{"id":21111,"date":"2019-07-24T07:12:17","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T07:12:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21111"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:26","slug":"cuando-te-encuentres-enganchada-a-ese-hombre-inalcanzable-lee-esto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-te-encuentres-enganchada-a-ese-hombre-inalcanzable-lee-esto\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando te encuentres enganchada a ese hombre inalcanzable, lee esto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si pudiera echar un vistazo a su mente y ver lo que est\u00e1 pensando. \u00bfPiensa en m\u00ed? \u00bfConoce el color de mis ojos y la forma en que mis pecas forman una V\u00eda L\u00e1ctea en mi nariz? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se siente tan cercano en un momento y tan distante en otro? \u00bfSe siente luchando contra sus sentimientos<\/a> o es s\u00f3lo d\u00e1ndome largas<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Millones de preguntas deben rondar sin parar por tu cabeza cuando te encuentras enganchada a ese hombre inalcanzable. Para ti, no hay otro como \u00e9l en este mundo. Nadie puede despertar tus sentimientos y hacerte sentir tan viva como \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, nadie puede hacerte sentir tan deprimido como \u00e9l.<\/strong> Tears roll down your face every time you are alone, waiting for him to show up when he said he would…when you fall asleep without that text goodnight because he forgot to send it…when you are left for too long without his hugs.<\/p>\n

Mides el tiempo en los momentos que has pasado con \u00e9l y sin \u00e9l. Cuando est\u00e1s con \u00e9l, el tiempo vuela y tu coraz\u00f3n late tan fuerte que \u00e9l puede o\u00edrlo. Es como un sue\u00f1o que acaba demasiado pronto. Pero cuando no est\u00e1, los minutos parecen horas, las horas parecen d\u00edas y los d\u00edas parecen una eternidad.<\/p>\n

But he doesn’t have your sense of time. He doesn\u2019t mind that you are waiting for him. He doesn\u2019t know that he is hurting you\u2014or he does but he doesn\u2019t care. He is not rushing to see you. He doesn\u2019t make time for you and everything else seems to come first. Everything else is more important and it\u2019s killing you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Te perseguir\u00e1 cuando dejes de perseguirle. Te enviar\u00e1 un mensaje de texto cuando vea que tu mensaje no llega. Te invitar\u00e1 a salir cuando dejes de pedirle tiempo. Vendr\u00e1 a verte cuando empieces a pensar que no volver\u00e1 a aparecer. Te echar\u00e1 de menos<\/a> cuando ya no est\u00e9s disponible. Te perseguir\u00e1 en cuanto sienta que se le escapas de las manos, pero en cuanto te atrapa, pierde el inter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow him to catch you if he has no intention to stay. Don\u2019t allow it if he has no strength to hold on tight. You don\u2019t need a part-time lover and half-assed commitments. You don\u2019t need a man who is going to be there only when it\u2019s convenient…only when he feels lonely and in need of a woman\u2019s touch. You deserve more.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You deserve so much more than he is giving you and it\u2019s time you admit it to yourself. You deserve someone who will be able to commit, someone who will be sure about his feelings and show them in words or actions.<\/p>\n

His unattainability might have been interesting at first. But you always hoped that he would change. The crumbs he was serving you might have been enough at first, but they are not now. You want more now\u2014more of his time, efforts, investments and reciprocity.<\/p>\n

Deja de pensar que est\u00e1s pidiendo demasiado. S\u00f3lo pides recuperar lo que ya eres. d\u00e1ndole<\/a>\u2014nothing more and nothing less. You can\u2019t be the only one who makes all the efforts. You can\u2019t be the one who always loves more.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Te mereces mucho m\u00e1s. Tendr\u00e1s mucho m\u00e1s. Pero no con \u00e9l. Tienes que dejarlo ir y encontrar tu felicidad en otra parte. Empieza a encontrarla dentro de ti y un d\u00eda, alguien que valga la pena vendr\u00e1 a aumentar tu felicidad.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay somewhere where you are not appreciated. Don\u2019t let him come in and out of your life like you are a stop along the way. Don\u2019t waste your time on someone who has one foot out of the door at all times. Break the spell he has on you and see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t chase someone unattainable. Guard your heart for the man who is going to be all in. The man who won\u2019t play games and be only partially involved. The man who will never make you feel like you are alone in all of this. The one you can trust. The one who is ready to be all that you need.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n

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If I could just peek into his mind and see what he is thinking. Is he thinking about me at all? Does he know the color of my eyes and the way in which my freckles form a Milky Way on my nose? Why does he feel so close at one moment and so distant…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21112,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/blake-cheek-663682-unsplash.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21111"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21111\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}