{"id":20752,"date":"2020-06-12T09:04:46","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T09:04:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20752"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:55:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:55:11","slug":"antes-de-enamorarse-de-una-chica-ferozmente-independiente-pero-ridiculamente-emocional-sepa-esto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/antes-de-enamorarse-de-una-chica-ferozmente-independiente-pero-ridiculamente-emocional-sepa-esto\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de enamorarte de una chica ferozmente independiente pero rid\u00edculamente emocional, debes saber esto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Es autosuficiente. Siempre ha sabido lo que necesita y lo que tiene que hacer por s\u00ed misma. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nada le ven\u00eda servido en bandeja de plata. Tuvo que gan\u00e1rselo todo en la vida con su trabajo duro y su testarudez.<\/span><\/p>\n

No tiene miedo de hacer las cosas por s\u00ed misma. Ha pasado por todo y eso le ha ense\u00f1ado que la \u00fanica persona en la que puede confiar es en s\u00ed misma.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy for her to open up to someone and let them love her. She, who has learned to do everything by herself and never to depend on anyone,<\/span> no puede imaginarse perdi\u00e9ndose en un nudo de sentimientos confusos hacia otra persona. <\/span><\/p>\n

But believe it or not, she can love and her love is the same as she is\u2014fiercely <\/span>independiente<\/span><\/a> y rid\u00edculamente emocional. <\/span><\/p>\n

When she falls in love, it\u2019s something that lasts for as long as you don\u2019t break it yourself by doing something selfish and stupid. She will never be the one who\u2019ll break her promise of loving you. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is tearing her apart because on the one hand, she wants to give all of herself to someone who deserves it, but she doesn\u2019t want to lose who she is. You see, it\u2019s so hard loving her, but it\u2019s also worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

She is afraid that she\u2019ll stumble upon someone who won\u2019t be able to understand her and give her the space she needs. She\u2019s afraid she\u2019ll have to become dependent and that she\u2019ll lose her true self, but at the same time, she wants to give that someone special all of her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quiere incluirlo en su vida. Quiere que unan sus caminos y luchen juntos. Aunque esto es aterrador como el infierno, ella lo quiere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Her mind is the biggest problem here. She\u2019s trying to shush it. She\u2019s  trying to fight with her reason which is telling her that she doesn\u2019t need anybody. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le dice que ya est\u00e1 completa y que otra persona s\u00f3lo puede arruinarla mientras su coraz\u00f3n lucha tambi\u00e9n por ganar. Su coraz\u00f3n, su lado emocional que es tan fuerte como el razonable, quiere que se rinda al placer, que se entregue al amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces se encuentra a s\u00ed misma estrech\u00e1ndole, abraz\u00e1ndole, bes\u00e1ndole, entreg\u00e1ndose por completo a \u00e9l. Nada m\u00e1s importa. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Su lucha de la raz\u00f3n y el coraz\u00f3n ha terminado. El coraz\u00f3n ha ganado. Ahora depende de su amor. Ahora depende de su tacto cari\u00f1oso y de sus palabras amables. Ahora est\u00e1 enamorada.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s when she gets vulnerable. That\u2019s when she loses herself because she has nothing under control. She is exposed to you completely. She is suddenly aware of the situation she is in. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te ha dejado entrar. Ha confiado en ti y puedes herirla f\u00e1cilmente. As\u00ed que se echa atr\u00e1s. <\/span>Ella construye este enorme muro emocional<\/span><\/a> porque se ha dado cuenta de que est\u00e1 completamente desnuda, expuesta y a tu merced. <\/span><\/p>\n

She is scared. Being just independent or just emotional is impossible for her. She can\u2019t choose to be just one thing and yet it\u2019s impossible to be just one. <\/span><\/p>\n

She has to find the balance. If she\u2019s independent, she craves love and when she is love, she misses her freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tiene que ser fiel a s\u00ed misma. Tiene que ser independiente y confiar m\u00e1s en s\u00ed misma. Sabe que sus decisiones son las mejores para ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

She knows her mind will never trick her, but she can\u2019t be afraid of love so much. You have to show her that there is a balance between the two. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have to make her aware that even if she falls in love, she won\u2019t lose herself. She won\u2019t lose the ability to make her own decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n

Help her be who she is and help her embrace her emotional side because that is the part of her, too\u2014not only her reason and her mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es una mujer fuerte. Es una mujer emocional. Es la mezcla perfecta de ambas. <\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She is self-sufficient. She has always known what she needs and what she has to do all by herself. Nothing ever came to her served on a silver platter. She had to earn everything in her life with her hard work and her stubbornness. She is not afraid to go and do things herself. She…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":20753,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20752","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/jessica-felicio-463231-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20752"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20752\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20753"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}