{"id":20986,"date":"2020-10-19T12:42:19","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T12:42:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20986"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:42:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:42:27","slug":"espero-que-algun-dia-entiendas-todo-lo-que-me-has-hecho-pasar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/espero-que-algun-dia-entiendas-todo-lo-que-me-has-hecho-pasar\/","title":{"rendered":"Espero Que Alg\u00fan D\u00eda Entiendas Todo Lo Que Me Has Hecho Pasar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando miro mi vida, numerosas personas me han causado distintos tipos de dolor emocional.<\/p>\n<p>There were people whose goal was to play with my heart and to hurt my feelings and there were some who probably didn\u2019t do it on purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la conclusi\u00f3n es que todos ellos me hicieron da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>And when I think of you, I don\u2019t know in which group to put you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfMe estabas haciendo pasar por tanto dolor emocional a prop\u00f3sito o lo hac\u00edas simplemente porque eras insensible y porque nunca tuviste en cuenta mis sentimientos?<\/p>\n<p>De cualquier manera, <b>the point is that the pain you put me through can\u2019t be compared to anything else I\u2019ve experienced in life.<\/b> Y no me refiero s\u00f3lo a las emociones negativas.<\/p>\n<p>I am trying to tell you that the pain you put me through has been the most intense emotion I\u2019ve ever felt in my life. You may say I am exaggerating but it is the truth.<\/p>\n<p>The emotional pain I felt because of you was stronger than all the happiness I\u2019ve ever felt in my life, of all the excitement and of every single positive emotion I\u2019ve experienced.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ahora que lo pienso, era incluso m\u00e1s fuerte que el amor que sent\u00eda por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y lo peor es que nunca fuiste consciente de cu\u00e1nto me heriste.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122059 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer se sienta sola junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/the-woman-sits-alone-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>De alguna manera, siempre dec\u00edas que estaba exagerando y que estaba siendo demasiado emocional y sensible.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre me acusabas de hacerme la v\u00edctima o de que yo ten\u00eda la culpa de todo lo que me hac\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know if you were acting this way because you couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you were hurting another human being that much. That you were destroying and breaking the woman who loved you.<\/p>\n<p>Quiz\u00e1 te resultaba m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil ver las cosas desde ese punto de vista que mirar la verdad a los ojos. Quiz\u00e1 nunca pudiste aceptar el hecho de que eras un monstruo que hizo de mi vida un infierno.<\/p>\n<p>O tal vez sab\u00edas lo que me estabas haciendo pero seguiste adelante conscientemente, sin el menor signo de remordimiento.<\/p>\n<p><b>De cualquier manera, el hecho es que nunca asumiste ninguna responsabilidad por tus palabras o acciones hacia m\u00ed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>At least, you never confessed that you were guilty of hurting me and you never acknowledged my pain or all the sacrifices I made for the sake of our relationship. You always acted like you shouldn\u2019t be held accountable for the way you mistreated me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Como si mis l\u00e1grimas, mis noches sin dormir, mis inseguridades causadas por ti y mis desamores no fueran de tu incumbencia.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y a veces, creo que comportarte as\u00ed me ha hecho m\u00e1s da\u00f1o que todo lo que me hac\u00edas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And that is why I sincerely hope that a day comes when you\u2019ll understand everything you put me through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122060 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer decepcionada se sienta en la acera con la cabeza gacha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-sidewalk-with-her-head-down-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But I mean really get it because I don\u2019t want you telling me you understand something just to be the bigger man in both of our eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 despite all the pain you caused me, I still don\u2019t wish for you to experience anything similar.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to go through all the things I went through because that is something I wouldn\u2019t wish for my worst enemy to have to live through.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to be consumed by guilt either. After all, what was done was done and your conscious waking up all of a sudden can\u2019t change anything.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want you to apologize either. I am not going to lie\u2014it would be nice to hear an honest apology but when I come to think of it, even that wouldn\u2019t make a significant difference inside of me and I am not sure if it would make me feel better.<\/p>\n<p>My pain wouldn\u2019t be erased if you experienced the same. No matter what you do, how you live your life and what happens to you, the scars on my soul will remain.<\/p>\n<p><b>I just want you to realize what you\u2019ve done to me and to take responsibility for your actions, even if you do it alone, without me ever finding out about it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y quiero que eso sea una lecci\u00f3n para ti<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>que nunca pienses en hacer algo similar a otra mujer en tu vida.<\/b> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-122058\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Hope-Someday-Youll-Understand-Everything-Youve-Put-Me-Through-pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"Espero Que Alg\u00fan D\u00eda Entiendas Todo Lo Que Me Has Hecho Pasar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Hope-Someday-Youll-Understand-Everything-Youve-Put-Me-Through-pinterest-1.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Hope-Someday-Youll-Understand-Everything-Youve-Put-Me-Through-pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Hope-Someday-Youll-Understand-Everything-Youve-Put-Me-Through-pinterest-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Hope-Someday-Youll-Understand-Everything-Youve-Put-Me-Through-pinterest-1-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I look at my life, numerous people have caused me different types of emotional pain. There were people whose goal was to play with my heart and to hurt my feelings and there were some who probably didn\u2019t do it on purpose. But the bottom line is that they all did hurt me. And&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122057,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20986","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/I-Hope-Someday-Youll-Understand-Everything-Youve-Put-Me-Through-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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