{"id":20623,"date":"2020-07-09T09:22:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T09:22:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20623"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:35:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:35:02","slug":"asi-es-como-se-quiere-a-alguien-que-piensa-demasiado-constantemente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-se-quiere-a-alguien-que-piensa-demasiado-constantemente\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como se quiere a alguien que piensa demasiado constantemente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Si te gusta un <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-things-anxious-overthinkers-will-understand\/\"><b><i>sobrepensador<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>Probablemente sepa que es un gran reto, pero que merece la pena.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sabes que su cerebro est\u00e1 trabajando al m\u00e1ximo todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>For every answer you give them, they have so many questions to ask because that is the way they function and they can\u2019t control it. They can\u2019t just shut down their brain.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Piensan demasiado todo el tiempo en todo lo que ocurre a su alrededor. <\/i><\/b>They won\u2019t believe you when you say that you love them, so you will have to prove that.<\/p>\n<p>They won\u2019t believe when you say that everything will be okay, so they need to wait to see if it actually happens.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t believe that you did something nice for them until they hear about it from someone else.<\/p>\n<p>They are full of negative thoughts and constant wondering. So you have to be their own inner voice, telling them that many people actually like you and that you weren\u2019t lying to them.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Tienes que decirles que todos tus amigos piensan que eres divertido, un buen <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/asi-es-como-se-dice-adios-a-la-persona-de-siempre\/\"><b><i>persona <\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>y que quieren pasar tiempo contigo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You need to tell them and later show them that you love them and that even if they don\u2019t think like that, they are still very special and unique.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120499\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pelo rubio sentada en un banco del parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-with-blond-hair-sitting-on-a-bench-in-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You always need to be there to defend yourself from the things they\u2019ve heard about you and now blame you for.<\/p>\n<p>You need to know that they feel bad when they find out something about you that you didn\u2019t share with them.<\/p>\n<p>Inmediatamente piensan que les has mentido y que les das por sentado.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>As\u00ed es como piensa un pensador excesivo y debo admitir que no es nada f\u00e1cil. <\/i><\/b>No matter how much they want to change they can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much they want to relax they can\u2019t because there is a constant feeling that something bad will happen.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>That\u2019s why you need to understand that they will ask the same questions over and over again.<\/i><\/b> Te preguntar\u00e1n si les quieres y si son suficientes para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Te preguntar\u00e1n si desear\u00edas estar con otra persona o la vida con ellos es todo lo que has estado buscando.<\/p>\n<p>Te preguntar\u00e1n si eres feliz con ellos cada vez que te vean con la mirada perdida.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>They will worry all the time. And that is something they simply can\u2019t change.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven sentada en un apartamento tipo loft\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-sitting-in-loft-apartment-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, ten paciencia. Sean cari\u00f1osos. S\u00e9 comprensivo. Los que piensan demasiado no te est\u00e1n haciendo todo eso intencionadamente.<\/p>\n<p>Son grandes personas, pero tienden a preocuparse y a pensar m\u00e1s que los dem\u00e1s. Por eso la gente tiene prejuicios contra ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Piensan que todos los que piensan demasiado son dif\u00edciles de manejar, que nunca ser\u00e1s feliz con alguien as\u00ed, que nunca podr\u00e1n relajarse lo suficiente como para hacerte feliz y complacerte.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Pero eso no es cierto. Si les das una oportunidad, puedes ser muy feliz con alguien que piensa demasiado.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tendr\u00e1s el amor que tanto ansiabas con ellos si correspondes de la misma manera. Usted puede tener la felicidad, el apoyo, la comprensi\u00f3n y la honestidad de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo tienes que sentir cierta empat\u00eda hacia ellos porque necesitan que alguien entienda c\u00f3mo se sienten realmente.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Necesitan a alguien que les diga que son incre\u00edbles tal y como son y que te sientes muy afortunado de tener a una persona tan emotiva en tu vida.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Necesitan sentirse dignos. Necesitan sentir que son suficientes.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitan sentir que son importantes. Y la mejor forma de demostr\u00e1rselo es queri\u00e9ndoles incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Trust me, you won\u2019t regret it. Actually, you will get more than you thought out of life with them!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120451\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"As\u00ed es como se quiere a alguien que piensa demasiado constantemente\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you love an over-thinker, you probably know that it is a huge challenge but that they are worth it. You know that their brain is working on maximum all the time. For every answer you give them, they have so many questions to ask because that is the way they function and they can\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":120498,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-Is-How-You-Love-Someone-Who-Constantly-Overthinks-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20623"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163639,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623\/revisions\/163639"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20623"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20623"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20623"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}