{"id":20805,"date":"2020-06-22T08:42:56","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T08:42:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20805"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:43:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:43:42","slug":"la-mujer-en-la-que-te-estas-convirtiendo-te-costara-mucho-pero-eligela-de-todos-modos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-mujer-en-la-que-te-estas-convirtiendo-te-costara-mucho-pero-eligela-de-todos-modos\/","title":{"rendered":"La mujer en la que te est\u00e1s convirtiendo te costar\u00e1 mucho, pero el\u00edgela de todos modos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cada d\u00eda eres m\u00e1s fuerte. Eres m\u00e1s independiente y autosuficiente que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>You know who you are and what you deserve and you won\u2019t take shit from anybody. Don\u2019t let that frighten you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you are doing something wrong. Self-love is not selfish, it\u2019s necessary. Embrace the change you are experiencing. Love the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-razones-por-las-que-la-relacion-de-tu-vida-sera-con-una-mujer-ferozmente-independiente\/\"> mujer feroz<\/a> en que te est\u00e1s convirtiendo.<\/p>\n<p>You are constantly learning. Life is making you learn, even when you don\u2019t want to. Some lessons will be hard to handle, some will go smoothly. Unfortunately, we get more from the tough ones.<\/p>\n<p>Tus errores y tus decisiones acertadas, tus ca\u00eddas y tus subidas, tu dolor y tu felicidad te han convertido en la mujer que eres hoy.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who won\u2019t settle for anything half-assed.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95588\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa joven con el pelo largo y lindo vestido en la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Beautiful-young-lady-with-long-hair-and-cute-dress-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You learned that half-love, almost relationships, and fake friendships are nothing more than a waste of your time. You don\u2019t give endless chances to people anymore because you know they will end up disappointing you.<\/p>\n<p>Quieres gente en tu vida que se entregue por completo. Quieres un novio, no un casi novio. Quieres amistades verdaderas y genuinas, no las que se crean por conveniencia.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who won\u2019t stay silent when something is bothering her. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te duelen los ojos de mirar a trav\u00e9s de los dedos. Miraste m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de tantas cosas que te exig\u00edan reaccionar. Tus labios se mueven sin parar ahora porque estaban sellados en esos momentos en los que sent\u00edan una incre\u00edble necesidad de hablar.<\/p>\n<p>Pensabas que hac\u00edas un bien a tus relaciones y amistades call\u00e1ndote las cosas que te molestaban o te hac\u00edan da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, se han ido acumulando en tu interior hasta que has estallado. Ahora sabes que lo mejor que puedes hacer es hablar y desahogarte.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95589\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mira confundido mientras la mujer habla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Te est\u00e1s convirtiendo en una mujer que sabe lo que tolera y lo que no. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are slowly creating your own standards. You won\u2019t allow anyone to treat you poorly. You know your limits now. You know how many times you spent nights crying because somebody hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>You are tired of forgiving without hearing the actual words. You are tired of seeing the best in people who give you their worst. That\u2019s why you are slowly learning how to put a stop to all of that.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are becoming a woman who doesn\u2019t chase anybody. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Los que quieren permanecer en tu vida har\u00e1n un esfuerzo. Invertir\u00e1n en tu relaci\u00f3n. Se tomar\u00e1n su tiempo. Enviar\u00e1n ese mensaje. Llamar\u00e1n. Har\u00e1n todo lo posible por estar en tu vida. No pondr\u00e1n excusas ni mentiras.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You are becoming a woman who uses, &nbsp;\u201cNO!\u201d as her most powerful tool.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95590\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"primer plano de una mujer con gafas de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-photo-of-woman-wearing-sunglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t even count how many times you have done something that you didn\u2019t really want to do just to make somebody else happy. You can\u2019t even count how many times you have put somebody else&#8217;s needs in front of your own.<\/p>\n<p>They have never appreciated it\u2014moreover, they took it for granted. That\u2019s why \u201cNo\u201d became your favorite word. &nbsp;You won\u2019t let anybody push you around.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Te est\u00e1s convirtiendo en una mujer que quiere lo mismo que ella est\u00e1 dando. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>En el pasado, t\u00fa eras siempre la que amaba, daba y hac\u00eda m\u00e1s por las personas a las que quer\u00eda. Ahora todo eso ha quedado atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Exiges igualdad y reciprocidad. Sabes que eres merecedor de amor, respeto, tiempo, atenci\u00f3n, afecto y todas las dem\u00e1s cosas que est\u00e1s dispuesto a devolver. Sabes que nunca ser\u00e1s feliz si est\u00e1s en algo unilateral, as\u00ed que no te apuntas a eso.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Te est\u00e1s convirtiendo en una mujer que cada d\u00eda se quiere m\u00e1s a s\u00ed misma.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>El amor que sientes por ti mismo crece cada d\u00eda m\u00e1s. Las personas t\u00f3xicas de tu vida te llenaron de dudas sobre ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95592\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de una joven afroamericana sonriente al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-a-smiling-young-african-american-woman-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Han da\u00f1ado gravemente tu imagen de ti mismo y tu confianza. Ahora empiezas a ver que lo \u00fanico que hac\u00edan era trasladarte sus propias inseguridades y que nunca tuvieron nada que ver contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Aprendiste por las malas que tienes que quererte de todo coraz\u00f3n y tratarte bien para que los dem\u00e1s puedan aprender de tu ejemplo.<\/p>\n<p>Elige la mujer en la que te est\u00e1s convirtiendo. Te costar\u00e1 mucho. Te costar\u00e1 personas en tu vida. Pero la<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-sentiras-cuando-conozcas-a-la-persona-adecuada\/\"> correctas<\/a> se quedar\u00e1n. Dar\u00e1n la bienvenida a esta nueva mujer en la que te est\u00e1s convirtiendo. Se alegrar\u00e1n de que te hayas quitado todo ese peso de encima. Tendr\u00e1s m\u00e1s calidad en todos los aspectos de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Don\u2019t give up on the woman you are becoming even though it will get tough at times.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>You will stray to your old ways but just make sure you find your way back. You are on your way to creating a life you will be proud of. You are in the process of reinventing yourself and making yourself happy. Don\u2019t let anything or anyone stop you from doing that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La mujer en la que te est\u00e1s convirtiendo te costar\u00e1 mucho, pero el\u00edgela de todos modos\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are getting stronger by the day. You are more independent and self-sufficient than you have ever been. You know who you are and what you deserve and you won\u2019t take shit from anybody. Don\u2019t let that frighten you. Don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you are doing something wrong. Self-love is not selfish, it\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":95587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/The-Woman-Youre-Becoming-Will-Cost-You-A-Lot-But-Choose-Her-Anyway.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20805"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20805\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}