{"id":20982,"date":"2020-07-19T12:38:24","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T12:38:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20982"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:16:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:16:04","slug":"finalmente-he-aceptado-el-hecho-de-que-siempre-voy-a-seguir-siendo-un-poco-roto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/finalmente-he-aceptado-el-hecho-de-que-siempre-voy-a-seguir-siendo-un-poco-roto\/","title":{"rendered":"Por fin he aceptado el hecho de que siempre estar\u00e9 un poco roto"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve always considered myself to be a <\/span>mujer fuerte<\/span><\/a>. Era as\u00ed incluso cuando era peque\u00f1o. Simplemente nunca estuve preparado para permitir que todo lo negativo de la vida tuviera un gran impacto en m\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Los dem\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n pensaban as\u00ed de m\u00ed. Todos los que me rodeaban pensaban que era una de las personas m\u00e1s fuertes que conoc\u00edan y me admiraban por esta cualidad.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y tengo que admitir que me preguntaba c\u00f3mo pod\u00eda la gente ser tan sensible. \u00bfC\u00f3mo pod\u00edan dejar que todo y todos afectaran a su coraz\u00f3n y a su mente?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hasta que me convert\u00ed en lo mismo que ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hasta que un hombre que me rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n y que me rompi\u00f3 por completo entr\u00f3 en mi vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, he didn\u2019t do all of this overnight. It took him a lot of time, patience and energy to break my spirit and to defeat me completely. But eventually, this guy ruined me.<\/span><\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t just break my heart. He changed the person I used to be and he made me an insecure, vulnerable little girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo arruin\u00f3 mis ganas de ser yo misma y mis ganas de vivir. Derrib\u00f3 todas mis esperanzas y destruy\u00f3 la imagen que ten\u00eda de m\u00ed misma.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that wasn\u2019t what hurt me the most.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fui completamente consciente de lo que ocurr\u00eda incluso mientras \u00e9l formaba parte de mi vida y me di cuenta de todo a\u00fan mejor cuando me dej\u00f3.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that realization, that I\u2019ve allowed someone to get to me that much, was the most painful thing I\u2019ve ever experienced. I couldn\u2019t believe some random guy managed to get under my skin and into my head that much. I couldn\u2019t believe anyone, especially a man who didn\u2019t deserve me, could change the essence of who I was.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y sobre todo<\/span>\u2014<\/span>I couldn\u2019t believe I was the one who let it happen.<\/span><\/p>\n

For a long time, I\u2019ve blamed myself for being too weak and for allowing this man to break me.<\/span><\/p>\n

This simply wasn\u2019t me. I wasn\u2019t the kind of woman who would allow a man to manipulate her, to emotionally abuse her and to make her depressed and insecure.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al menos, eso era lo que yo pensaba.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y con el tiempo, mi amor por este hombre desapareci\u00f3. Mi dolor por todas las cosas que me hab\u00eda hecho y por haberse alejado de m\u00ed tambi\u00e9n empezaba a desaparecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi coraz\u00f3n roto<\/span> estaba a punto de curarse.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero hab\u00eda algo que me imped\u00eda curarme del todo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ha pasado mucho tiempo, pero nunca pude aceptar el hecho de que alguien consiguiera doblegarme. Y permitir que eso me ocurriera me atorment\u00f3 durante a\u00f1os.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve lost all of my self-esteem and I allowed my pain to completely define me. I thought that every man would treat me the same because I was obviously not strong enough to defend my heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y entonces me di cuenta<\/b>\u2014<\/b>no hab\u00eda nada malo en el hecho de que me hirieran. Y nunca fue culpa m\u00eda. Cuando te hieren, la persona que te caus\u00f3 ese dolor es siempre la \u00fanica que carga con toda la responsabilidad.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ve changed. And yes, I\u2019ve been broken. And it is possible that I will forever have the scars of the damage this guy did to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero eso es lo que soy ahora.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am not saying these emotional wounds should define me in any sense. I am just trying to say that they\u2019ve obviously become a part of me and that I needed to accept them as such.<\/b><\/p>\n

Estoy diciendo que las cosas por las que pas\u00e9 y mi <\/b>coraz\u00f3n roto<\/b><\/a> son parte de m\u00ed. Y eso es algo que necesitaba aceptar.<\/b><\/p>\n

A man broke me. That doesn\u2019t mean I am weak. It only means I had a big heart that let the wrong person in.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pero no voy a borrarlo si hago como si nada de esto hubiera pasado.<\/span><\/p>\n

And I certainly won\u2019t heal if I try to run away from all the pain that has haunted me, because that would mean I am weak.<\/span><\/p>\n

En cambio, ser\u00e9 lo suficientemente fuerte como para afrontar mi quebrantamiento.<\/span>Y lo m\u00e1s importante<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Ser\u00e9 lo suficientemente fuerte para aceptar el hecho de que nunca ser\u00e9 la persona que sol\u00eda ser. Siempre estar\u00e9 un poco rota y eso est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que bien.<\/span> <\/p>\n

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