{"id":2086,"date":"2020-07-03T11:33:42","date_gmt":"2020-07-03T11:33:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2086"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:36:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:36:27","slug":"dejar-de-esperar-indecision-decision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dejar-de-esperar-indecision-decision\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de esperarle: su indecisi\u00f3n es una decisi\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Y la historia es as\u00ed...<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa eres la que quiere una relaci\u00f3n seria pero \u00e9l es muy desconfiado al respecto.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca sabes lo que realmente quiere decir y su lenguaje corporal es muy confuso.<\/p>\n<p>No est\u00e1s segura de lo que los dos pod\u00e9is construir juntos y mientras t\u00fa te preocupas por tu bonita cabecita sobre vuestra relaci\u00f3n, \u00e9l est\u00e1 totalmente relajado.<\/p>\n<p>You are ready, but he isn&#8217;t bothered to take a step forward. You want more and he&#8217;s stuck&#8230; unsure&#8230; indecisive&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Cut the crap\u2014his indecision is a decision.<\/p>\n<p>Si quisiera estar contigo, estar\u00eda contigo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know we&#8217;d all love to receive the love we&#8217;re giving, but if he is making a fool of you, it is time to say goodbye.<\/p>\n<p>You need to check whether there are any red flags telling you that he is just having fun. I know you can\u2019t think wisely when being in love but give it a shot.<\/p>\n<p>Tendr\u00e1 un gran impacto en su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Comprueba sus acciones. \u00bfResuelve los problemas en cuanto aparecen? \u00bfO te deja ese enorme trabajo a ti?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him lead you on. Be smart and use your common sense.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve that kind of treatment. You don&#8217;t need a man who&#8217;s unsure of you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta tomando caf\u00e9 junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mindful-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/outersparkle.com\/2013\/09\/25\/i-am-awesome-who-you-are-a-message-to-all-women\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Eres \u00fanico y digno<\/a> and don\u2019t let anyone convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Los chicos van y vienen. Pero eres t\u00fa la que tiene que respetarse a s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p>Because, darling, if you don\u2019t do that, nobody else will. So, stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Burn the bridges between you and him. Stop caring about people who don&#8217;t care about you. And stop waiting for those who&#8217;ll probably never be ready for you.<\/p>\n<p>Se sentir\u00e1 mal por todo. Se sentir\u00e1 mal porque te estaba dando por sentada. Cr\u00e9eme, con el tiempo, el karma llamar\u00e1 a su puerta.<\/p>\n<p>He will feel bad because he didn\u2019t show up for your meeting. He will be sorry for letting you down. He will regret not choosing you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-young-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Porque le diste muchas oportunidades y ahora est\u00e1s agotado.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t that old sparkle between the two of you anymore. Your day is all about fighting and competing.<\/p>\n<p>And you&#8217;re the only one now holding the last string together.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not what a real relationship should look like. God, you deserve so much more.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure you figured this out and that you will give yourself another chance&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>With someone who is worthy and doesn\u2019t take you for granted.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sentada en el columpio de la playa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/couple-sitting-on-the-beach-swingset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Con un chico cari\u00f1oso y atento.<\/p>\n<p>With someone who will love you just the way you are, someone who&#8217;ll make choosing you look as easy as breathing.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t need to be perfect but he has to be perfect for YOU.<\/p>\n<p>Because that\u2019s what counts most in the end.<\/p>\n<p>And Mr. Wrong? Buy him a one-way ticket to \u2018gone\u2019 and say goodbye forever!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Deja de esperarle: su indecisi\u00f3n es una decisi\u00f3n\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And the story goes like this\u2026 You are the one that wants a serious relationship but he is very suspicious about that. You never know what he really means and his body language is so confusing. You are not sure what the two of you can build together and while you are bothering your pretty,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":103975,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2086","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Stop-Waiting-For-Him-\u2013-His-Indecision-Is-a-Decision.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2086","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2086"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2086\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2086"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2086"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2086"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}