{"id":21079,"date":"2020-09-23T07:37:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T07:37:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21079"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:44:04","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:44:04","slug":"dentro-de-la-mente-de-una-chica-que-piensa-que-no-puede-seguir-adelante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dentro-de-la-mente-de-una-chica-que-piensa-que-no-puede-seguir-adelante\/","title":{"rendered":"La mente de una chica que cree que no puede seguir adelante"},"content":{"rendered":"

Conozco a una chica. Cuando miras a esta chica, se parece a cualquier otra chica normal.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se levanta cada ma\u00f1ana con una sonrisa, va a trabajar y hace todo lo posible por ser lo m\u00e1s amable posible con todos los que la rodean.<\/p>\n

Tiene amigos y vida social. Sale y tiene una gran relaci\u00f3n con su familia. La gente la quiere y algunos incluso la admiran.<\/p>\n

Este la chica siempre parece feliz<\/a> y siempre tiene una gran sonrisa en la cara. La gente admira su fuerza y la forma en que maneja todo en la vida.<\/p>\n

When they look at her, they assume that her life is perfect and that she doesn\u2019t have a single worry on her mind.<\/p>\n

Todos a su alrededor piensan que ella es la la chica m\u00e1s fuerte <\/a> siempre. Incluso cuando tiene alg\u00fan inconveniente en la vida, lo maneja con una facilidad y paciencia incre\u00edbles.<\/p>\n

Pero nadie la conoce de verdad. Nadie sabe que ella no es nada de lo que act\u00faa.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nadie conoce sus luchas y el dolor emocional que esconde en lo m\u00e1s profundo de su ser.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, todos sus amigos y familiares saben que tuvo una relaci\u00f3n seria. Saben que exist\u00eda un hombre al que amaba m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

Y saben que este hombre la abandon\u00f3 cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitaba. Saben que le caus\u00f3 mucho dolor y que ella estaba herida.<\/p>\n

Pero asumen que ese periodo de su vida ya pas\u00f3. Suponen que dej\u00f3 a ese tipo en el pasado, donde pertenece, y que lo ha superado hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

After all, she never mentions him to anyone. She doesn\u2019t look sad.<\/p>\n

When they wonder why she hadn\u2019t had a relaci\u00f3n seria <\/a> ever since the two of them broke up, they justify her by thinking that she hasn\u2019t found the right guy just yet. Besides, she works a lot and she always looks so busy\u2014maybe she doesn\u2019t have time for a relationship.<\/p>\n

Y no tienen ni idea de lo despistados que son en realidad.<\/p>\n

No tienen ni idea de que esta chica sufre un dolor emocional constante. Que le cuesta levantarse de la cama cada ma\u00f1ana<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, son conscientes de que este hombre le ha hecho da\u00f1o, pero no tienen ni idea de hasta qu\u00e9 punto.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know he changed her, although on the outside, she looks the same.<\/b><\/p>\n

They have no idea all of her smiles are fake and that she is constantly fighting not to cry. And she does it because she is embarrassed and because she is afraid she\u2019ll appear to be weak.<\/p>\n

But when she\u2019s alone, everything that this guy has done to her is the only thing she can think about.<\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know she cries herself to sleep almost every night.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that she breaks all over again whenever she sees someone looking like her ex or hears a voice similar to his.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that she doesn\u2019t mention him to anyone because she is scared that she would burst into tears the moment she saya his name out loud.<\/p>\n

But most importantly, they don\u2019t know she can\u2019t move on and that <\/b>seguir adelante<\/b><\/a> is the scariest thing for her.  They don\u2019t know that living her life without this guy existing in the back of her head is the thing she wants the most. <\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that he is still blocking her somehow, although he is not present in her life. That this guy is the only reason she is still single.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

All think that she has moved on with her life a while ago, but actually, she hasn\u2019t moved a single inch.<\/p>\n

Porque ella lucha. Lucha para demostrar al mundo que puede vivir sin \u00e9l y lucha para demostrarle a \u00e9l lo mismo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pero lo m\u00e1s importante es que lucha consigo misma y con sus sentimientos cada d\u00eda. <\/b><\/p>\n

She thinks she can\u2019t move on because she expects that every guy she meets next will be just like her ex. She is certain that the next guy will break the pieces of her already broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

And that fear paralyzes her. It cages her and she feels like she\u2019ll never free herself from all the pain and misery this man has put her through.<\/p>\n

The only truth is that she hasn\u2019t moved on and that she hasn\u2019t gotten over everything that she went through.<\/p>\n

Pero mantiene todo esto oculto en su interior porque sabe que nadie entender\u00eda su sufrimiento y su debilidad.<\/p>\n

Probablemente te preguntes c\u00f3mo s\u00e9 todo esto. Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa: yo soy esta chica.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t wish for any other woman to be me.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There is a girl I know. When you look at this girl, she looks just like any other, average girl. She gets up every morning with a smile on her face, goes to work and does her best to be as kind as possible to everyone around her. She has friends and a social life….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121327,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21079","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Inside-The-Mind-Of-A-Girl-Who-Thinks-She-Cant-Move-On-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21079","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21079"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21079\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121327"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21079"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21079"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21079"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}