{"id":20903,"date":"2020-07-17T12:48:15","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T12:48:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20903"},"modified":"2022-01-16T19:31:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T19:31:27","slug":"volvera-algun-dia-5-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-para-conseguirlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/volvera-algun-dia-5-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-para-conseguirlo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfVolver\u00e1 alguna vez? 5 cosas que puedes hacer para conseguirlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando tu novio, a quien <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-mucho-que-me-resista-te-sigo-queriendo\/\">todav\u00eda amas<\/a>, leaves you, the only thing that you have in mind is if he\u2019ll come back. Well, here are 5 steps you should take if you want to make this happen without you looking desperate.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">1. Piensa bien las cosas<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Antes de hacer nada para recuperar a tu ex, primero tienes que pensar las cosas detenidamente.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que sigues queriendo a este chico y que, en este momento, har\u00edas cualquier cosa para que volviera arrastr\u00e1ndose hacia ti. Pero tienes que esforzarte por ver las cosas de forma realista y apagar tus emociones durante esta fase.<\/p>\n<p>Eso significa que tienes que decidir si \u00e9ste es el hombre que realmente quieres en el amor. Todo lo que ha pasado entre vosotros dos, \u00bfes algo que se puede solucionar?<br \/>\n\u00bfEs \u00e9sta la relaci\u00f3n que quieres para ti? Si es as\u00ed, \u00bfmerece realmente la pena luchar?<br \/>\n\u00bfLe quieres de verdad o es s\u00f3lo tu ego el que habla?<\/p>\n<p>Estas son todas las preguntas que necesitas responder honestamente y cuando lo hagas y si todav\u00eda lo quieres de vuelta, estar\u00e1s lista para el segundo paso.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">2. Don&#8217;t contact him<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>If you\u2019ve really realized that you want this guy back and that being with him is the best option for you, the next step is not to contact him. And I really mean not to contact him in any way possible.<\/p>\n<p>I know this is the last thing you want to do and that you probably have the urge to call this guy and maybe to even beg for him to come back to you. But trust me\u2014this would only be counterproductive and it would chase him away.<\/p>\n<p>En su lugar, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-razones-por-las-que-es-importante-respetar-la-regla-del-no-contacto\/\">seguir la regla de no contacto<\/a> and give him enough space to think things through himself and to realize what he has lost. It will be impossible for him to miss you if you are always on his radar. That way, he would know he could have you whenever he wanted and he would think he didn\u2019t have to do anything to have you back.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-arrepentira-de-perderme-7-senales-de-que-lo-hara-como-hacer-que-lo-haga\/\">\u00bfSe arrepentir\u00e1 de haberme perdido? 7 se\u00f1ales de que lo har\u00e1 y c\u00f3mo conseguirlo<\/a><\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. Trabaja en ti mismo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Mientras aplicas la regla del no contacto, lo mejor que puedes hacer es centrarte por completo en ti mismo.<br \/>\nI know you can\u2019t think about anything else besides this guy and getting back together with him but trust me\u2014men have a way of sensing despair and this is exactly what you need to avoid if you want him back.<\/p>\n<p>That is why you need to do everything in your power to keep your mind off him. Do the things you didn\u2019t have the chance to do while you were him and spoil yourself in the process.<br \/>\nThere is nothing wrong with talking to other guys or even going out on dates with some. Remember\u2014you are single and you are not cheating on anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Nadie te est\u00e1 pidiendo que te involucres en una relaci\u00f3n seria, porque eso ser\u00eda lo m\u00e1s perjudicial para ti en este momento y podr\u00eda perjudicar a un nuevo chico potencial en tu vida porque a nadie le gusta ser un rebote. Pero flirtear o salir con alguien te ayudar\u00e1 con tu autoestima y esto es exactamente lo que necesitas en este momento.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4. Provocarle para que se ponga en contacto contigo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>El siguiente paso es provocar a este chico para que sea \u00e9l quien se ponga en contacto contigo y hay varias formas de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n<p>You might show up to a place you know he visits or if you still follow each other on social media, you can post a photo with an interesting and teasing caption which won\u2019t make you look desperate but will make him think about you. You could also mention him to the friends you have in common, showing him that he hasn\u2019t left your mind just yet. Do whatever it takes to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/maneras-de-hacer-realidad-las-necesidades\/\">hazle ver que te necesita<\/a> y te echa de menos.<\/p>\n<p>Ten cuidado de no exagerar. Act\u00faa como si \u00e9l no fuera tu prioridad y hazlo todo de forma casual, a menos que quieras que piense que eres una acosadora. Incluso si te pones en contacto con \u00e9l, aseg\u00farate de hacerlo sin ninguna presi\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo para recordarle que has pensado en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5. Estar dispuesto a hablar<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>When you\u2019ve finally accomplished everything mentioned above, it\u2019s time for the final step.<\/p>\n<p>When you and this guy finally get in touch, you need to have \u2018the talk\u2019. It\u2019s important for you not to get overwhelmed with the idea of getting back together or to forget about all the things that went wrong between the two of you.<\/p>\n<p>A pesar de todos los sentimientos que pod\u00e1is tener el uno por el otro, lo cierto es que rompisteis por una raz\u00f3n y esa raz\u00f3n debe resolverse antes de que pod\u00e1is seguir adelante con vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your boyfriend, whom you still love, leaves you, the only thing that you have in mind is if he\u2019ll come back. Well, here are 5 steps you should take if you want to make this happen without you looking desperate. 1. Think things through Before you do anything about getting your ex back, first&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":20904,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20903","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/pete-bellis-500938-unsplash-1.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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