{"id":21073,"date":"2018-07-23T07:30:57","date_gmt":"2018-07-23T07:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21073"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:12:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:12:49","slug":"asi-es-como-me-perdi-amandote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-me-perdi-amandote\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed Es Como Me Perd\u00ed Al Amarte"},"content":{"rendered":"

En alg\u00fan momento, empec\u00e9 a quererte m\u00e1s de lo que me quer\u00eda a m\u00ed misma. En alg\u00fan momento, t\u00fa dejaste de quererme.<\/p>\n

I was living on cloud nine when I was with you. I really felt like we connected on every possible level. That\u2019s probably why I didn\u2019t mind us moving so fast in our relationship. We were taking major steps so early on that it scared and thrilled me at the same time.<\/p>\n

Everything felt so right that I couldn\u2019t or wouldn\u2019t stop myself.  I wasn’t even aware that our life was in an express lane and we were unknowingly falling behind.<\/p>\n

I guess I wanted a happily ever after so badly that I ignored the fact that I still hadn\u2019t had the chance to get to know you very well. That we hadn\u2019t had the chance to establecer una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>. Nos lanzamos y esperamos lo mejor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But there are no shortcuts in love. There are no express lanes and skipping the steps. If you don\u2019t build your foundations right, everything will fall apart like a deck of cards\u2014especially when one side gives and feels more, like I did for you.<\/p>\n

Antes de conocerte, ten\u00eda una vida que me apasionaba. Pero desde que puse mis ojos en ti, te convertiste en mi \u00fanica pasi\u00f3n. You became the only thing I thought about and I lived to make you happy. And that\u2019s where everything started going downhill.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I made it my life’s mission to make you happy. I followed your plans and postponed all of mine, so you would be pleased. On the other hand, whenever I wanted us to go somewhere or do something, you would discard it as stupid. I stopped doing so many things and seeing people who were important to me just so you wouldn\u2019t blame me for being lonely.<\/p>\n

I was exaggerating. Every time you even said you like something you saw in a store or online, I would buy it for you. When you wouldn\u2019t shut up about how much you craved pancakes or pizza, I would get up and make it for you. You did some sweet things for me, too, at the beginning, but as soon as it got old, you stopped.<\/p>\n

Nunca me detuve. Siempre hice un esfuerzo adicional para complacerte.<\/strong> Siempre me asegur\u00e9 de satisfacer todas tus necesidades y descuid\u00e9 las m\u00edas. T\u00fa tambi\u00e9n descuidaste las m\u00edas. Ansiaba tu cercan\u00eda. Quer\u00eda que me demostraras que yo te importaba tanto como t\u00fa a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que me preguntaras c\u00f3mo me hab\u00eda ido el d\u00eda. Quer\u00eda saber que pod\u00eda recurrir a ti siempre que te necesitara. Quer\u00eda que me escucharas como yo te escuchar\u00eda cada vez que necesitaras hablar. Quer\u00eda que fueras t\u00fa quien dejara su orgullo a un lado como yo hice tantas veces y me encontrara a mitad de camino cuando estuvi\u00e9ramos peleados. Pero nunca lo hiciste.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa segu\u00edas tomando y yo segu\u00eda dando hasta que no tuve nada m\u00e1s que dar.<\/strong> En ese momento abr\u00ed los ojos. Te dije lo infeliz que era, lo unilateral que era esta relaci\u00f3n, que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas esforzarte. Pero me dijiste que te ped\u00eda demasiado, que te aburr\u00eda con mis constantes quejas.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas raz\u00f3n, era aburrida. Quer\u00eda un hombre que se fijara en m\u00ed. Que me hiciera sentir especial y amada como t\u00fa hiciste cuando empezamos. Pero ese hombre ya no estaba ah\u00ed. Todo lo que ten\u00eda era un hombre que me dio por sentado<\/a>. Who ignored my existence in his life unless he needed something. The one who didn\u2019t know how to love anybody but himself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Parece que am\u00e9 demasiado. Am\u00e9 por los dos y me cost\u00f3 mucho.<\/strong> Me perd\u00ed sin darme cuenta. Perd\u00ed la confianza en m\u00ed misma y olvid\u00e9 mi propio valor. Empec\u00e9 a darte prioridad en todos los aspectos de mi vida. Olvid\u00e9 qui\u00e9n era y lo que quer\u00eda. Todos mis sue\u00f1os y aspiraciones se convirtieron en un recuerdo lejano.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t blame you. This was my mistake and I am going to make it right. I am going to rebuild my life. The life I am proud of. I am going to find that smile that I lost while I was with you. I am going to make myself happy and and I have already started that journey by leaving you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Somewhere along the way, I started loving you more than I loved myself. Somewhere along that same way, you stopped loving me altogether. I was living on cloud nine when I was with you. I really felt like we connected on every possible level. That\u2019s probably why I didn\u2019t mind us moving so fast in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21078,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/jorge.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21073","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21073"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21073\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21078"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}