{"id":20476,"date":"2019-07-04T08:38:14","date_gmt":"2019-07-04T08:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20476"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:09:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:09:50","slug":"6-tipos-de-casi-relaciones-que-debe-evitar-a-toda-costa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-tipos-de-casi-relaciones-que-debe-evitar-a-toda-costa\/","title":{"rendered":"6 tipos de relaciones casi amorosas que debe evitar a toda costa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vivimos en esta era desordenada en la que las casi relaciones son m\u00e1s comunes que las reales. Gracias a ese hecho, las citas son m\u00e1s complicadas.<\/p>\n<p>Nos encontramos con hombres que son <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/15-caracteristicas-de-los-hombres-emocionalmente-inasequibles\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>...no estamos dispuestos a comprometernos y s\u00ed a jugar con nuestra mente y nuestro coraz\u00f3n. Por si fuera poco, tambi\u00e9n tenemos la costumbre de autosabotearnos en el proceso.<\/p>\n<p><em>How do we end up in these almost relationships? The honest truth, which some of us aren\u2019t always willing to hear, is that we allow them. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Nos conformamos con relaciones a medias y promesas poco convincentes porque suponemos que tener algo es mejor que no tener nada.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>We couldn&#8217;t be more wrong.<\/strong> Almost relationships aren\u2019t something we should settle for.<\/p>\n<p>Agotan nuestras fuerzas, nunca somos completamente felices mientras estamos en ellas y, esencialmente, est\u00e1n destinadas a terminar en alg\u00fan momento.<\/p>\n<p>Everything we had was almost something\u2014almost love, almost commitment, almost a relationship. Unfortunately, our heart doesn\u2019t recognize almost. Our heart is all in and when it breaks, it breaks completely.<\/p>\n<p>The best way to protect our heart from breaking from that terrible \u201calmost\u201d is by cutting it from our lives as soon as we recognize the signs. Here are 6 types of almost relationships that you should avoid at all costs:<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. The relationship in which we don\u2019t know where we stand<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A simple question such as, \u201cAre we exclusive?\u201d can be so difficult to utter in real life situations. It\u2019s easier to wait for the other side to drop the question than it is to ask it yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You feel safer not knowing than asking the question and getting the answer you don\u2019t want. What if he doesn\u2019t want the same things as you do? What if he is already seeing somebody else?<\/p>\n<p>This is not a place for what ifs. Your love life should be something safe and certain. You should know where you stand. And if he hasn\u2019t brought up the question of exclusivity, the odds are he is not ready for it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s best that you know early on than to hold on to some pseudo-relationship in which you are not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/validate-know-feel-real\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">validado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. La relaci\u00f3n sin etiquetas<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Hace todo lo que hace un novio de verdad. Se mantiene en contacto. Te lleva a citas. Pasa la noche contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Te present\u00f3 a sus amigos. Incluso has conocido a algunos miembros de su familia. Lo hace todo seg\u00fan las normas, pero nunca te ha llamado novia.<\/p>\n<p>While some might argue that it\u2019s more important to pay attention to things somebody does rather than says, in this case, words do count. Somebody\u2019s unwillingness to call you his girlfriend might be a major red flag that indicates fear of commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Habla con \u00e9l y averigua cu\u00e1l es el problema. Si se niega a llamarte novia, ni\u00e9gate a ser su casi-novia.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. El tipo secreto de relaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-estas-atrapado-en-una-relacion-de-texto\/\">los dos os est\u00e1is mandando mensajes<\/a> o salir juntos, todo va genial. Entre las cuatro paredes de tu casa o la suya, sois la pareja m\u00e1s feliz del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>Los problemas empiezan cuando se trata de presentarle a otras personas y de hacer p\u00fablica su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>He might even give you some reasons why you still can\u2019t go public with your relationship and if you listen closely, none of his excuses make any sense.<\/p>\n<p>Love is not loving when you keep it a secret. If he is being secretive about you or making you keep quiet about your relationship, there is something murky going on and you shouldn\u2019t tolerate it.<\/p>\n<p>If he can\u2019t make your love public there should be no place for him in your life.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. The almost \u2018back with your ex\u2019 type of relationship<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>These type of almost relationships are the worst\u2014when you are in the process of patching things up with your ex, but you never patch them completely.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que sigues oficialmente soltera, \u00e9l no invierte en tu relaci\u00f3n y tiene todos los beneficios de novio.<\/p>\n<p>He probably doesn\u2019t see any necessity to change this situation. You have to let him know that there is no place for almost. Either you are back together or you are officially over.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. La relaci\u00f3n en la que sientes que no eres lo suficientemente bueno<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Tu relaci\u00f3n debe ser algo que despliegue tus alas y te haga volar a\u00fan m\u00e1s alto, no algo que te siga hundiendo.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of women out there who\u2019ve lost their confidence due to being mistreated, underappreciated and belittled in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Si alguien <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-te-perdono-por-hacerme-sentir-que-no-soy-lo-suficientemente-buena\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">hacerte sentir que no eres suficiente<\/a>, make sure to say your goodbyes as soon as possible. Don\u2019t waste your life on somebody like this.<\/p>\n<p>Definitivamente es tu casi novio porque uno de verdad nunca har\u00eda nada para que te sintieras mal contigo misma. \u00c9l es el que nunca ser\u00e1 suficiente para ti.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. La relaci\u00f3n basada en el sexo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Este tipo de relaci\u00f3n deber\u00eda ser f\u00e1cil de detectar, pero nuestras emociones tienen una forma impecable de nublar nuestro juicio.<\/p>\n<p>There will be some signs that he is not ready to commit\u2014like fleeing the scene right after sex with some great but still lame excuse.<\/p>\n<p>Apenas pasa la noche. Ignora la parte de los mimos despu\u00e9s del sexo. Nunca viene cuando tienes la regla.<\/p>\n<p>Si 90% del tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-innegables-solo-quiere-sexo-no-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">todo sobre el sexo<\/a>, you are not in a real relationship. And while sex is important, it\u2019s just a part of a relationship, not the whole thing.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anybody get away with it. If sex is all they want, let them look for it elsewhere you are worth so much more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-54364 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2.jpg\" alt=\"6 TIPOS DE CASI-RELACI\u00d3N QUE DEBE EVITAR A TODA COSTA\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/6-TYPES-OF-ALMOST-RELATIONSHIPS-YOU-SHOULD-AVOID-AT-ALL-COSTS-2-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We live in this messed up era where almost relationships are more common than real ones. Thanks to that fact, dating is more complicated. We come across men that are emotionally unavailable, unready to commit and ready to play with our minds and our hearts. As if that was not enough, we also have this&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":20477,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/joshua-rawson-harris-664983-unsplash.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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