{"id":20642,"date":"2018-07-09T11:23:09","date_gmt":"2018-07-09T11:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20642"},"modified":"2022-04-27T12:16:39","modified_gmt":"2022-04-27T12:16:39","slug":"7-temas-y-cosas-de-las-que-hablar-con-una-chica-a-la-que-estas-conociendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-temas-y-cosas-de-las-que-hablar-con-una-chica-a-la-que-estas-conociendo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 temas y cosas de las que hablar con una chica a la que est\u00e1s empezando a conocer"},"content":{"rendered":"

As\u00ed que est\u00e1s empezando a conocer a una chica que te gusta de verdad, pero tienes miedo de reventar las cosas desde el principio. Temes que tu pobre habilidades de conversaci\u00f3n<\/a> will chase her away and that you won\u2019t have the chance to show this girl everything you have to offer.<\/p>\n

You are nervous because you feel like you won\u2019t have anything to talk about and you are scared that your date will be a complete disaster.<\/p>\n

Well, your troubles are about to end because you\u2019ve come to the right place. Here is some communication consejo<\/a> y cosas de las que hablar con una chica que te gusta para ayudarte a sellar el trato.<\/p>\n

1. C\u00f3mo fueron sus dos d\u00edas<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

When you are on a date with a girl you are just getting to know, especially if it\u2019s a primera cita<\/a>el mejor consejo que puedes seguir es empezar con temas ligeros.<\/p>\n

After all, the two of you don\u2019t know each other very well just yet, so you don\u2019t want things to get awkward right from the start. That\u2019s why you need some ice breakers and some universal conversation topics you can talk about with everyone.<\/p>\n

Una de las mejores cosas de las que hablar con una chica al principio es preguntarle c\u00f3mo le ha ido el d\u00eda y, por supuesto, hablar tambi\u00e9n de tu d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

You may think this topic is boring but trust me, it can turn into one of the most interesting conversations and it can help you learn a lot about the girl sitting next to you. This way, you\u2019ll get to know her daily routine, the things she enjoys doing and las cosas que le molestan<\/a>. Tambi\u00e9n le demuestra desde el principio que te interesa algo m\u00e1s que su aspecto f\u00edsico. Le dice a tu cita que quieres establecer una comunicaci\u00f3n con ella y que tu \u00fanico objetivo no es meterte en sus bragas.<\/p>\n

And trust me\u2014that is something every girl appreciates.<\/p>\n

Si tienes problemas para iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n, puedes intentar contarle una an\u00e9cdota divertida de tu d\u00eda. Recuerda que los iniciadores de conversaci\u00f3n que relajan un poco el ambiente siempre son bienvenidos porque son los que determinan si va a ser una gran conversaci\u00f3n en general y el comienzo de algo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

2. Tiempo libre<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Una de las luces temas de conversaci\u00f3n<\/a>\u2014and something that could help you get to know this person better\u2014is talking about free time.<\/p>\n

What are this girl\u2019s favorite hobbies? What relaxes her the most after a long and stressful day?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs extrovertida o prefiere quedarse en casa? \u00bfLe gusta pasar su tiempo libre en lugares concurridos con mucha gente o prefiere pasar su tiempo libre en un lugar m\u00e1s tranquilo?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs deportista o un rat\u00f3n de biblioteca? \u00bfLe gustan las aventuras y viajar?
\nWhat are the places she\u2019s visited so far and where would she like to go in the future?<\/p>\n

Todo esto puede ayudarte a ver si es extrovertida o introvertida. chica introvertida<\/a> y puede ayudarte a entender la mejor manera de tratar con ella.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, estas son todas las cosas que tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas contarle sobre ti.<\/p>\n

Lo que tienes que entender es que esta cita puede ser el comienzo de algo nuevo que puede durar. Por eso tienes que ver si t\u00fa y esta chica sois compatibles a la hora de pasar vuestro tiempo libre. Tienes que ver si ten\u00e9is intereses similares y si vuestra definici\u00f3n de diversi\u00f3n es la misma.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, existe la posibilidad de que pases la mayor parte de tu tiempo libre con esta persona y tienes que asegurarte de que ambos quer\u00e9is las mismas cosas porque, de lo contrario, podr\u00edais tener un problema.<\/p>\n

3. Intereses<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Adem\u00e1s de tus aficiones y de c\u00f3mo pasas el tiempo libre, otra cosa de la que deber\u00edas hablar con esta chica son sus intereses y preferencias. Habla de las cosas que le gustan a esta chica. \u00bfHay cosas que teng\u00e1is en com\u00fan?<\/p>\n

Ve un paso m\u00e1s all\u00e1: p\u00eddele a esta chica preguntas para explorar su mente.<\/a><\/p>\n

What kind of art does she enjoy? What is this girl\u2019s favorite book and author? What is her favorite movie? Does she enjoy watching any TV shows and if so, which ones?<\/p>\n

\u00bfA esta chica le gusta ir a museos y teatros o prefiere salir de marcha? \u00bfO combina las dos cosas?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTen\u00e9is intereses similares o sois completamente diferentes?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014I\u2019m definitely not telling you that you should try and find the girl who likes exactly the same things you like. After all, that is practically impossible. And even if it were possible, it wouldn\u2019t be interesting.<\/p>\n

Pero lo que tienes que decidir es si los dos sois demasiado diferentes en lo que se refiere a vuestros intereses y preferencias, y si estas diferencias tienen un impacto negativo o positivo en vuestra posible relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I know these are some things you probably don\u2019t want to think about from the start but trust me\u2014this is exactly the time when you should have these things in mind, before things go too far.<\/p>\n

4. Trabajo, carrera y escuela<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

If you\u2019ve gone out on a blind date with a girl, you probably don\u2019t know much about the person sitting next to you. The same thing happens if you guys met in a club or in similar circumstances.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, su cita es una gran oportunidad para saber m\u00e1s el uno del otro.<\/p>\n

\u00bfA qu\u00e9 se dedica esta chica? \u00bfLe gusta lo que hace? \u00bfEst\u00e1 contenta con la carrera que ha elegido y con lo que ha conseguido hasta ahora?<\/p>\n

Aunque los temas de trabajo pueden parecer aburridos al principio, en realidad son todo menos eso.<\/p>\n

First of all, it will give you the chance to talk about each other\u2019s education and what you wanted to become when you were younger.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, te dar\u00e1 la oportunidad de averiguar el tipo de persona que es esta chica. \u00bfEs creativa? \u00bfLe gusta trabajar con gente?<\/p>\n

Is she ambitious and is she looking for ways to progress or she is more than happy with her work position and she doesn\u2019t think of changing it?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHa conseguido hacer realidad sus sue\u00f1os profesionales? \u00bfEst\u00e1 en el lugar que quer\u00eda estar? Si no es as\u00ed, \u00bfqu\u00e9 est\u00e1 haciendo?<\/p>\n

Of course, you need to make sure not to turn this into a quiz and not to make this girl feel like she\u2019s being interrogated. Instead, these are just the things that will probably be mentioned through the conversation and the things she expects to find out about you as well.<\/p>\n

5. Esperanzas y sue\u00f1os<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

So, you\u2019ve covered most of the light topics and you\u2019ve definitely broken the ice. Now, you are both relaxed and comfortable around each other and you are both ready to start to getting to know each other better.<\/p>\n

That means it might be a good idea to start tackling some deeper issues and to show her that you\u2019ve been paying attention to everything this girl told you.<\/p>\n

Uno de estos temas es la conversaci\u00f3n sobre sus esperanzas, sue\u00f1os y aspiraciones.<\/p>\n

If you start this topic, you\u2019ll show this girl that you are way different than all the other guys out there. You don\u2019t want to get to know this girl shallowly. You want to get to know the core of her soul and personality.<\/p>\n

That means you\u2019ll want to know what this girl\u2019s deepest dreams and hopes are.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 quiere de la vida? \u00bfQu\u00e9 so\u00f1aba llegar a ser? \u00bfY es la persona que siempre quiso ser?<\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante, \u00bfquieren los dos cosas parecidas de la vida?<\/p>\n

If you talk to any girl about these topics, she\u2019ll see that you stand out from others and you\u2019ll definitely interest her in giving you a chance and to start something more serious with you. You\u2019ll show her that you are a mature man and not a boy.<\/p>\n

6. Miedos<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

A lot of guys are afraid of opening up to women, especially in the beginning. They are scared of tearing down their emotional walls because they think this will make them appear too vulnerable or less masculine. They also might be afraid of getting hurt if they show their real personality to the girl they\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

Y aqu\u00ed es donde debes demostrarle a esta mujer que no eres como cualquier otro hombre y que te encanta hablar de tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

You need to show her that you are just a human being made of flesh who doesn\u2019t pretend he is tougher than he actually is. You need to show her that you don\u2019t have any trouble whatsoever being in touch with your emotional and lado vulnerable.<\/a><\/p>\n

Y la mejor manera de conseguirlo es hablarle de tus miedos y decepciones m\u00e1s profundos.
\nNo, this won\u2019t make you weak and it definitely won\u2019t chase this girl away. Instead, she will just see that you are strong enough to get in touch with your emotions and that you don\u2019t have any problem talking about them.<\/p>\n

Of course, you opening up to this girl will probably inspire her to do the same thing. She\u2019ll realize that you trust her enough to be sincere around her and that will make her think you are also trustworthy, so she will feel like she can talk to you about the same things you\u2019ve been telling her about.<\/p>\n

Todo esto es una gran base para una gran relaci\u00f3n y esto es exactamente lo que necesitas y quieres.<\/p>\n

7. Relaciones<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

So you\u2019ve talked to this girl about work, about both of your hobbies and interests and you\u2019ve started tackling some more serious and deeper issues.<\/p>\n

Now is the right time to start talking about the thing that probably interests you the most\u2014relationships.<\/p>\n

I know you probably want to know as much as possible about this girl\u2019s relationship history, but you need to be aware of the fact that the of you are just getting to know each other and you can\u2019t expect her to tell you everything about her love life right away.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be too nosey and you definitely don\u2019t want to appear insecure. And that is exactly what she\u2019ll think of you if you start questioning her about every single detail of her romantic past.<\/p>\n

The thing you should never do is to ask a girl about the number of guys she\u2019s dated or about the number of men she slept with because that invades her privacy and has nothing to do with you anyway. Besides, it only shows that you are intimidated and insecure.<\/p>\n

Instead, you should be the first one to open up about your relationship past. I am not saying that you should tell her every single detail of it or that you should mention every girl you\u2019ve ever dated.<\/p>\n

But there is nothing wrong with mentioning the fact that you\u2019ve just gotten out of a serious relationship or something similar. Just make sure not to talk about your exes too much because that might seem you are still not over them completely, that you carry a lot of emotional baggage or that this girl is nada m\u00e1s que tu chica de rebote.<\/a><\/p>\n

After she sees you\u2019ve opened up, I\u2019m sure she\u2019ll follow.<\/p>\n

Otro tema que deber\u00edais abordar es lo que ambos quer\u00e9is y esper\u00e1is realmente de vuestra vida amorosa. S\u00e9 que est\u00e1is empezando y que ser\u00eda absurdo que os comprometierais a nada o que os hicierais promesas de inmediato.<\/p>\n

Pero estar\u00eda bien que ambos fuerais sinceros y os dijerais qu\u00e9 es lo que est\u00e1is buscando realmente. \u00bfS\u00f3lo quer\u00e9is divertiros o busc\u00e1is algo m\u00e1s serio? Esto os ayudar\u00e1 a ver si est\u00e1is de acuerdo y a construir vuestro futuro juntos. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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