{"id":20811,"date":"2020-04-13T08:56:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T08:56:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20811"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:05:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:05:28","slug":"por-eso-tuve-que-enviar-ese-mensaje-de-despedida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-tuve-que-enviar-ese-mensaje-de-despedida\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que tuve que enviar ese mensaje de despedida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre me he preguntado por qu\u00e9 algunas mujeres tienen la necesidad de enviar esos largos mensajes de texto a los hombres. Parece in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n

O bien ser ignorado<\/a> o recibir una respuesta escueta y a\u00fan m\u00e1s frustrante. Yo mismo me lo pregunt\u00e9 antes de enviar una.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know what came over me. I just sat down and started writing:<\/p>\n

\u2018I am not a coward you know, I would tell you all of this in person but no me dejaste otra opci\u00f3n<\/a>. <\/i><\/p>\n

Te fuiste sin una explicaci\u00f3n o una despedida apropiada. \u00bfRealmente merec\u00eda que me trataran as\u00ed? <\/i><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t believe that someone capable of having so much emotion could  be so heartless at the same time. <\/i><\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas que esto me destrozar\u00eda. Las despedidas siempre son duras, pero cuando todo queda sin explicaci\u00f3n, lo son a\u00fan m\u00e1s. <\/i><\/p>\n

Supongo que nunca me apreciaste lo suficiente como para tratarme bien, ni siquiera al final. <\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que fui un tonto por enamorarme de ti en primer lugar. Pens\u00e9 que ve\u00eda algo en ti que nadie m\u00e1s pod\u00eda ver. <\/i><\/p>\n

Heck, I still think there is some good deep down inside of you. Too bad it still hasn\u2019t come out. <\/i><\/p>\n

Hice todo lo que pude para entenderte cuando estabas m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de la comprensi\u00f3n.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you wouldn\u2019t call or text for days, when you didn\u2019t find time for me, when you said something hurtful. <\/i><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even have to make up excuses, I would make them for you. I would always think about the best possible scenarios before thinking of the worst. <\/i><\/p>\n

I think I was even too good. That\u2019s why you took me for granted. You relied on me to be there for you, no matter what you did. <\/i><\/p>\n

Escuchar, comprender y apoyar. Esperar. Y ahora parece que todo lo que hice contigo fue esperar el momento adecuado, a que estuvieras preparado, a que me trataras mejor con todo. <\/i><\/p>\n

And the sad truth is that if you hadn\u2019t left me, I would still be waiting. <\/i><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am writing this to thank you for leaving the way you did. If you hadn\u2019t, I would still be waiting in vain. <\/i><\/p>\n

De esta manera, me diste la oportunidad de ver que puedo estar sola. Que incluso me siento mejor y m\u00e1s tranquilo ahora que ya no est\u00e1s en mi vida. <\/i><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que gracias y adi\u00f3s para siempre. <\/i>Escrib\u00ed todo esto en un suspiro y sent\u00ed que me iba a desmayar despu\u00e9s de pulsar el bot\u00f3n de enviar.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Persona<\/p>\n

No ten\u00eda ni idea de que enviar\u00eda este mensaje antes de enviarlo. Nunca lo hab\u00eda pensado.<\/p>\n

Fue s\u00f3lo un momento en el tiempo en el que haces algo tonto e irracional.<\/p>\n

Pero me sent\u00ed tan a gusto despu\u00e9s de enviarlo.<\/b> Alivi\u00f3 mi alma rota despu\u00e9s de escribir todo lo que la agobiaba.<\/p>\n

Me sent\u00ed mejor por haber dicho todas esas cosas que guardaba dentro. Sent\u00ed como si el peso de mi coraz\u00f3n se hubiera levantado.<\/p>\n

Cuando por fin me di cuenta de lo que hab\u00eda hecho, me asust\u00e9 un poco. Me pregunt\u00e9 qu\u00e9 pensar\u00eda de m\u00ed. \u00bfPensar\u00eda que era d\u00e9bil por enviarle esto?<\/p>\n

Would he think I was trying to get him back? And it hit me, I really shouldn\u2019t care what he or anyone else thinks of me.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t do it as some lame attempt to lure him back. I didn\u2019t do it out of hatred or out of love.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t do it expecting a reply, which never came btw. I did this for me. Para darme un cierre<\/a>. To say that final goodbye he didn\u2019t have the courage to say.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I always wondered why some women have the necessity to send those long texts to men. It seems pointless. They would either get ignored or get a reply that was short and even more frustrating. I wondered before I sent one myself. I don\u2019t know what came over me. I just sat down and started…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":90609,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/This-Is-Why-I-Had-To-Send-That-Goodbye-Text.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20811"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20811\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90609"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}