{"id":20615,"date":"2020-04-09T08:07:41","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T08:07:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20615"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:28:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:28:40","slug":"como-distanciarte-de-el-para-que-te-eche-de-menos-y-vuelva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-distanciarte-de-el-para-que-te-eche-de-menos-y-vuelva\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo distanciarte de \u00e9l para que te eche de menos y vuelva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si se muestra distante, no le persigas. Ese plan no funcionar\u00e1 porque \u00e9l s\u00f3lo se sentir\u00e1 m\u00e1s importante.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see that you let him behave the way he wants and that won\u2019t change anything.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll see that you care about him and that you don\u2019t want to lose him.<\/p>\n

For as long as he sees that, he\u2019ll keep on messing with you because he knows he can.<\/p>\n

He can do whatever he wants and you\u2019ll come back to him.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Cambia ese enfoque! M\u00e9tele un poco en la cabeza porque seguro que \u00e9l est\u00e1 metiendo la tuya.<\/p>\n

He is taking advantage of your love and you’re buying it. It\u2019s time for you to change your game. Become more like him. Let him have a taste of his own medicine. You\u2019ll see how things will work differently.<\/p>\n

Usually men distance themselves because they want some space. They have issues they have to solve and by chasing them, you\u2019ll only make things worse. If he wants space, let him have it.<\/p>\n

Leave him alone and don\u2019t bother calling him or asking where he\u2019s been.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to pretend you\u2019re totally cold-blooded, but it\u2019s a win-win situation.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque si le das algo de espacio, pueden ocurrir dos cosas.<\/p>\n

La primera es que resolver\u00e1 por s\u00ed mismo lo que le molestaba y volver<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And the second one is, he\u2019ll see that you’re ignoring him and if he cares about you even a bit, he won\u2019t be able to take it, so he\u2019ll chase you.<\/p>\n

You see, you can\u2019t lose in this situation. You just have to play it smart.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying you should play mind games and use him. You should just teach him a lesson and show him what you\u2019ll tolerate and what not.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEl \u00fanico error que nunca debe cometer?<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so natural that you feel abandoned and hurt if he wants some space, if he wants to get away from you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll feel rejected and who wants that in a relationship? A lot of women make this mistake because their instinct kicks in.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve hurt me and now I want revenge. If you really want him to come back to you, don\u2019t try to punish him for asking some space, don\u2019t try to get even with him because you\u2019ll push him away.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que te eche de menos despu\u00e9s de distanciarte?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f3mate tu tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get ahead of yourself because you might do something reckless, something you\u2019ll regret later on. Try to be alone for a while and let the passion withdraw.<\/p>\n

Take some time to feel hurt. Absorb your pain and let it go away. After it\u2019s gone, you can make plans on how to let him know he needs you and can\u2019t live without you.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jalo ir.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Si necesita espacio, dale espacio. B\u00e1sicamente tienes que dejar de preocuparte por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Of course, you\u2019re not be able to do that, but you can pretend you\u2019ve perdi\u00f3 inter\u00e9s.<\/a> Finge que ya no te gusta tanto.<\/p>\n

Show him that if he doesn\u2019t care and if he is doing this on purpose just to see what your reaction will be, he will see that you\u2019re indifferent.<\/p>\n

Y si realmente necesita espacio para resolver las cosas, hazlo de todos modos porque le demostrar\u00e1s que le has escuchado y que le has dejado en paz para que resuelva lo que le preocupa.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t post everything on your social media<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las redes sociales pueden ser una de tus armas m\u00e1s poderosas. Lo que nunca debes hacer es publicar canciones desgarradoras y actualizaciones de estado.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do that because it will make you look needy and clingy. You don\u2019t want him to see you as a loser but as a fighter.<\/p>\n

Puedes publicar fotos con otros hombres, pero tampoco es un camino correcto.<\/p>\n

Provocar\u00e1 celos malsanos y, para ser sinceros, estos m\u00e9todos de manipulaci\u00f3n no son tan saludables sea cual sea la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si quieres publicar algo, publica tu salida nocturna con amigos. Publica un selfie con una bonita sonrisa.<\/p>\n

Keep your wall positive because after all, after your plan is f+done, you\u2019re going to feel like it.<\/p>\n

Show him that you\u2019re not devastated and that your life moves on even when he is not in it.<\/p>\n

Este movimiento tuyo le conmover\u00e1 y provocar\u00e1 esos sentimientos que quieres que sienta.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll miss you and he\u2019ll realize what a stupid mistake he has made.<\/p>\n

Pasa m\u00e1s tiempo con tus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"amigas<\/p>\n

Sal con tus amigos. Simplemente divi\u00e9rtete e intenta no pensar en \u00e9l. Intenta borrarlo de tu memoria para quitarte presi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Rel\u00e1jate y olv\u00eddate de \u00e9l durante unas horas. Deber\u00edas ir a tomarte un par de copas.<\/p>\n

Go to a concert\u2014you should go wild. Show him you can have fun and enjoy life without him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the center of your universe (at least he shouldn\u2019t be) and you have to make him aware of that.<\/p>\n

Ponte las pilas cuando te topes con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

You have to be aware that you can\u2019t plan when you\u2019ll see him\u2014and you definitely will.<\/p>\n

Prepare yourself for seeing him probably when you\u2019re at your worst. Like coming home in the morning from a wild party still hungover or with your glasses on and greasy hair tied up in a messy bun (not the good messy, but bad messy).<\/p>\n

Get your act together. Don\u2019t panic. Act cool about it. Don’t panic because you look like shit, but try to show him that you don\u2019t give a damn how you look and that you can rock every look possible because let\u2019s face it, you would look amazing wearing a garbage bag.<\/p>\n

Act friendly and show him that you\u2019re glad you bumped into him because you haven\u2019t seen him in a while.<\/p>\n

Just stay cool and altogether. Chat a bit with him and ask him how he\u2019s been?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let his presence affect you because he\u2019ll see it and then you achieved nothing.<\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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