{"id":20554,"date":"2020-03-05T12:09:46","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T12:09:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20554"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:00:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:00:43","slug":"9-razones-por-las-que-tu-pareja-te-ignora-y-como-reaccionar-ante-ellas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-razones-por-las-que-tu-pareja-te-ignora-y-como-reaccionar-ante-ellas\/","title":{"rendered":"9 razones por las que tu pareja te ignora y c\u00f3mo reaccionar ante ellas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being ignored by the one you love is the worst feeling ever. You feel unwanted, like you’re just not good enough for him.<\/p>\n

Lo que haces es repasar todas esas cosas de las que has hablado y recuerdas todas las cosas que le has hecho que podr\u00edan haberle hecho actuar as\u00ed, pero de alguna manera, nada parece haberle hecho el suficiente da\u00f1o como para que realmente te ignore durante tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo reaccionas ante esta situaci\u00f3n? Your partner hasn’t texted you<\/a> for days and when you’re together at home, he seems to be avoiding you at any cost.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que te enfrentas a \u00e9l por esto, lo \u00fanico que hace es responder en un tono tan fr\u00edo que se te hiela la sangre en las venas.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me ignoran? Podr\u00eda haber muchas razones posibles que en realidad le hizo correr por las colinas.<\/p>\n

Women do so many dramatic things that make men question why they’re with us at all.<\/p>\n

We’re not even aware of them, most of the time, because we do it all unknowingly.<\/p>\n

Due to the fact that you’re not able to see the reasons, I will give you a few possibilities why he might be ignoring you:<\/p>\n

You’re being too needy<\/h2>\n

\"mujer <\/p>\n

Let’s face it, women are sometimes too needy and too clingy without even being aware of it.<\/p>\n

We forget that men don’t think the way we do. They don’t need to be around us all of the time and they don’t need someone constantly nagging them about everything and anything.<\/p>\n

That’s when they turn to ignoring us because they think that this way, they will make sure that we get the hint. They love us, but they can’t take our clinginess.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ignoraste sus necesidades<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There are certain rules in every relationship. For example, my partner doesn’t like PDA too much and whenever I cling to him in public, it drives him nuts.<\/p>\n

It’s just the way he is. I can’t blame him for not wanting to kiss me and touch me in public, but if I want him to not get mad, I have to respect his needs.<\/p>\n

If you have done something to upset your partner, that might be the reason he’s ignoring you.<\/p>\n

He must be thinking that if you’re ignoring his needs, he has the right to ignore yours and now you\u2019re stuck in a toxic circle which neither one of you knows how to react to.<\/p>\n

Tiene expectativas demasiado altas<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You might be having too high expectations for your relationship. You might even be inflicting unrealistic rules into his life that are simply too much for him and he doesn’t know how to handle all of that pressure.<\/p>\n

That’s why he goes and hides himself, showing you only a cold shoulder.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t know how to tell you that you want too much from him without hurting you, so he says nothing instead.<\/p>\n

Tiene demasiado trabajo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre
\nIn order to understand what is going through his mind, maybe it’s best for you to actually see his work schedule.<\/p>\n

He might be overwhelmed with work right now and he doesn’t have time to talk and spend more time with you. You shouldn’t take this too personally of course.<\/p>\n

Simplemente tiene que priorizar algunas cosas. Pero f\u00edjate bien, \u00bfrealmente pasa todo el tiempo trabajando o es s\u00f3lo una excusa para salir todo el tiempo y divertirse sin ti?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 perdiendo inter\u00e9s en ti<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Of course, this one you can’t be sure about because the only way to actually know if he’s perdiendo su inter\u00e9s<\/a> in you is if you asked him. So don’t make assumptions right away.<\/p>\n

If he’s truly losing interest in you, he’s trying to get as far away from you as he can for many reasons: to test himself as to how much time can he be without you, will he miss you, are his feelings just false news.<\/p>\n

You’re being too pushy<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You just might be too pushy. You’re pushing him to do things that he’s not a huge fan of and it’s driving him insane.<\/p>\n

All he wants is to have fun for now, but you’re already talking about marriage and kids and moving in together.<\/p>\n

You’re actually freaking him out. You must be aware of the fact that men aren’t as mature as women, so for that same reason, it can actually take him years before he’s ready to come to that stage in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Confrontaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"ma<\/p>\n

So he pulled away from you for quite some time to take a break or simply to play video games for several days (men, right?), but the reason why he is continuing to ignore you is because he actually has to confront you once he’s back.<\/p>\n

Para ser sincero, las mujeres pueden dar bastante miedo cuando hablan de cosas que les molestan, as\u00ed que en cierto modo entiendo la perspectiva masculina.<\/p>\n

He simply might be scared to come back now that he’s been gone for a while. He knows that you won’t let him off easily.<\/p>\n

Necesitaba algo de tiempo para s\u00ed mismo<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aunque parezca mentira, los hombres necesitan tiempo para s\u00ed mismos. Incluso pueden pasar tiempo con sus amigos emborrach\u00e1ndose en un bar.<\/p>\n

It’s just the way they are. He knows that you will throw a tantrum if he told you that he wants to get wasted, so he ignores you in general because he doesn’t want to deal with your drama.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa lo derribas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/strong><\/p>\n

I am guilty of ignoring people who bring me down. I just don’t think I need to have people like this around myself because they don’t contribute much to my happiness.<\/p>\n

So, if you’re someone who gets depressed really easily and if you’re someone who always wants to hear the solutions to their problems from someone else while putting them down as well, than this could be the most obvious reason for him ignoring you.<\/p>\n

How to react to this and handle the fact that you’re being ignored?<\/p>\n

Now that we’ve listed all the possible reasons why he’s ignoring you, what do you do? You probably shouldn’t start yelling at him and accusing him of cheating on you or something like that. Rather, do some of these things instead:<\/p>\n

Pregunte a<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I know that you have been going through so many things in your head and you simply can’t seem to find a reason for his behaviour.<\/p>\n

You remember everything that you’ve done and everything he’s done but you can’t seem to find an answer? Ask him. Even if he doesn’t want to talk to you about it \u2013 ask.<\/p>\n

You can approach this in two ways, depending on the situation: the first way is to apologize and tell him that you’ve thought about everything but you simply can’t seem to find a reason for why he’s behaving the way he is.<\/p>\n

The second way, which is a bit risky is to come off strong and tell him that you don’t have your whole life to waste on waiting for him to make up his mind.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantale si quiere estar contigo. Si es as\u00ed, que deje de comportarse como un ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

If his answer is no and he wants to break up, then you’re better off alone than with a guy who’s so immature.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe est\u00e1 manipulando?<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/h2>\n

There is quite a chance that he’s using this technique to get the best out of your love and affection. He might be doing this to get something out of you.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself: is this is the first time he has behaved this way? If it’s not, how did the last time turn out? What happened?<\/p>\n

When you asked him about why he’s doing all of this to you, the only response was ‘if you payed attention you’d know’ or ‘you know very well what’s up’.<\/p>\n

These sentences are just there to make you wonder about your own behaviour, so he will get the best treatment ever. Don’t fall for su comportamiento manipulador<\/a> m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Adelante<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Otra forma de afrontar esta situaci\u00f3n es dejarse llevar por la corriente.<\/p>\n

He might just be making space between you two to calm himself down or to figure out what’s exactly on his mind.<\/p>\n

So don’t freak out, but rather take this time to do something for yourself.<\/p>\n

Pay attention to your own wants and needs. You pushing him to confront you about his behavior won’t do any good to either one of you, so be at peace for you have nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

Cuando vuelva y decida hablar contigo, entonces podr\u00e1s hacerle todas las preguntas que necesites. Hasta entonces, d\u00e9jate llevar por la corriente.<\/p>\n

Don’t give up on them<\/h2>\n

\"bonito <\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que puede parecer m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil descartarlos y echarlos de vuestras vidas, pero quiz\u00e1 todav\u00eda no.<\/p>\n

Dales tiempo. Por supuesto, ten tus propios l\u00edmites, pero hasta entonces, abre los brazos y quiz\u00e1 vengan corriendo hacia ti.<\/p>\n

Puede parecer que nunca volver\u00e1n a ti, pero \u00bfqu\u00e9 probabilidades hay de que eso ocurra?<\/p>\n

Tu pareja puede estar pasando por momentos dif\u00edciles y si os pierde a los dos, puede ser el fin del mundo para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Don’t blame yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todos somos culpables de esto. Nos culpamos sin saber nunca cu\u00e1l es la verdadera causa de su comportamiento.<\/p>\n

So don’t rush to conclusions and don’t think that just because they’re ignoring you, everything is your fault \u2013 it might not be.<\/p>\n

Hablar con una tercera persona<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

If he’s been ignoring you for too long now, the best thing you can do is ask a third person about what’s happening. You might even ask his close friends\u2014so what if he finds out about it?<\/p>\n

Tiene que saber que te importa. As\u00ed que sal y t\u00f3mate un caf\u00e9 con alguien que quiz\u00e1 conozca la respuesta a tu problema.<\/p>\n

Ask everything that you have to. If this person says that they don’t have an idea about what’s going on, you can always ask someone else.<\/p>\n

An\u00edmate<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nBecause of the fact that it’s been so long since he started ignoring you, you might be getting depressed and frustrated as hell. So chill out.<\/p>\n

Cheer up. Your frown won’t help anyone get what they want. If you’re being very sad around him and if you don’t even bother smiling, it’s just not beneficial to your relationship in general. So smile! Cheer up! Things will fall into place sooner or later.<\/p>\n

So, there you have it, all the reasons he might be ignoring you and how to handle everything with grace. Bonus advice: don’t overdo it.<\/p>\n

I know that it feels horrible and you must be scared to know the truth so you go through all the possibilities in your head and you overthink everything but don’t.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3mate todo el tiempo que necesites para relajarte y dale todo el tiempo que necesite para calmarse.<\/p>\n

Faith keeps the people who are meant to be together by each other\u2019s sides, so there’s nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

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