{"id":20584,"date":"2020-02-06T08:06:21","date_gmt":"2020-02-06T08:06:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20584"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:32:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:32:37","slug":"rasgos-que-tienes-que-hacen-que-un-narcisista-te-persiga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/rasgos-que-tienes-que-hacen-que-un-narcisista-te-persiga\/","title":{"rendered":"5 rasgos que tienes y que hacen que un narcisista te persiga"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Los narcisistas son depredadores y siempre est\u00e1n a la caza de nuevas v\u00edctimas.<\/p>\n<p>They never stop and relax because they can\u2019t live without someone to draw all the energy from.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas inocentes, los emp\u00e1ticos, son sus principales v\u00edctimas. Tienen una gran cantidad de energ\u00eda para dar, lo que atrae a un narcisista m\u00e1s cerca de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>An empath\u2019s energy is the source of their narcissistic life. I met a guy once and he was everything I ever dreamed of. He was just perfect.<\/p>\n<p>His jokes were funny, he was considerate and he was good-looking. He had it all. Even my mother liked him and that\u2019s not an easy thing to achieve.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando apareci\u00f3 en mi vida, todo mejor\u00f3 de repente, todo se puso a mi altura.<\/p>\n<p>Era casi demasiado bueno para ser verdad. Deber\u00eda haber esperado que ocurriera algo grave, porque era imposible que todo fuera tan malditamente perfecto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Los primeros meses fueron como un sue\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vale, tuvo sus momentos que me hicieron dudar por un segundo de su integridad y su bondad pero siempre se disculpaba por todo lo que hac\u00eda y promet\u00eda no volver a hacerlo nunca m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, pensaba que todo el mundo ten\u00eda derecho a equivocarse y a tener un mal d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>There have to be a few bumps in the road. It\u2019s how relationships work. You hit a bump and you solve it, so you move on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But after a while, you realize that it\u2019s not him who\u2019s apologizing anymore, it\u2019s you all the time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Something must be wrong in this picture. It was all perfect in the beginning but now you can\u2019t seem to catch a break.<\/p>\n<p>Todo lo que haces te parece mal porque sus reacciones te lo demuestran.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 constantemente insatisfecho contigo y te critica constantemente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Entonces romp\u00e9is. <\/strong>And it doesn\u2019t end there. Either he begs or you beg for the two of you to get back together and you give him a second shot which he doesn\u2019t deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down inside you know that but you can&#8217;t help it because you\u2019re in love and you hope that this time around things will definitely change. Well, they don\u2019t change, they become even worse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Then it\u2019s everything all over again so naturally you break up once again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The story doesn&#8217;t end there. He comes back and he tries to get you back but this time, you\u2019re a bit smarter.<\/p>\n<p>Then the emotional blackmail begins. My narcissist did this to me. He played with my feelings because I didn&#8217;t have the courage or the strength to go <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/4-cosas-que-pasaran-cuando-dejes-de-tener-contacto-con-un-narcisista\/\">ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Respond\u00ed a sus llamadas, quedamos para tomar un caf\u00e9. Comet\u00ed el error de dejarle volver a mi vida, no como amante sino como amigo.<\/p>\n<p>Sent\u00ed pena por \u00e9l porque mucha gente le hab\u00eda hecho da\u00f1o en el pasado. Tantas mujeres le hab\u00edan hecho da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>He couldn\u2019t trust anybody and he was careful with his feelings because of that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Menuda sarta de estupideces.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nunca le hicieron da\u00f1o. Era \u00e9l quien her\u00eda y manipulaba a los dem\u00e1s. Y ahora intentaba manipularme fingiendo ser vulnerable para que yo sintiera l\u00e1stima y volviera con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Me estaba chantajeando emocionalmente y yo no ten\u00eda ni idea de lo que estaba pasando.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Los narcisistas son depredadores emocionales que intuyen si vas a caer en su falso carisma y en sus trucos. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Saben exactamente a qu\u00e9 persona elegir y utilizar para impulsarse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> They have a sixth sense for that and they can tell if you\u2019re going to buy their shit.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Te des cuenta o no, tienes ciertos rasgos que te convierten en objetivo de un narcisista.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes algo que saben que pueden usar y tirar cuando hayan terminado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Conf\u00edas en la gente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80367 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/cute-smiling-woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-and-looking-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"linda mujer sonriente sosteniendo una taza de caf\u00e9 y mirando a un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/cute-smiling-woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-and-looking-at-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/cute-smiling-woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-and-looking-at-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/cute-smiling-woman-holding-cup-of-coffee-and-looking-at-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re naive and trusting which makes you blind to the subtle signs that you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you ignore those red flags a narcissist shows, and they have to show them sooner or later, but you simply can&#8217;t comprehend that someone can act that way and you don\u2019t pay attention.<\/p>\n<p>It won&#8217;t cross your mind that this person is trying to use you and that this person is dangerous because you\u2019re not like that.<\/p>\n<p>Tu car\u00e1cter ingenuo te hace creer que todo el mundo act\u00faa como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>Te hace creer que todo el mundo piensa en los dem\u00e1s como en s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n<p>You believe them because you don\u2019t think that they would do something that nasty ever.<\/p>\n<p>You just can\u2019t see the red flags that this person is someone you should get away from as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re kind and compassionate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80368 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-fall-in-love-at-sight-in-the-train.jpg\" alt=\"mujer se enamora a primera vista en el tren\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-fall-in-love-at-sight-in-the-train.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-fall-in-love-at-sight-in-the-train-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-fall-in-love-at-sight-in-the-train-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re too loving and you care about everybody. You have so much love to give and you don\u2019t save it for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>It makes you happy when you make someone else happy, even if that means you put yourself second. That is something narcissists can\u2019t wait to get their hands on.<\/p>\n<p>Narcissists see your kindness and they see how you\u2019re nice to everybody and how you genuinely care about everybody and they take advantage of that. They are like sharks when they smell blood.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re lonely<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80369 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie sobre un puente\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-bridge.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-bridge-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You desperately want to find love and because you\u2019re lonely you\u2019ll take anything that is offered to you.<\/p>\n<p>Tu autoestima es cercana a cero, lo que encaja perfectamente con una personalidad narcisista.<\/p>\n<p>When you have no self-love or self-respect, it\u2019s easier to control you and that\u2019s when a narcissist strikes.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que acabas con \u00e9l porque es lo \u00fanico que necesitas en tus momentos de soledad y tristeza.<\/p>\n<p>Te promete todo lo que quieres o\u00edr. Y al cabo de unos meses te encuentras en una situaci\u00f3n fr\u00eda y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-conoces-a-un-buen-chico-despues-de-una-relacion-abusiva\/\">relaci\u00f3n abusiva<\/a>...pregunt\u00e1ndome c\u00f3mo llegaste all\u00ed y qu\u00e9 pas\u00f3.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Odias los conflictos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80370 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-bed-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sad-woman-lying-on-bed-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Narcissists feed on the fear they evoke in their victims. When they start screaming and yelling at you just because they are having a bad day or they want to blame you for something that\u2019s their fault, they provoke fear in you, which is their favorite feeling.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re afraid of conflict and you want to avoid it at any cost. You want to keep things calm, which suits them.<\/p>\n<p>They won\u2019t lose a lot of energy in driving you crazy, they will feed themselves with your fear and you won\u2019t do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p>Esencialmente, cuanto m\u00e1s evites el conflicto, m\u00e1s interesante ser\u00e1s para un narcisista.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t know how to set boundaries<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80371 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Sad-and-lonely-woman-looking-at-her-reflection-in-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer triste y solitaria mirando su reflejo en el espejo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Sad-and-lonely-woman-looking-at-her-reflection-in-the-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Sad-and-lonely-woman-looking-at-her-reflection-in-the-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Sad-and-lonely-woman-looking-at-her-reflection-in-the-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have to know how to put your foot down and say when you\u2019ve had enough.<\/p>\n<p>Hay que saber poner l\u00edmites y no permitir que te pisoteen.<\/p>\n<p>You have to fight for yourself and stand up and raise your voice when it\u2019s necessary.<\/p>\n<p>When you set boundaries and show people what they are allowed and not allowed to do, you\u2019re going to let good people in your life and kick the bad ones out.<\/p>\n<p>You have to show everyone what the things are that you will and won\u2019t tolerate.<\/p>\n<p>When a narcissist gets a hold of you, he will tear you apart. It\u2019s so important to be able to spot and, if necessary, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/guia-definitiva-para-ignorar-las-secuelas-de-la-deteccion-de-narcisistas\/\">ignorar a un narcisista<\/a> para evitar que te claven las garras.<\/p>\n<p>Y no es un trabajo f\u00e1cil. Al principio ser\u00e1n encantadores y cari\u00f1osos. Ser\u00e1n perfectos.<\/p>\n<p>And they will stay that way until they are completely sure you won\u2019t be able to get away that easily.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80372 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Traits-You-Have-That-Makes-A-Narcissist-Chase-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 rasgos que tienes y que hacen que un narcisista te persiga\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Traits-You-Have-That-Makes-A-Narcissist-Chase-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Traits-You-Have-That-Makes-A-Narcissist-Chase-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Narcissists are predators and they are always on the lookout for new victims. They never stop and relax because they can\u2019t live without someone to draw all the energy from. Innocent people, empaths, are their prime victims. They have a lot of energy to give, which draws a narcissist closer to them. An empath\u2019s energy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":80373,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/5-Traits-You-Have-That-Makes-A-Narcissist-Chase-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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