{"id":20923,"date":"2020-07-18T08:55:04","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T08:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20923"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:01","slug":"es-hora-de-que-lo-veas-por-lo-que-realmente-es","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-hora-de-que-lo-veas-por-lo-que-realmente-es\/","title":{"rendered":"Es hora de que le veas como realmente es"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ha cambiado. No es el mismo hombre del que te enamoraste y no eres t\u00fa misma por ello.<\/p>\n

Antes estabas llena de vida, radiante y sonriente, y ahora s\u00f3lo te aferras a los recuerdos de lo feliz que eras, de lo feliz que eras gracias a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Ahora est\u00e1s cansada. Est\u00e1s agotada de tu relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l, de pensar, esperar, invertir, llorar, perdonar y esperar algo que haga que todo vuelva a estar bien.<\/p>\n

You are tired, but you are still putting up a fight because you can\u2019t imagine giving up on love. <\/strong><\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t see is that it wouldn\u2019t be giving up on love. It would be letting go of something that\u2019s not right for you, of something not meant for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He is not what you deserve. He is far from it. He doesn\u2019t see all your efforts.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see that candlelight dinner you made because something came up and he couldn\u2019t come. He doesn\u2019t respond to that sweet goodnight text you sent him.<\/p>\n

He ignores any attempt at you having a heart-to-heart conversation. He is there and he isn\u2019t there at the same time.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t ask about the things that make you feel down and upset. He doesn\u2019t feel happy when something good happens to you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even remember to ask how your day, went let alone anything else. You feel like you don\u2019t exist and like your feelings don\u2019t matter to him, and it\u2019s tearing you apart.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que le importa es \u00e9l mismo y que se satisfagan sus necesidades. Todo lo que dices o haces lo da por sentado como si tuviera derecho a todo lo que recibe de ti.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see the need to reciprocate because he is not missing anything.<\/p>\n

He has your full attention at all times. You listen to everything he has to say even if it\u2019s not something that you find interesting.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to him and that makes it important to you, too. You make sure he knows he has your support.<\/p>\n

Devuelves su frialdad con calidez y dulzura. Abrazas sus distancias. Haces todo lo posible por demostrarle lo mucho que significa y \u00e9l, como siempre, no hace absolutamente nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Abre los ojos y mira el ego\u00edsta \u00e9l<\/a>.<\/strong> El que espera que est\u00e9s a su entera disposici\u00f3n cada vez que le apetece y le parece conveniente.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

El que s\u00f3lo toma sin dar nada a cambio. El que nunca te valorar\u00e1 ni apreciar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Trust that little voice inside of you screaming that he can\u2019t be trusted.<\/strong> Que sus besos son fr\u00edos. Que sus abrazos no son tan apretados como sol\u00edan ser.<\/p>\n

That he doesn\u2019t show affection in the way that he used to. That his mind is elsewhere when he is with you.<\/p>\n

A woman always knows, you know, when something is off. It\u2019s just a matter of time until you\u2019ll be ready to face the truth.<\/p>\n

Remove that blindfold and see that he doesn\u2019t love you in the way you deserve to be loved.<\/strong> It\u2019s preventing you from loving yourself.<\/p>\n

He is building up your insecurities. He is making you question whether you are the real reason things aren\u2019t working out.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1 haciendo creer que eres dif\u00edcil de amar cuando deber\u00eda estar dando gracias al cielo por tu amor.<\/p>\n

Deja de aferrarte a ese comienzo m\u00e1gico que ustedes dos tuvieron.<\/strong> Era el hombre de tus sue\u00f1os. Tu felicidad significaba el mundo para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

His texts were never late. His free time was all yours. You had his full attention. Unfortunately, that\u2019s not the man you have standing before you now. He changed or he showed his real face.<\/p>\n

Deja de avanzar r\u00e1pido hacia ese lugar en el futuro en el que los dos sois felices.<\/strong> Donde estar\u00e1 listo para dar el siguiente paso.<\/p>\n

Donde dejar\u00e1 de tratarte mal. Donde aflorar\u00e1 toda la bondad que ves en \u00e9l. Donde te amar\u00e1 como debes ser amada.<\/p>\n

M\u00edralo como realmente es y no como t\u00fa quieres que sea.<\/strong> Mira tu fuerza y al\u00e9jate de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared to walk alone into the unknown when what you do know is failing you in every aspect.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay because things won\u2019t change for the better. They will only get worse.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay where you feel unloved, unnoticed, betrayed and underappreciated. Be brave! Be your own hero! Love yourself! Make yourself happy!<\/p>\n

\"Es<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

He changed. He is not the same man you fell for and you are not yourself because of it. You used to be full of life, radiant and smiling, and now you only hold onto the memories of how happy you were, of how happy you were because of him. Now, you are tired. You…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":120654,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Its-Time-You-See-Him-For-Who-He-Really-Is-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20923"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20923\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120654"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}