{"id":21022,"date":"2020-07-20T09:07:03","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T09:07:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21022"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:13:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:13:37","slug":"que-son-las-citas-obligatorias-y-por-que-deberias-probarlas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-son-las-citas-obligatorias-y-por-que-deberias-probarlas\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 son las citas por turnos y por qu\u00e9 deber\u00edas probarlas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Citas de servicio significa b\u00e1sicamente decir que s\u00ed a casi todas las invitaciones que te hagan. Al principio parece una locura, lo s\u00e9, pero puede mejorar enormemente tu vida amorosa y social.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puede crear una oportunidad para que encuentres al Sr. Correcto en un mar de errores.<\/p>\n

Duty dating is a term formed by Dr. Pat Allen, author of Getting to \u2018I Do\u2019 and she states that people engage in duty dating for various reasons.<\/p>\n

Puede que sea su forma de volver a salir despu\u00e9s de haber estado fuera de la escena de las citas durante un largo periodo de tiempo y est\u00e1n aprendiendo a relacionarse de nuevo.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t even matter if you don\u2019t feel attraction to or qu\u00edmica instant\u00e1nea<\/a> with a person; what matters is that you go out with them three times and if your heart doesn\u2019t start beating more loudly, you can simply say your goodbyes.<\/p>\n

Lo principal es decir s\u00ed a una cita aunque no haya qu\u00edmica ni conexi\u00f3n instant\u00e1nea.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

To say, \u201cYes,\u201d even if you don\u2019t find somebody attractive or if he is not the type of guy you would usually go out with. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean you are settling for anything, it means that you are getting to know other people and in the process of doing that, you are getting to know yourself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

By dating multiple people at once, you are learning to differentiate between what you need and what you want and usually, it\u2019s not the same thing.<\/p>\n

Te ense\u00f1a que las apariencias enga\u00f1an y que alguien que te gusta en la primera cita puede resultar ser un completo idiota en la tercera.<\/p>\n

But it can also prove that there is more to that other guy you didn\u2019t feel so attracted to the first time you saw him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why three dates are mandatory before you decide whether you want to continue dating someone or stop seeing them.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Also, dating three people at the same time is a good idea too, so that you can see what\u2019s out there and not to move too fast with someone who hasn\u2019t said si quiere comprometerse contigo o no<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Con las citas obligatorias, conectas con la gente a nivel emocional, no f\u00edsico.<\/strong> Sex is not a good idea when duty dating and it shouldn\u2019t be a part of it.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1s liar las cosas. Deja eso para el final de las citas obligatorias, cuando seas exclusivo de una sola persona.<\/p>\n

Las citas de servicio deben ser divertidas.<\/strong> No debes agobiarte con grandes expectativas y si las cosas van o no a alguna parte.<\/p>\n

You are getting the practice you need to be less nervous about dating in general. If one date doesn\u2019t go as planned, you always have another one waiting around the corner.<\/p>\n

Sin duda, merece la pena intentarlo; no s\u00f3lo te dar\u00e1 la pr\u00e1ctica que necesitas y te permitir\u00e1 volver a salir, sino que tambi\u00e9n te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 mucho.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 a afrontar mejor el rechazo.<\/p>\n

When the tables are turned and you are the one deciding whether you are going to stay or leave, you will see that in most cases, it\u2019s nothing personal.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t like everyone you meet, even if they are good and kind and perfect boyfriend material on paper. Something just won\u2019t add up and you will trust your instincts.<\/p>\n

You will realize that in the past, some of your relationships didn\u2019t work out because you were simply mismatched. It didn\u2019t have anything to do with you.<\/p>\n

Te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que siempre fuiste m\u00e1s que suficiente, pero algunas personas simplemente no supieron ver eso en ti. La correcta lo har\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Otra buena raz\u00f3n para probar las citas de servicio es que le permitir\u00e1n ayudarle a no obsesionarse<\/a> sobre una persona que ya te gusta.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

They won\u2019t be your sole focus and you won\u2019t spend your days waiting for them to call or text.<\/p>\n

Mantendr\u00e1s tus opciones abiertas y tendr\u00e1s una perspectiva totalmente nueva cuando vuelvas a la escena de las citas. As\u00ed que, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no intentarlo?<\/p>\n

\"Qu\u00e9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Duty dating basically means saying yes to almost every date invitation you get. Sounds crazy at first, I know, but it can improve your love life and social life tremendously. It can also create an opportunity for you to find Mr. Right in a sea of wrongs. Duty dating is a term formed by Dr….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":117972,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/What-\u2018Duty-Dating-Is-And-Why-You-Should-Give-It-A-Shot-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117972"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}