{"id":20946,"date":"2019-12-01T09:41:37","date_gmt":"2019-12-01T09:41:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20946"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:39:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:39:27","slug":"sucedio-por-tu-culpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sucedio-por-tu-culpa\/","title":{"rendered":"La muerte de nuestra relaci\u00f3n ocurri\u00f3 por tu culpa"},"content":{"rendered":"

I speak the truth when I say I want you to know from the bottom of my heart how much of an impact you have made in my life. You have changed my life for the better, as I\u2019m now no longer the leading role in your web of lies.<\/p>\n

The death of our relationship happened because you simply couldn\u2019t make a change. You simply couldn\u2019t be a man and own up to your own demons\u2014those demons to whom you so willingly lost the battle. You simply couldn\u2019t care for anyone other than yourself.<\/p>\n

Decidiste poner fin a nuestra relaci\u00f3n cuando continuamente pon\u00edas a tus amigos y tus propios deseos y necesidades por encima de los m\u00edos.<\/strong> Sobre la m\u00eda cuando simplemente dejaba caer cualquier cosa en cualquier momento s\u00f3lo para hacerte sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n

Te convert\u00ed en mi m\u00e1xima prioridad mientras t\u00fa me convert\u00edas en la m\u00ednima. Estar\u00eda literalmente all\u00ed en el chasquido de tu dedo. Si hubiera sabido lo que causar\u00eda frotar tu l\u00e1mpara, nunca habr\u00eda dejado que ese genio saliera de la botella en primer lugar. Nunca habr\u00eda continuado esta batalla interminable con un imb\u00e9cil manipulador.<\/p>\n

Pero, ahora que t\u00fa y yo ya no estamos juntos, tengo tiempo. Tengo tiempo para respirar. Tengo tiempo para pensar. He tenido tiempo para darme cuenta de que nunca fui yo quien tuvo todas esas inseguridades. En realidad fuiste t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que te felicito. Te felicito por perder la mejor maldita cosa que alguna vez entr\u00f3 en tu vida. Te felicito por hacerme creer que fueron mis propias inseguridades las que hicieron fracasar nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I want to congratulate you on also being the BEST manipulator there was. You truly avoided any responsibility for your own conduct throughout this relationship. And you avoided it constantly by blaming me in order to deflect the real issue in the relationship\u2014you. So, cheers to you!<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Cuando mires por el retrovisor en la cama por la noche, espero haberte perseguido como t\u00fa me perseguiste a m\u00ed durante tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n

Espero que veas la bendici\u00f3n que he sido en tu vida.<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Espero que te des cuenta de que te hice la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti misma mientras estuviste conmigo. Espero que entiendas que nunca habr\u00e1 otra mujer como yo para quedarse y lidiar con tu mierda.<\/p>\n

I hope you search for those simple yet sweet love letters I left you when you traveled. I hope you search for that care packet I left you because you were always leaving something behind that I knew you needed. I truly held you down through your darkest moments and that\u2019s the most fucked up part of our story.<\/p>\n

Espero que te des cuenta de que amar a alguien no significa destruir cada gramo de \u00e9l.<\/strong> Quiero que sepas cu\u00e1nto he intentado ganarme tu amor. Sin embargo, nunca fue suficiente. Nunca pude obligarte a amarme como yo te amaba.<\/p>\n

Recuerdo sentirme tan vac\u00eda, intentando ayudarte a librar esas batallas internas contigo misma. Recuerdo intentar ense\u00f1arte lo que era el amor. Recuerdo haber sido la \u00fanica chica que estuvo tan cerca de cambiarte a ti y a tus malos h\u00e1bitos.<\/p>\n

I remember once being the girl whom you thought had changed the game. The thing is though, no matter how much I learned lessons through our brokenness, it didn\u2019t matter because a\u00fan no has interiorizado el concepto de amar a otra persona adem\u00e1s de a ti mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Todo este tiempo en nuestra relaci\u00f3n, Te quer\u00eda m\u00e1s<\/a> y m\u00e1s cada d\u00eda a pesar de tus gilipolleces, pero nunca me quisiste. S\u00f3lo te quer\u00edas a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que todo lo que va, vuelve.<\/strong> Maybe that\u2019s why you jump from relationship to relationship with each ending being the same? Leaving each woman you\u2019ve played your games with insecure and broken-hearted.<\/p>\n

But sweetie please don\u2019t worry about me because Ahora entiendo mi autoestima y s\u00e9 c\u00f3mo detectar a un narcisista la pr\u00f3xima vez que lo vea.<\/strong> No volver\u00e9 a retener a alguien como t\u00fa nunca m\u00e1s. As\u00ed que adelante y divi\u00e9rtete con otra persona.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo recuerda que lo que va, vuelve. And if karma is anywhere near my side, I\u2019ll be able to watch it unfold as you did with our relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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