{"id":20378,"date":"2018-07-02T08:19:43","date_gmt":"2018-07-02T08:19:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20378"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:30:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:30:33","slug":"por-que-las-chicas-inseguras-creen-que-son-dificiles-de-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-las-chicas-inseguras-creen-que-son-dificiles-de-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 las chicas inseguras creen que son dif\u00edciles de querer"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am an insecure woman. Not because I think I’m less worthy than someone else, not because I think of myself as ugly or stupid, but simply because I think that there is always someone better than me. So, I am afraid that you might be aware of that too and that you might leave me for someone who is simply more suited to you than I am.<\/p>\n

Ese pensamiento me est\u00e1 volviendo loco.<\/strong> The thought of you with someone else in your arms drives me nuts and I know that you always get too upset with me because you don’t understand my fears but please try to understand.<\/p>\n

He crecido con la idea de que soy dif\u00edcil de amar.<\/strong> Por muchas razones que se me han repetido y por muchos malentendidos, nunca me he considerado alguien f\u00e1cil de querer. Al crecer con problemas de abandono y siempre temerosa de la idea de que podr\u00eda morir sola, he crecido insegura hasta el punto de que har\u00eda cualquier cosa necesaria s\u00f3lo para mantenerte a mi lado.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es exactamente lo que me hace tan dif\u00edcil de amar?<\/p>\n

Celos.<\/strong> Los celos constantes<\/a>. I know, rationally, that you don’t have any kind of relationship with other women, I know that you don’t even look in their direction and I know that you don’t even text them but just the thought of it is killing me. Sometimes it’s even that friendly, beautiful neighbor who brings us cakes\u2014that makes me burst into tears because I see you smiling at her. The irrational part of me is telling me that each and every one of those women out there could make you choose them over me.<\/p>\n

Tranquilidad.<\/strong> It is not a bad thing, it\u2019s needed in every relationship. All until the point where I get too attached. I keep on asking you if you’re still in love with me too many times a day and I keep on crying if you tell me to stop asking. I simply can’t handle the thought of you leaving, so I need you to reassure me that you will stay by my side no matter what. But with always asking these questions, I seem to scare you away even more.<\/p>\n

Hago problemas de la nada.<\/strong> It’s hard to watch you talk to your assistant at work, who’s this amazing woman with an amazing figure, and not make a scene out of it. I have never seen you touch her and I have never heard a word from your co-workers but that doesn’t change the fact that I hate her around you. Yes, I think that these things are bullshit too but I can’t stop my toxic thoughts.<\/p>\n

I am so sorry for all the scenes I’ve made in public and all those times my silent treatment made you think that I stopped loving you. I’m sorry that sometimes you can’t deal with my mood swings and that I seem cold. But it is all because I am insecure.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que tienes buenas intenciones.<\/strong> I know that your compliments are there to make me feel better but I simply do not know how to receive a genuine compliment. When you say that I am beautiful, I don’t see that. Cuando dices que soy sexy<\/a>, I don’t get it. It’s like having everything, all the happiness in the world, in front of you but your eyes are blinded by insecurities that don’t allow you to see it. That’s how I feel.<\/p>\n

Pero gracias por quedarte.<\/strong> Haces que parezca tan f\u00e1cil y sin esfuerzo. Me amas en su totalidad, sin renunciar a nosotros. Ves mi verdadero yo detr\u00e1s de todos mis celos, mis l\u00e1grimas y mis inseguridades. Ves qui\u00e9n soy realmente y amas esa parte de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Maybe insecure women aren’t that hard to love after all? For the sake of being happy with myself, I will try to love myself too, no matter how much effort it might take me. I will learn to love myself, so one day I can see my own beauty too.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I am an insecure woman. Not because I think I’m less worthy than someone else, not because I think of myself as ugly or stupid, but simply because I think that there is always someone better than me. So, I am afraid that you might be aware of that too and that you might leave…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":20386,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29650],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20378","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-code"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29650,"label":"girl code"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/diego-rosa-627095-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29650,"name":"girl code","slug":"girl-code","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29650,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","parent":29643,"count":41,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29650,"category_count":41,"category_description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","cat_name":"girl code","category_nicename":"girl-code","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20378","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20378"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20378\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20378"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20378"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20378"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}