en silencio.<\/span><\/p>\n\u00bfPero sabes qu\u00e9?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Even if you thought that it was all your fault, just know that it wasn\u2019t. You just had the bad luck to be the child of an emotionally unavailable man, someone who couldn\u2019t even love himself properly, someone who gave up on life before his death. <\/span><\/p>\nFuiste una v\u00edctima m\u00e1s de un padre t\u00f3xico que te vio sufrir pero nunca te tendi\u00f3 la mano. As\u00ed que enf\u00e1date, rompe cosas, llora, haz lo que quieras. <\/span><\/p>\nDeja que se vaya la ira.<\/span><\/p>\nDeja que salga toda esa toxicidad y rabia que hay dentro de ti.<\/i><\/b> Porque si se queda dentro de ti, podr\u00eda matarte. <\/span><\/p>\nLa frustraci\u00f3n de no conseguir el amor que deseas es tan grande que podr\u00eda matarte emocionalmente. Pero eso no es lo que quieres, \u00bfverdad? <\/span><\/p>\nYou don\u2019t want your dad to see that he destroyed you<\/span>, <\/span>you don\u2019t want him to see the fire in your eyes getting smaller and smaller. <\/span><\/p>\nYou want him to see you standing on your own two feet after so many bad things that he did to you. You don\u2019t want him to see that you were his victim and that you will have scars on your heart your whole life. <\/span><\/p>\nNo, you don\u2019t want that at all.<\/span><\/p>\nThat\u2019s why you need to be smart.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
You need to think about how to overcome your problems. And whatever you do, don\u2019t try to take revenge on him. <\/span><\/p>\nYa sabes, <\/span>el karma es una perra y le har\u00e1 pagar por todo lo que te hizo. <\/span><\/p>\nUn d\u00eda te pedir\u00e1 que le des un poquito de tu amor, que le des la mano con firmeza mientras pronuncia sus \u00faltimas palabras. <\/span><\/p>\nUn d\u00eda se sentir\u00e1 como t\u00fa, como un ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o hambriento de amor y de perd\u00f3n. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Ese d\u00eda recordar\u00e1s c\u00f3mo le pediste que te cogiera de la mano mientras ten\u00edas miedo. Y recordar\u00e1s c\u00f3mo te solt\u00f3 la mano, dici\u00e9ndote que deb\u00edas enfrentarte a tus miedos. <\/span><\/p>\nEse recuerdo te apu\u00f1alar\u00e1 en el coraz\u00f3n con toda su fuerza, pero aun as\u00ed le dar\u00e1s la mano. Le perdonar\u00e1s por todo lo que te hizo. <\/span><\/p>\nLe demostrar\u00e1s que eres mejor persona que \u00e9l. Pero tambi\u00e9n le dejar\u00e1s marchar. <\/span><\/p>\nBecause holding onto something that was never real doesn\u2019t make any sense. <\/span><\/p>\nAnd if you ever remember your dad, if something reminds you of him and if you wish he was there with you, don\u2019t pick up the phone to call him. <\/span><\/p>\nS\u00ed, es tu padre, es tu creador, pero tambi\u00e9n es el hombre que te arruin\u00f3 cuando m\u00e1s te dol\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\nSe le permite<\/i><\/b> para amarle. Pero amarlo de la manera que \u00e9l nunca se entere. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of winning in the end.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
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