{"id":20391,"date":"2020-05-02T08:26:12","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T08:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20391"},"modified":"2021-08-11T19:19:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T19:19:01","slug":"esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-debes-luchar-por-la-persona-que-amas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-debes-luchar-por-la-persona-que-amas\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que debes luchar por la persona que amas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, la gente no para de decirte que eres una mujer y que merec\u00eda ser perseguido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That means you shouldn\u2019t be the one to take the first step and that you shouldn\u2019t be the one chasing your man.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve also been telling you that debes mantener tu dignidad, pase lo que pase.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I couldn\u2019t agree with that more.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfes posible que hayamos malinterpretado algunas cosas y que, por el camino, hayamos perdido la noci\u00f3n de lo que es realmente la dignidad?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSeguir tu coraz\u00f3n y luchar por alguien a quien amas equivale realmente a humillaci\u00f3n y a estar desesperado?<\/b>Because I think it doesn\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

Of course, I am not advising you to beg for anyone\u2019s love or attention or to beg for someone to be with you because that is the last thing you should do. I am also not asking you not to chase someone who obviously doesn\u2019t want to be caught because that will surely bring you more harm than good.<\/p>\n

\"mujerPero cuando te pones a pensar en tus anteriores relaciones y citas pasadas, \u00bfcu\u00e1ntas veces has perdido la oportunidad de hacer algo que podr\u00eda haber marcado la diferencia por culpa de tu orgullo?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has querido acercarte a un chico pero tem\u00edas parecer desesperada si lo hac\u00edas?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has <\/b>dejar ir a alguien de quien nunca imaginaste despedirte<\/b>\u00bfas\u00ed, sin m\u00e1s, aunque sintieras algo por ellos? <\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has dejado que un hombre al que a\u00fan amabas se te escapara de las manos sin oponer resistencia y sin intentar detenerlo, aunque pensabas que los dos podr\u00edais tener una oportunidad?<\/b><\/p>\n

How many relationships in your life were ruined because of you or your partner\u2019s ego and pride?<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, cuando piensas en ellas desde este punto de vista, muchas de estas relaciones probablemente no merec\u00edan la pena y quiz\u00e1 era mejor que las dejaras ir.<\/p>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

Pero el viejo t\u00fa, el usted <\/i>before you bought in to everything people kept telling you, didn\u2019t think like that.<\/p>\n

The old you couldn\u2019t forgive herself for not giving some things another try and for not following her heart. The old you couldn\u2019t forgive herself for at least not trying to fight and for allowing her ego and pride to stop her from doing so.<\/b><\/p>\n

So the next time you want to fight for the person you love and care for, just go for it. Don\u2019t think of the consequences and give it a shot. After all, what is there to lose?<\/b><\/p>\n

No hay nada vergonzoso en decirle a alguien lo que sientes y definitivamente no hay nada humillante en esforzarse en una relaci\u00f3n que te importa.<\/p>\n

And no, it doesn\u2019t make you weak. <\/b>Te hace lo suficientemente fuerte como para enfrentarte a tus emociones y a\u00fan m\u00e1s fuerte y valiente por admitir esos sentimientos ante la otra persona.<\/p>\n

Te hace lo suficientemente fuerte como para poner tu coraz\u00f3n en juego y exponerte sin saber lo que puede pasar.<\/p>\n

\"coraje<\/p>\n

Te hace lo bastante fuerte como para volar, aunque exista el riesgo de que fracases.<\/b><\/p>\n

And no, I am not here to guarantee that you\u2019ll win all of your battles and I am not going to tell you that all of your fights will be worth it.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ll lose some wars and that some people <\/b>won\u2019t be worthy of the effort<\/b><\/a> que pones en ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n

But at least, you\u2019ll know you tried.<\/b><\/p>\n

Whenever you look back at things, you\u2019ll know you gave your best and that there was nothing more you could have done to make things work.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll be guilt-free. You won\u2019t spend the rest of your life thinking how things could have turned out with someone and thinking about all the could haves, might haves or should haves.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si hay alguien a quien quieres y crees que hay algo que podr\u00edas hacer para que las cosas funcionen mejor entre vosotros dos, ten el valor suficiente para salir de tu zona de confort y dar el salto a lo desconocido.<\/p>\n

Si resultan indignos de tu tiempo y energ\u00eda, ellos se lo pierden, no t\u00fa.\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ever since you can remember, people kept telling you that you are a woman and that you deserved to be chased. That means you shouldn\u2019t be the one to take the first step and that you shouldn\u2019t be the one chasing your man. They\u2019ve also been telling you that you should keep your dignity, no…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":92552,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-Fight-For-The-One-You-Love.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20391"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20391\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92552"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}