{"id":21087,"date":"2020-07-23T10:26:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T10:26:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21087"},"modified":"2022-05-09T00:16:28","modified_gmt":"2022-05-09T00:16:28","slug":"a-la-chica-que-sigue-esperando-ninguna-respuesta-sigue-siendo-una-respuesta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-sigue-esperando-ninguna-respuesta-sigue-siendo-una-respuesta\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que sigue esperando: Ninguna respuesta sigue siendo una respuesta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ah\u00ed est\u00e1s otra vez, mirando el m\u00f3vil y hojeando los mensajes. Le esperas a \u00e9l, a ese mensaje que lo cambie todo y te haga recordar por qu\u00e9 te enamoraste de \u00e9l en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>You want to see that he cares. You want him to make you believe that it&#8217;s not over yet and you want him to have a response of any kind, but dear, let me tell you that no response is still a response.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been waiting for too long. No matter how much time that includes.<\/p>\n<p>If it&#8217;s been two days or a week, it&#8217;s just too much time wasted on someone who doesn&#8217;t even bother to show you that you mean a lot to him. He doesn&#8217;t react and it doesn&#8217;t bother him to lose you .<\/p>\n<p>Sabe que te perder\u00e1. Ning\u00fan hombre es tan est\u00fapido como para creer que por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/psicologia-de-ignorar-a-una-mujer\/\">ignorar a una mujer<\/a> conseguir\u00e1 su afecto.<\/p>\n<p>He is doing this on purpose and no matter how much you want to deny that, it&#8217;s a fact.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfRealmente crees que un hombre que te ama se comportar\u00eda as\u00ed? Un hombre que te ama tendr\u00e1 miedo de perderte alguna vez, de hacerte da\u00f1o o de hacerte llorar.<\/p>\n<p>Te abrazar\u00e1 fuerte y querr\u00e1 pasar contigo todas las horas que est\u00e9 despierto. A <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-un-hombre-te-quiere-en-su-vida\/\">hombre que quiere tenerte en su vida<\/a> won&#8217;t make you wonder whether he is serious about you because you will simply know.<\/p>\n<p>You will know if he appreciates you enough by the way he doesn&#8217;t play games with you because people who want you in their lives tell you that you&#8217;re needed.<\/p>\n<p>But this man, the one who is not responding, he will be surprised the next time he sees you, texts you or calls you and you don&#8217;t greet him.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t text back and you don&#8217;t pick up the phone. He will be surprised and he will regret not making an effort to make you stay by his side. I can guarantee you that no man is heartless enough to not consider another option, to think about what would happen if he acted differently.<\/p>\n<p>He won&#8217;t take your cold behavior so easily because he doesn&#8217;t know how to deal with people who are just like him.<\/p>\n<p>Te mereces mucho m\u00e1s que mirar fijamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/merecer-mirar-la-pantalla-vacia\/\"> en una pantalla vac\u00eda <\/a> . You deserve more than crying over his unsent texts and all those times you wanted to talk to him, but he wasn&#8217;t there for you.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que fue muy bonito hablar con \u00e9l. Fue tan inspirador tenerlo en tu vida y estar segura de que has encontrado a un hombre que puede hacerte sentir tan especial.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora que todo eso ha desaparecido, te preguntas qu\u00e9 ha fallado. Pensabas que los dos ten\u00edais mucho potencial, as\u00ed que esperaste y esperaste. Esperaste a que \u00e9l diera el primer paso.<\/p>\n<p>Esperabas que te demostrara que quiere que se convierta en algo serio. Pero no deja de decepcionarte. Sigue demostr\u00e1ndote que lo que esperabas est\u00e1 en tu cabeza.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re now stuck in this cycle of tears and agony that keeps you from moving on. You&#8217;re constantly breaking your own heart and you feel it in your chest, stabbing you and begging you to stop doing it. But you can&#8217;t give up hope, can you?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, yes you can. It doesn&#8217;t mean that you&#8217;re giving up on something real. You&#8217;re not giving up on someone who is ready to do everything it takes just to make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re walking away from someone who doesn&#8217;t even know what true love feels like. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/pasar-pagina-no-significa-dejar-de-querer-a-alguien\/\"> You&#8217;re moving on <\/a> y eso no es algo que te haga d\u00e9bil.<\/p>\n<p>You have learned a lesson. You have had an experience with someone who didn&#8217;t even bother to show you their kindness and respect.<\/p>\n<p>But how about the next time you meet someone and get so invested in them, you let it be someone who shows you love. Someone who isn&#8217;t ashamed to dedicate a whole day to make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who doesn&#8217;t mind making you a priority every single day.<\/p>\n<p>The next time you meet a guy, don&#8217;t get stuck waiting, looking at your phone for a call, but live your life. You don&#8217;t need a man and he will never be something crucial in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Just give yourself the permission to live your most amazing life without ever needing that call, needing that text. Maybe his &#8216;no response&#8217; is a clear message to stop waiting and start living?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There you are again, looking at your phone and scrolling through your messages. 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