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<\/p>\nWalking away from someone you love is probably the hardest thing you’ll ever have to do- even though it might not seem that way.<\/p>\n
Cuando hablamos de rupturas y del final de una relaci\u00f3n, siempre nos centramos en la persona que queda atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n
Todo el mundo se preocupa por c\u00f3mo se siente esta persona y por su dolor emocional, asumiendo que alejarse es pan comido.<\/p>\n
Dejar a alguien y romper la relaci\u00f3n es lo m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil que se puede hacer, \u00bfverdad? Pues no siempre.<\/p>\n
Everyone assumes that the person who takes this step doesn\u2019t have any emotions and that they don\u2019t feel any pain. Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t do it, would they?<\/p>\n
Pero la situaci\u00f3n es completamente diferente si <\/b>alejarse<\/b> de alguien a quien quieres<\/b>.<\/p>\n
As\u00ed que.., \u00bfc\u00f3mo saber<\/b> it’s time to move on<\/b>\u00bfAunque tu coraz\u00f3n te diga que te quedes? Y lo m\u00e1s importante... \u00bfc\u00f3mo se hace realmente?<\/b>?<\/p>\n
Well, if you read on, you’ll find all the answers to your questions and more.<\/p>\n
No matter how much you love another person, if they don’t love you back or simply don’t treat you the way you deserve, it’s more than a reason enough to turn your back on them.<\/p>\n
Besides, if your gut is telling you to move away from someone- listen to it- it knows what it’s talking about.<\/p>\n
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Your relationship should make you happy. I won’t lie to you: this doesn’t mean that it will be all butterflies and roses.<\/p>\n
I don’t care if we’re talking about a romantic relationship or a relationship with a friend or a family member: there will always be some ups and downs. That’s just how life works.<\/p>\n
But the problem arises if the downs are more frequent than the ups. And I’m not talking about a temporary phase here.<\/p>\n
No se trata de un periodo dif\u00edcil que usted y su pareja luchan por superar, porque todos los pasamos. Ahora, esto se ha convertido en la realidad de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
The other person doesn’t make you laugh or smile- they make you cry. You’re not looking forward to seeing them because you know you’re up for a fight.<\/p>\n
Tu pareja deber\u00eda darte energ\u00eda positiva. En cambio, te bajan el \u00e1nimo y oscurecen tu esp\u00edritu.<\/p>\n
Deber\u00edan ser ellos los que te empujaran hacia adelante. En cambio, siguen fren\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\n
\u00bfTe suenan la mayor\u00eda de estas cosas? Si la respuesta es afirmativa \u00bfqu\u00e9 haces todav\u00eda en este <\/b>relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n If it’s causing you more stress than relaxation, I’m sorry but moving on is the only option you have. That is, if you don’t want to spend the rest of your life feeling miserable.<\/p>\n I know that you’re scared. This is your comfort zone and you already know how to deal with this kind of pain.<\/p>\n You’re convinced that leaving will hurt even more. But trust me- this pain will be only temporary.<\/p>\n A largo plazo, you’ll feel like you’ve lost a heavy burden<\/b> (because that’s exactly what this relationship represents for you.)<\/p>\n A veces, las cosas son condenado al fracaso<\/a>tanto como usted desea que tengan \u00e9xito. Si usted y su pareja tienen sin futuro juntos<\/a>, las cosas nunca funcionar\u00e1n<\/b>a pesar de todo el amor que puedas sentir.<\/p>\n I know that this is actually what makes your love even more interesting. At the bottom line, you know this relationship isn’t possible and that’s what makes the attraction so fatal.<\/p>\n But hey, sooner or later, you’ll have to look the truth in the eyes. You’ll have to deje de perder su valioso tiempo<\/b> de tu vida y dejarlo.<\/p>\n Bien, why can’t that moment be now<\/b>? Si ves que algo es una receta para el desastre, \u00bfqu\u00e9 hay que esperar para separarse de esa persona?<\/p>\n En lugar de posponer lo inevitable, s\u00f3lo hacer un corte claro<\/b>. En lugar de buscar excusas para quedarte, vete y no mires atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed. you can’t change the outcome<\/b>. I don’t know if this is a forbidden love we’re talking about, if this is someone you have different life priorities with or you’ll just never be loved the way you deserved.<\/p>\n En cualquier caso, la cuesti\u00f3n es pr\u00e1cticamente la misma. Y el resultado final ser\u00e1 el mismo.<\/p>\n Yes, the truth is that you should live in the present moment. But it’s about time you empieza a pensar en tu futuro<\/b> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n Maybe something is telling you that your seemingly perfect romance is about to become abusive, that your partner is not what they want the world to think or just that you won’t be happy together.<\/p>\n You don’t have a logical explanation for this but it’s like una vocecita te grita que corras<\/b>. Por un lado, amas a esta persona hasta la luna y de vuelta, pero al mismo tiempo, tienes este impulso incontrolable de escapar de esta relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n Sounds weird, I know. But if this is something you’ve been experiencing lately, you know exactly what I’m talking about.<\/p>\n Bueno, en ese caso, d\u00e9jame darte un consejo: nunca ignores tu intuici\u00f3n<\/b>. Existe por una raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n It’s possible that tu subconsciente nota algunas <\/b>banderas rojas<\/b><\/a> you’re deliberately blind and deaf for. These are not false alarms- you’re detecting a heads up that you should pay close attention to.<\/p>\n I’m not saying that you must run for your life on the first sign of warning. But if this keeps on happening and at the same time, you’re lying to yourself that you can make your relationship work- it’s time to walk away.<\/p>\n No importa lo que te diga la otra persona, no hay amor rom\u00e1ntico sin respeto incluido. De hecho, no hay no hay amor en general donde hay <\/b>ning\u00fan respeto<\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n These two things go hand in hand with each other. If you’re not respected- you’re not loved either.<\/p>\n And what more do you need to leave this toxic relationship? It’s about time you stand up for yourself and call it quits.<\/p>\n Tal vez su pareja le es infiel<\/a>. Maybe they try to control you. Maybe they don’t appreciate everything you do for your relationship. Maybe they treat you as the submissive one.<\/p>\n Los ejemplos y las posibilidades son infinitos. Pero todos los expertos en relaciones te dir\u00e1n lo mismo: lack of respect is one of the red flags you mustn’t ignore<\/b>.<\/p>\n Recuerda lo que mereces. Abre los ojos y comprende que esto no es un <\/b>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/b> deber\u00edas dedicarle otro minuto.<\/p>\n Loving someone who doesn’t love you back is no shame. These things happen, especially if the other person has been leading you on.<\/p>\n They’re probably giving you false hope<\/b>. Nunca te dijeron que te quer\u00edan de verdad, pero siguen envi\u00e1ndote se\u00f1ales contradictorias que te dejan confundido.<\/p>\n One day, they act like they’re one step away from getting their act together. They send you signs they’re in love<\/a> with you and you think you’ve finally achieved your goal.<\/p>\n But then, when they see that you’re crazy for them all over again, they change their story and go back to ignoring you.<\/p>\n Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed: this guy or a girl don’t love you and never will<\/b>. They enjoy the attention they’re getting from you and that’s all.<\/p>\n But you can be in a romantic relationship with the person who doesn’t love you as well. This option is much more painful.<\/p>\n They’re with you because they’re scared of change or because they know they can’t find anyone better. Either way, the point is that their behavior patterns are clearly showing you how much they don’t care.<\/p>\n Usted shouldn’t stay next to someone who doesn’t love you back<\/b>, no matter how much you love them. Your love isn’t enough to compensate for their indifference.<\/p>\n Odio tener que dec\u00edrtelo, pero no hay nada que realmente puedas hacer aqu\u00ed excepto irte<\/b>. Don’t spend any more minutes of your life waiting for a miracle that will never happen.<\/p>\n You need a real relationship where you’ll be loved and cherished, the way you deserve. But you can never find it as long as you’re stuck with this misery.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s del amor y el respeto, hay otros fundamentos de una relaci\u00f3n sana. Uno de ellos es la confianza.<\/p>\n Si el la confianza se rompe sin remedio<\/b>, it will be hard to make the relationship work. I’m not saying that it’s impossible but it is definitely one of the reasons to move away.<\/p>\n What will you do if you can’t reconstruirlo<\/a>? Will you spend the rest of your life next to someone you can’t trust? Absolutely not because that would equal spiritual suicide.<\/p>\n Si te quedas, las dudas se convertir\u00e1n en tu fiel compa\u00f1ero<\/b>. You’ll question every word that comes out of your partner’s mouth and eventually, these suspicions will eat you alive.<\/p>\n \u00bfQuieres esto para ti? Apuesto a que no.<\/p>\n The same goes both ways. If your better half doesn’t trust you even though you haven’t done anything to make them feel that way, there is nothing much to do but to pack your bags.<\/p>\n Tarde o temprano, estas tensiones acabar\u00e1n contigo.<\/p>\n Compromise is just a word in a dictionary as far as you’re concerned. Both of you stick to your attitudes and there is no chance of meeting halfway.<\/p>\n What’s even worse- no hay esperanza de que la situaci\u00f3n cambie en el futuro<\/b>. You’re simply no compatible<\/a>.<\/p>\n Esto podr\u00eda ser amor verdadero pero tristemente, ruptura<\/b> es la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n razonable<\/b>.<\/p>\n Olv\u00eddate de la pasi\u00f3n por un momento. Olv\u00eddate de los fuegos artificiales y las mariposas.<\/p>\n Let’s be real: \u00bften\u00e9is alguna posibilidad de funcionar?<\/b> I’m not saying that this is not true love but trust me- staying in this relationship is more likely to lead you to a broken heart than leaving on time.<\/p>\n Te cuesta estar solo<\/a>. You’re terrified that you’ll never find love. You want to fit in with your best friends and have a romantic partner as well. You think you’ll die alone.<\/p>\n Te suena familiar, \u00bfverdad? Podr\u00eda seguir y seguir as\u00ed eternamente. Estas son todas las razones por las que la gente se queda en malas relaciones.<\/p>\n If you’ve been thinking about <\/b>alejarse<\/b> de alguien a quien quieres desde hace tiempo pero te quedas por las razones equivocadas... \u00a1deja de hacerlo!<\/b><\/p>\n I don’t care if you two have a history together. I don’t care what your best friends and family members will say.<\/p>\n I don’t care if this person is your safe harbour. I don’t care if they’re your comfort zone and whether you’re terrified of stepping into the unknown.<\/p>\n I don’t care about all those wrong reasons you still haven’t packed your bags. And neither should you.<\/p>\n You can’t leave a loved one in a blink of an eye. It’s a process that includes grieving, putting everything on a scale, regaining your sense of self-worth and finally, reaching your happiness.<\/p>\n Si te preguntas c\u00f3mo alejarte de la persona que amas, lee esto gu\u00eda paso a paso<\/b> que te ayudar\u00e1n a hacer las cosas con las menores consecuencias emocionales.<\/p>\n El primer paso es hacer una lista de razones a favor y en contra de marcharse<\/b>. S\u00e9 lo m\u00e1s realista posible y ponlo todo en una balanza.<\/p>\n Put love on the list as well. But if you’re wondering how to marcharse<\/a> y el amor rom\u00e1ntico que sientes es lo \u00fanico positivo de tu lista, todo est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que claro.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if your loved one doesn’t respect you, keeps on hurting your mental health or is a selfish jerk who thinks of their own needs only, without paying attention to you- no hay muchas dudas sobre lo que debe hacer<\/b>.<\/p>\n Lo mejor es escriba esta lista en un papel<\/b>. Esta es la manera de ver literalmente todas las diferencias entre los pros y los contras.<\/p>\n Don’t rush yourself into anything. Take some time to figure things out and you’ll see that new items will pop out on your list.<\/p>\n No basta con que t\u00fa quieras a alguien y \u00e9l te corresponda. S\u00e9 que el mundo ser\u00eda un lugar mucho mejor si el amor es lo \u00fanico que importa <\/a>but hey, this is not a fairytale or a romantic comedy- we’re talking about real life here.<\/p>\n If you two don’t have similar short term and long term goals, if they don’t appreciate your efforts and sacrifices and if you’re emotionally neglected, everything else is in vain.<\/p>\n Esto es especialmente cierto si hay infidelidad o abuso de por medio. Puede que tu pareja te jure amor eterno, pero if their actions don’t match their words- what else besides leaving can you do?<\/b><\/p>\n You’re an adult and there is no point in pretending that you’re living on a ninth cloud anymore- especially if you’re in the middle of hell.<\/p>\n Para variar, d\u00e9jate guiar por la raz\u00f3n<\/b>. Enciende tu cerebro y te mostrar\u00e1 el camino correcto.<\/p>\n Eres muy consciente de la intensidad de las emociones que sientes por ellos, pero simplemente tienes que elegirte a ti mismo por encima de esa persona.<\/p>\n Y la \u00fanica forma de hacerlo es alejarse de la persona que te est\u00e1 complicando la vida, a pesar de todo el amor que pueda existir entre vosotros.<\/p>\n Llega un momento en el que sientes que est\u00e1s perdiendo la cordura cerca de alguien. Ves que est\u00e1s perdiendo el control de ti mismo por culpa de esa persona.<\/p>\n And most importantly\u2014you see that you will lose yourself if you stay by this person\u2019s side.<\/p>\n Well, it’s about time you el\u00edgete a ti mismo antes que a la persona que amas<\/b><\/a> and to think about your own well-being. That’s the only way to make the right call.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, el amor rom\u00e1ntico es importante. Pero cr\u00e9eme, el amor propio es a\u00fan m\u00e1s significativo. Cuando te das cuenta de que ponerte a ti mismo y a tu felicidad en el <\/b>primer puesto<\/b>, you’ll understand that staying next to someone who is breaking your heart is not even an option.<\/p>\n Making this decision will be one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do- I won’t sugarcoat it. But once you make it, there is no going back.<\/p>\n Tienes que perseverar en los d\u00edas buenos y malos<\/b>. And yes, there will be bad days. But you’re strong enough to survive them.<\/p>\n You won’t accomplish anything by walking away from someone you love and then returning to them once you start to miss them.<\/p>\n First of all, they won’t take you seriously. They’ll think they can continue playing with you however they want.<\/p>\n After all, your comeback gave them the green light to keep on treating you like garbage. You’re back, aren’t you? Well, that must mean that you’re perfectly okay with the way things were.<\/p>\n What is even more important, you’ll take one step ahead and two steps back. You won’t be at square one- you’ll be in the worst position than before.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, en lugar de rendirte, sigue caminando a trav\u00e9s de la tormenta<\/b>.<\/p>\n La luz al final del t\u00fanel est\u00e1 cerca y tu arco iris te espera al otro lado. Solo tienes que pasar por ello, por muy doloroso que sea.<\/p>\n Knowing this, you’ll understand why tienes que <\/b>cortar todos los lazos posibles<\/b><\/a> con tu ex<\/b>. You can’t expect to supera a tu ex<\/a> si permites que se queden.<\/p>\n No calling them when you’re feeling low. No texting them when you miss them. No stalking their social media profiles and liking their posts. No asking your mutual friends about their whereabouts.<\/p>\n Now that you’ve gotten the courage to kick this toxic person out of your life, it’s time to \u00e9chalos tambi\u00e9n de tu coraz\u00f3n<\/b>.<\/p>\n La \u00fanica forma de hacerlo realmente es aplicar la <\/b>norma de no contacto<\/b><\/a>. Cr\u00e9eme, cada comunicaci\u00f3n con ellos (o sobre ellos) s\u00f3lo reabrir\u00e1 tus heridas que acaban de empezar a cicatrizar.<\/p>\n \u00bfCu\u00e1nta energ\u00eda gastaste en esa persona que nunca vali\u00f3 la pena? \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo has perdido persigui\u00e9ndola?<\/p>\n Now, you’ll Redirige todo este esfuerzo a la persona m\u00e1s importante de tu vida: t\u00fa mismo.<\/b>. Mantente ocupado y trabaja para convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo.<\/p>\n En primer lugar, you’ll have less time to think about the one you left behind<\/b>. If you start working on your goals in this instance, before you know it, you’ll forget they ever existed.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, todo esto aumenta tu autoestima<\/a>. Una vez que finalmente darse cuenta de su autoestima<\/a> and once you are proud of everything you’ve accomplished, you’ll wonder why you haven’t made the decision of leaving sooner.<\/p>\n So, don’t repress your emotions. Don’t act like everything is in order when you’re actually falling apart.<\/p>\nNo ten\u00e9is futuro juntos<\/h3>\n
Deep down, you know it’s time<\/h3>\n
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A veces, tu intuici\u00f3n es m\u00e1s fuerte que cualquier otra cosa<\/b>. There are times when you really want to stay next to someone but deep down, you know that you’re stuck in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\nYou’re not respected<\/h3>\n
Tu amor no es correspondido<\/h3>\n
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We’ve all been there. We’ve been enamorados de nuestros mejores amigos<\/a>, coworkers or people who don’t take us seriously.<\/p>\nSe viola la confianza<\/h3>\n
You aren’t compatible<\/h3>\n
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\u00bfTe has encontrado alguna vez en una situaci\u00f3n en la que un chico o una chica sacude tu mundo pero you both know you’re not cut out for each other<\/b>. You’re different, don’t want the same things in life and are both too stubborn to change your ways.<\/p>\nYou’ve stayed for all the wrong reasons<\/h3>\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo te alejas de alguien a quien amas?<\/h2>\n
Haz una lista de razones<\/h3>\n
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For starters, let’s incluir algo de sentido com\u00fan<\/b> in all of this. I’m not saying that you’ll disregard your emotions completely but they can’t be the only thing making the decision on your behalf either.<\/p>\nRemember that love isn’t enough<\/h3>\n
P\u00f3ngase usted primero<\/h3>\n
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A veces quieres a tu pareja hasta los huesos pero sabes it\u2019s about time to start loving yourself more.<\/b><\/p>\nMant\u00e9ngase firme en su decisi\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
No tener contacto<\/h3>\n
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Ya sabes lo que dicen: Ojos que no ven, coraz\u00f3n que no siente. Pues bien, hay mucho de cierto en este dicho.<\/p>\nTrabaja en ti mismo<\/h3>\n
Allow yourself to grieve…<\/h3>\n
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It’s perfectamente natural sentirse mal despu\u00e9s <\/b>alejarse<\/b> de alguien a quien quieres<\/b>. It’s normal to miss the person you cared for so much.<\/p>\n
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Por fin, no hay que avergonzarse por pedir ayuda<\/b>. You’re going through a hurtful period and you’ve got your heart broken. Besides, at some level, you’re aware that your decision broke it.<\/p>\n![\"una](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/an-imaginary-woman-sitting-by-the-window-2.jpg\")
Sometimes, a complete stranger can turn your pain into words better than you would ever do. You know why? Because you’re not the only one going through this situation. Since the beginning of time, people have been forced to walk away from someone they loved.<\/p>\n![\"C\u00f3mo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Walking-Away-From-Someone-You-Love-How-And-When-To-Do-It-pinterest.jpg\")
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