender.<\/p>\n

Dejaste de ser el marido perfecto cuando me dejaste a cargo de todos los problemas.<\/strong> <\/em>Yo era el que se ocupaba de tus problemas familiares y de los m\u00edos mientras t\u00fa estabas demasiado estresado para ocuparte de nada.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Pensaste que el hecho de que estuvieras trabajando era suficiente para que no te pidiera ayuda. Pero la verdad es que necesitaba ayuda.<\/p>\n

I really did. But the one who was supposed to give me some help and support didn\u2019t give it to me. And that is something that I won\u2019t forget.<\/p>\n

So, the next time that I tell you that I need you to be with me, to be the shoulder I can rely on, don\u2019t try to buy me with money.<\/strong> <\/em>I don\u2019t want expensive gifts, just spoil me with understanding.<\/p>\n

Ponte en mi lugar y ver\u00e1s que yo tambi\u00e9n trabajo todo el d\u00eda pero nadie me paga nada.<\/p>\n

You will see that I am also stressed out because I can\u2019t get back to my old shape while you are surrounded by beautiful women every day. You will see that I have dark thoughts and that I cry sometimes.<\/p>\n

But crying is not the worst part. The worst part is not having a hand that will wipe your tears away. The worst part is living with someone who can\u2019t understand you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo peor es que crees que soy todopoderosa. Pero si me miras un poco m\u00e1s a los ojos ver\u00e1s que sigo siendo una ni\u00f1a asustada, esperando que alguien la ayude a llevar esta carga.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t be surprised by all that I had to say. I had to get that off my chest for a long time and I wanted you to know it because I don\u2019t want to sacrifice like this anymore. Not without your help.<\/p>\n

I was always there to give my unconditional love, support and friendship to you and I expect the same in return. So, if you won\u2019t be there for me like you used to, then I don\u2019t need you.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a roommate. I need a friend. I don\u2019t need someone who will just come home, eat, sleep and leave. I want someone who will be a part of the whole process. I need a husband!<\/p>\n

So, my dear husband, this is your wake-up call. If you can\u2019t handle all that life puts in front of us, then leave. But for God\u2019s sake, don\u2019t be a shitty husband!<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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