{"id":20721,"date":"2019-07-11T11:01:23","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T11:01:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20721"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:47:23","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:47:23","slug":"7-cosas-que-les-cuesta-admitir-a-los-hombres-tras-un-desengano-amoroso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-les-cuesta-admitir-a-los-hombres-tras-un-desengano-amoroso\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas por las que pasan los chicos despu\u00e9s de un desenga\u00f1o (y que les cuesta admitir)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las rupturas sentimentales son duras, seas hombre o mujer. El dolor, la decepci\u00f3n y esa horrible sensaci\u00f3n de soledad est\u00e1n ah\u00ed. Lo que es diferente es la forma en que afrontamos todo ese dolor.<\/p>\n<p>La diferencia en la forma en que el hombre y la mujer afrontan las rupturas es justo lo que hace que los hombres parezcan desalmados tras una ruptura, aunque est\u00e9n lejos de serlo. Lo que pasa en sus almas y en sus mentes suele ser un misterio.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, estaba decidido a llegar al fondo de las cosas, as\u00ed que pregunt\u00e9 a treinta hombres sobre sus experiencias de desamor. Todos y cada uno de ellos ten\u00edan algo \u00fanico que a\u00f1adir, pero sus pensamientos generales y patrones de comportamiento eran casi id\u00e9nticos. Lo resum\u00ed todo en 7 cosas por las que pasan los hombres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/estas-entre-el-desamor-y-la-curacion-7-maneras-de-superar-el-limbo-emocional\/\">despu\u00e9s de un desenga\u00f1o<\/a>:<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Ocultar que est\u00e1n heridos<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Just because they don\u2019t show they are hurt doesn\u2019t mean they handle breakups more easily than women. Men stumble upon bad relationships and wrong woman just as much. They are not shielded in any way from all the pain that a breakup brings.<\/p>\n<p>While women will talk to their friends and receive much-needed compassion and support, men don\u2019t have that. If they utter aloud just how much someone messed them up, they will get mocked and ridiculed by their friends. Not only that, most men feel like they are weaker if they talk about their feelings (no matter whether those are good or bad) so they avoid talking about them completely,<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Hacer todo lo posible por actuar con alegr\u00eda<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>El \u00e9nfasis aqu\u00ed est\u00e1 en la palabra actuar. Est\u00e1n destrozados, pero hacen todo lo posible por disimularlo. Fingen que no ha pasado nada, que nada les afecta y que todo va bien.<\/p>\n<p>Este es uno de los peores y m\u00e1s devastadores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/estas-entre-el-desamor-y-la-curacion-7-maneras-de-superar-el-limbo-emocional\/\">t\u00e9cnicas curativas<\/a>. Instead of dealing with their feelings, they brush them under the carpet and put on their tough front. They are crumbling from the inside and pretending won\u2019t do them any good.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Ir al gimnasio<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Instead of dealing with what they feel from the inside, they concentrate on the outside. So they hit the gym in an attempt to recover their bruised egos. They focus on getting in shape and forming those six packs, and they redirect their thoughts to themselves\u2014which is essentially a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, sudan todo su dolor y frustraci\u00f3n en el proceso, aunque no sean conscientes de que lo est\u00e1n haciendo. Lo \u00fanico que saben es que se sienten mejor, as\u00ed que siguen adelante.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Encuentra algo que les distraiga<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>They need something that creates a distraction from this unbearable pain. So they find it by trying out something new, burying themselves in work, playing video games, having marathon movie nights or watching all the seasons of their favorite series for a few nights in a row. In the worst case scenario, they try to drown their pain in alcohol. The next morning, they realize that didn\u2019t go so well and all they accomplished was getting a horrible headache.<\/p>\n<p>En cualquier caso, estas distracciones les resultan \u00fatiles. Les permiten olvidarse de todo lo que acaba de ocurrir. Les dan tiempo para relajarse. Pero si contin\u00faan con ellas durante m\u00e1s tiempo, estas distracciones se convierten en una forma de no enfrentarse a la realidad.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Alcanzar un cierto nivel de depresi\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Repiten en su cabeza todos los escenarios posibles. Sienten nostalgia de momentos pasados que nunca ser\u00e1n. A menudo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aislofilia\/\">prefieren la soledad<\/a>, so they avoid socializing with anybody. They either eat all the time (comfort food) or they don\u2019t eat at all, depending on their personality.<\/p>\n<p>Acechan a sus ex en las redes sociales y en Internet. La idea de que su ex est\u00e9 con otra persona les mata. Se sienten abrumados por el dolor y no tienen ni idea de qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto. Lo peor de todo es que se lo guardan todo dentro, por lo que tardan mucho m\u00e1s en procesar las cosas y superar la ruptura.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Participar en aventuras de una noche<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se enrollan con cualquiera. Tienen la idea de que el sexo con mujeres cualquiera les har\u00e1 sentirse mejor y menos solos. Sin embargo, la mayor\u00eda de ellos se arrepienten justo despu\u00e9s o incluso durante el acto sexual.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerdan c\u00f3mo era tener una verdadera conexi\u00f3n. Recuerdan los sonidos, los movimientos corporales y los gestos faciales de su ex compa\u00f1ero. Comparan. Echan de menos lo felices que se sent\u00edan antes. Entonces, su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/one-night-stands-cant-heal-a-broken-heart\/\">rollos de una noche<\/a> no son m\u00e1s que un mont\u00f3n de lamentaciones que nunca ayudan.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Lanzarse a la siguiente relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Rebound relationships are more connected with brokenhearted men than women. It\u2019s a gender difference. They have this feeling they will be the winner of the breakup if they move on first\u2014if they find somebody else to fill the void that\u2019s left. It really feels good at first. They have someone new by their sides.<\/p>\n<p>But as their feelings get onto more stable ground, they realize that they rushed into things. They don\u2019t know the person they are with now or they are still not completely over their ex.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52259 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg.jpg\" alt=\"7 COSAS POR LAS QUE PASAN LOS CHICOS TRAS UN DESAMOR (Y QUE LES CUESTA ADMITIR)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/7-THINGS-GUYS-GO-THROUGH-AFTER-A-HEARTBREAK-Pinterest-Graphic.jpg-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Heartbreaks are hard no matter if you are a man or a woman. Pain, disappointment and that horrible sense of loneliness are all there. What\u2019s different is the way we deal with all that pain. The difference in the way man and woman deal with breakups is just the thing that makes men seem heartless&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":20722,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/ali-yahya-650261-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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