{"id":20876,"date":"2020-05-17T09:32:00","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T09:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20876"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:49:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:49:02","slug":"tratar-con-un-buen-follador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tratar-con-un-buen-follador\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de que est\u00e1s tratando con un \"buen\" follador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Reconocer a los buenos de entre los malos se ha convertido en misi\u00f3n imposible hoy en d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t tell them apart anymore. At least before, you knew that when a guy was a jerk, he acted like one so you knew he was one.<\/p>\n

En realidad era tan sencillo como eso. Si sent\u00edas que pod\u00edas caminar por el lado salvaje durante un tiempo, mord\u00edas el anzuelo a prop\u00f3sito, s\u00f3lo para ver c\u00f3mo era.<\/p>\n

Y despu\u00e9s de que te rompieran el coraz\u00f3n, vale, no estabas tan triste porque b\u00e1sicamente sab\u00edas que iba a pasar.<\/p>\n

Fue una experiencia m\u00e1s y otra lecci\u00f3n<\/a> que ten\u00edas que aprender.<\/p>\n

But today, you can\u2019t afford that \u2018luxury\u2019. You can\u2019t willingly choose to date un fuckboy<\/a> just to see what it\u2019s like.<\/p>\n

Hoy, los folladores se disfrazan de chicos buenos. Hoy, mujeres inocentes son enga\u00f1adas por imb\u00e9ciles manipuladores<\/a> because they pretend to be something they aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Just read on and be careful because at least once in your life, you\u2019ll meet a \u2018nice\u2019 fuckboy:<\/p>\n

1. Pretende ser un buen tipo<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre
\nPor supuesto, esta es la primera pista, pero probablemente sea la \u00faltima que descubras.<\/p>\n

Usually, they are so good at acting that you simply can\u2019t figure out what they are really like.<\/p>\n

They will do things your way and try to fulfill your every wish. They will be kind and considerate but on the other hand, they will play completely the opposite game when you\u2019re not looking.<\/p>\n

2. Es demasiado buen amigo<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Sus amigos le adoran. Es el verdadero h\u00e9roe a sus ojos. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Bueno, no porque sea un amigo desinteresado y cari\u00f1oso, no porque siempre est\u00e9 ah\u00ed para ellos cuando lo necesitan, sino porque ellos son iguales que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es su modelo a seguir porque ha salido con muchas mujeres diferentes, o porque consigui\u00f3 seducir a una que ninguna de ellas consigui\u00f3. Pero esencialmente, son el mismo tipo de escoria que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

3. Es completamente diferente cuando est\u00e1 cerca de ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you are together, he is so considerate, caring. He is just too perfect. Well, that\u2019s a load of BS!<\/p>\n

En el momento en que le das la espalda, en el momento en que dejas de mirar en su direcci\u00f3n, se convierte en algo completamente distinto.<\/p>\n

Por lo general, las mujeres encuentran consuelo en mentirse a s\u00ed mismas que \u00e9l es realmente el tipo que pretende ser cuando est\u00e1 contigo y no el tipo que es cuando est\u00e1 con otra persona.<\/p>\n

Usually, we don\u2019t want to admit that we are salir con un verdadero psic\u00f3pata<\/a>. Esto les favorece porque pueden seguir con su plan.<\/p>\n

4. He won\u2019t make you angry<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t irritate you or do anything directly to you to make you angry. You\u2019ll be happy with him but only for a certain amount of time.<\/p>\n

That period in the beginning when the promises are huge and while you\u2019re waiting for them to come true, your life will be more than perfect.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando poco a poco empiezas a darte cuenta de que nada de lo que te dijo se har\u00e1 realidad, tu burbuja estalla de repente y te das cuenta de que no es m\u00e1s que otro fuckboy.<\/p>\n

5. Nunca te rechazar\u00e1 formalmente<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

He will stack things in his favor. Although he has never told you that he doesn\u2019t want anything serious but somehow his actions show you that and when he later on actually tells you that he never wanted anything serious, you can\u2019t be angry because you were expecting that and he just walks away with no guilt whatsoever.<\/p>\n

6. Maybe he won\u2019t hurt you on purpose<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Tal vez haya tenido un pasado de mierda, tal vez tenga problemas de compromiso, tal vez haya sido brutalmente herido.<\/p>\n

Maybe all of these things are true but that doesn\u2019t give him an excuse for hurting you.<\/p>\n

Maybe he isn\u2019t doing it on purpose but that doesn\u2019t change the fact you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t know how to deal with his ghosts from the past, he shouldn\u2019t be with anyone in the first place because that is just acting selfishly.<\/p>\n

7. Tiene lindos apodos para ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t this cute? He must be the right one. Well, he\u2019s not because these nicknames are generic, they are not special.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t call you that because you mean something more to him.<\/p>\n

He calls you that because he knows you want to hear it. It\u2019s a perfect solution for him.<\/p>\n

He calls you cute nicknames, you melt and he gets what he wants\u2014you thinking he loves you more than the world itself, when actually you\u2019re just a passing conexi\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Recognizing the good guys from the bad guys has become mission impossible nowadays. You can\u2019t tell them apart anymore. At least before, you knew that when a guy was a jerk, he acted like one so you knew he was one. It was really as simple as that. If you felt like you could walk…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20876","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20876","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20876"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20876\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20876"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20876"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20876"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}