{"id":20670,"date":"2019-07-10T08:33:16","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T08:33:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20670"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:41:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:41:52","slug":"podrias-haberla-tenido-toda-la-vida-pero-la-perdiste-para-siempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/podrias-haberla-tenido-toda-la-vida-pero-la-perdiste-para-siempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Podr\u00edas haberla tenido toda la vida pero la perdiste para siempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estaba segura de que estaban de acuerdo. \u00bfY qui\u00e9n podr\u00eda culparla? Nunca dijiste nada que le hiciera pensar lo contrario. <\/span><\/p>\n

She remembers telling you that she was sure about you, that she was there to stay a lifetime. She remembers you telling her that you felt the same way. That\u2019s why nothing that happened later on made any sense to her. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see, she is totally unlike you. She doesn\u2019t have an insincere bone in her body. She meant every word she said. And for you, it was nothing more than just words. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eras t\u00fa dici\u00e9ndole lo que quer\u00eda o\u00edr para que cada vez que la defraudaras tuviera algo a lo que agarrarse. <\/span><\/p>\n

You lost her bit by bit. It didn\u2019t happen overnight. It wasn\u2019t one big thing that drove you apart, it was millions of little things that accumulated over time. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fue una decepci\u00f3n tras otra. Lo \u00faltimo que hiciste fue s\u00f3lo la punta del iceberg. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ella te adoraba. Habr\u00eda hecho cualquier cosa por tu amor excepto mendigar. Se neg\u00f3 a mendigar aprecio. Se neg\u00f3 a mendigar respeto. <\/span>Estaba cansada <\/span><\/a>de buscar su atenci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sent\u00eda que estaba contigo y sola al mismo tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

La perdiste sirvi\u00e9ndole mentiras cuando ella no te dio m\u00e1s que la verdad.<\/b> La alimentaste con falsas promesas hasta que ya no pudo o\u00edr nada. Ella sabr\u00eda que cualquier cosa que saliera de tu boca era mentira. <\/span><\/p>\n

La perdiste por hacer que todo girara en torno a ti en lugar de veros a los dos como un equipo. <\/b>She felt left out. You made sure your needs were met and you didn\u2019t pay much attention to hers. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al menos ya no. Antes s\u00ed. Ella deseaba tanto que cambiaras tu forma de ser, pero nunca imagin\u00f3 que ser\u00eda para peor. <\/span><\/p>\n

La perdiste porque ya no pod\u00eda reconocerte. <\/b>You weren’t the man she fell for. That sweet and loving man who had all the time in the world for her was no longer there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tus visitas eran m\u00e1s cortas. Cada vez esperabas m\u00e1s para responder a sus mensajes. Abandonabas los planes que hab\u00edas hecho con ella si surg\u00eda algo mejor. S\u00f3lo estabas all\u00ed cuando era <\/span>c\u00f3modo<\/span><\/a> y ni un momento m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

La perdiste porque le hiciste creer que ella era la \u00fanica causa de tus problemas. <\/b>Le dijiste que ella no era tan inocente en todo esto. Que muchos de los problemas que ten\u00edas eran con ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

She lacked understanding, she hadn\u2019t supported you enough and so on and so on. Your claims were unfounded because even though she admitted she knew she wasn\u2019t perfect, she knew that she had done her best for your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

La perdiste porque te disculpaste en vano.<\/b> Saying, \u201cI am sorry,\u201d meant nothing to you. You would say the words and go ahead and do it again. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sabr\u00edas c\u00f3mo calmarla y volver a caerle bien. Pero ella empez\u00f3 a ver a trav\u00e9s de ti. Vio que todas tus penas eran in\u00fatiles. <\/span><\/p>\n

La perdiste porque nunca la valoraste realmente. <\/b>You mistook her kindness for weakness. You took her for granted. You couldn\u2019t see how amazing she was just because she was so grounded and humble.<\/span><\/p>\n

She would always put herself in your shoes before making a decision. You couldn\u2019t recognize all the efforts she made to understand you better. <\/span><\/p>\n

La perdiste por tratarla como si fuera tu red de seguridad.<\/b> Sab\u00edas cu\u00e1nto te quer\u00eda, as\u00ed que pensaste que pod\u00edas ir y venir a tu antojo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You thought no matter what you did, she would always forgive you, she would always take you back. She had done so before so why wouldn\u2019t she now? <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero alcanz\u00f3 ese l\u00edmite dentro de ella. El l\u00edmite que ella misma desconoc\u00eda. En ese momento, supo que ya era suficiente. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That if she kept on forgiving you it would be a lifetime all right but a lifetime of misery. And misery was one word and one feeling that she couldn\u2019t connect with love. She chose to make herself happy by refusing to let you continue making her <\/i><\/b>infeliz<\/i><\/b><\/a>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why this time, her goodbye is final. She can\u2019t wait anymore. She can\u2019t be the one who understands and forgives anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even try to get back with her. She no longer has time to waste on you. <\/span>Esta vez s\u00ed que la has perdido para siempre y no tienes a nadie a quien culpar salvo a ti mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"PODR\u00cdAS<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She was positive you guys were on the same page. And who could blame her? You never said anything to make her think otherwise. She remembers telling you that she was sure about you, that she was there to stay a lifetime. She remembers you telling her that you felt the same way. That\u2019s why…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":20671,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20670","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/jordan-sanchez-44890-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20670","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20670"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20670\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20671"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20670"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20670"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20670"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}