{"id":20996,"date":"2020-07-19T13:01:05","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T13:01:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=20996"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:00:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:00:34","slug":"la-persona-mas-dificil-de-dejar-ir-es-la-que-nunca-tuviste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-persona-mas-dificil-de-dejar-ir-es-la-que-nunca-tuviste\/","title":{"rendered":"La persona m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de olvidar es la que nunca tuvo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There was something but you aren&#8217;t really sure what to call it anymore. There was this skipped heartbeat and this slight touch of his face.<\/p>\n<p>Lo tuviste por un momento, tuviste un novio, una relaci\u00f3n, un futuro y el sue\u00f1o de que alguien estuviera a tu lado en todos esos momentos dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n<p><b>Cuando miras atr\u00e1s ahora, \u00bfalguna vez tuviste realmente todas esas cosas?<\/b> But why does it hurt this bad if you didn&#8217;t?<\/p>\n<p>You are torn apart from the inside out and you can&#8217;t even remember the last morning when you woke up without your chest screaming his name and begging for him to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/volvera-algun-dia-5-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-para-conseguirlo\/\">vuelve a tu vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Es tan dif\u00edcil <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/respondiendo-a-la-pregunta-mas-dificil-como-dejar-ir-a-alguien-que-ni-siquiera-era-tuyo\/\">deja ir a alguien que nunca tuviste<\/a>...porque en realidad no tienes algo de lo que desprenderte.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You have the memories and the feeling of his hands brushing your skin but how does a person erase their memories? Are you even able to move on if you didn&#8217;t have anywhere to go now that he&#8217;s out of your life?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95138\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"chica sentada junto al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Pensabas que te lo estabas tomando con calma.<\/b> Tu mente te dec\u00eda que deb\u00eda de tener el coraz\u00f3n roto por su \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n, te dec\u00eda que el amor le asustaba y que necesitaba tiempo para comprender lo que pasaba entre vosotros dos.<\/p>\n<p>What is left right now is a picture of you two, frozen in a moment where you are wondering what the hell is going on between the two of you and if you&#8217;ll ever move on past that one picture frame.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a1Hab\u00eda tanto potencial en ustedes dos!<\/b> Te trat\u00f3 con amor y cari\u00f1o, te trat\u00f3 como si no hubiera nadie en este mundo m\u00e1s valioso para \u00e9l que t\u00fa y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-te-fuiste-estaba-devastada-pero-ahora-me-siento-aliviada\/\">lo que pas\u00f3 fue tan devastador<\/a> porque ahora no te queda nada de eso.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you go back in time, recalling those memories that are telling you that it isn&#8217;t over, trying to convince you that you are wrong for letting everything slip away.<\/p>\n<p><b>But it&#8217;s not you letting everything slip out of your hands! <\/b>Lo quer\u00eda as\u00ed, quer\u00eda que todo acabara as\u00ed, sin un cierre, sin tener nunca algo real a lo que aferrarse.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95139\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-woman-crying-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven llorando en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-woman-crying-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-woman-crying-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/young-woman-crying-on-the-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You never got to saving his number with a cute nickname that&#8217;s actually an inside joke.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca tuviste la oportunidad de presentarle a tu familia como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/esto-es-lo-que-pasa-cuando-el-que-se-escapo-vuelve\/\">&#8216;the one&#8217;<\/a> and you never got the chance to one day stand by his side while you make important decisions in life. It&#8217;s so devastating, so sad and so miserable.<\/p>\n<p><b>It doesn&#8217;t matter that it wasn&#8217;t real for him, it was for you. <\/b>Sus intenciones desde el principio debieron de ser p\u00e9simas.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca quiso que llegarais al punto de decir lo felices que erais de estar juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca quiso que te despertaras a su lado, viendo tu futuro en sus ojos dormidos, nunca quiso amarte para siempre. S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda algo temporal.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque fuera temporal, sigue doliendo. <\/b>It hurts like hell and you aren&#8217;t even able to find a way to get past this stage of despair where you wake up in the morning, wishing that he was there with you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95140\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/side-view-of-sad-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de mujer triste sentada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/side-view-of-sad-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/side-view-of-sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/side-view-of-sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te despiertas deseando que te salude con la sonrisa m\u00e1s c\u00e1lida y quieres vestirte muy elegante y salir con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Darse cuenta de que todas esas cosas no eran m\u00e1s que sue\u00f1os es como recibir una bala directa al coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Now you&#8217;re bleeding and you feel like it&#8217;s taking your breath away, because it&#8217;s hurting so much.<\/p>\n<p><b>I know that this pain is unbearable but believe me, it won&#8217;t last forever!<\/b> One day there will be no trace of this almost relationship left in your life and you will be grateful that you weren&#8217;t stuck in it for much longer, because it could have been going on for years without any trace of an ending.<\/p>\n<p>De este modo, tu coraz\u00f3n se fortalecer\u00e1 y podr\u00e1s ver las primeras se\u00f1ales la pr\u00f3xima vez y alejarte inmediatamente.<\/p>\n<p><b>For now, give yourself time. Forgive yourself. Give yourself all the time you need to recover from what has happened and don&#8217;t beat yourself up about it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> \u00a1Ahora tienes un lugar libre en tu vida que puede ser ocupado por alguien que te quiera a ti y s\u00f3lo a ti!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95141 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La persona m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de olvidar es la que nunca tuvo\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There was something but you aren&#8217;t really sure what to call it anymore. There was this skipped heartbeat and this slight touch of his face. You had him for a moment, you had a boyfriend, a relationship, a future and a dream of someone being there with you through all those tough times. When you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95137,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/The-Hardest-Person-To-Let-Go-Of-Is-The-One-You-Never-Had.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20996"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20996\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}