{"id":21114,"date":"2018-07-24T07:32:36","date_gmt":"2018-07-24T07:32:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21114"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:10:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:10:32","slug":"no-perdere-mas-mi-tiempo-con-tus-senales-confusas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-perdere-mas-mi-tiempo-con-tus-senales-confusas\/","title":{"rendered":"No perder\u00e9 m\u00e1s mi tiempo con tus se\u00f1ales mixtas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve already wasted 2 years, 25 days, 2 hours and 12 minutes deciphering your mixed signals and I won\u2019t waste another second. I won\u2019t wait for a miracle. I won\u2019t spend my life hoping for something that will never be. I am putting a stop to it here and now.<\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t agree. I know you will want me back now that I am slipping through your fingers. I know it because we\u2019ve already had situations like this. I would say how I can\u2019t put up with your crap anymore and that we are done. But you would always find a way to sneak back under my skin.<\/p>\n<p>Me dec\u00edas todo lo que quer\u00eda o\u00edr y yo te cre\u00eda porque mi coraz\u00f3n quer\u00eda creerte. Mis instintos me dec\u00edan que estabas mintiendo, pero quer\u00eda que estuvieran equivocados, as\u00ed que opt\u00e9 por ignorarlos. Fui en contra de mi buen juicio y segu\u00ed depositando toda mi confianza en alguien tan vago.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Utilizaste esas se\u00f1ales contradictorias para mantenerme tan cerca como quer\u00edas y ni una pulgada m\u00e1s cerca. Siempre estuve en alg\u00fan lugar delante de tu coraz\u00f3n, pero nunca me dejaste entrar de verdad. Por otro lado, todo mi ser era tuyo y t\u00fa lo sab\u00edas bien.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00edas lo fuertes que eran mis sentimientos y lo tomaste como mi debilidad. En lugar de apreciarme a m\u00ed y la forma en que te trataba, seguiste jugando. Un d\u00eda, estabas encima de m\u00ed. Yo era el sol de tu d\u00eda y la luz de la luna que te guiaba por la noche y al momento siguiente, me apagabas por completo.<\/p>\n<p>You would send me the sweetest text and then go days without responding to a text from me. You would make plans for us to see a movie I\u2019d been telling you about for so long and then you would cancel plans last minute. You would say I was the most beautiful and most interesting woman alive then you would go weeks without seeing me, always having some lame-ass excuse.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-razones-comunes-por-las-que-un-hombre-no-quiere-etiquetar-una-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nunca quisiste etiquetar<\/a> anything because you were not ready but then you would introduce me to your friends. You would say you can\u2019t commit right now but you don\u2019t know what the future will bring. You would say you don\u2019t want to be exclusive but you couldn\u2019t stand seeing me with anybody else.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Estabas lleno de contradicciones. Dec\u00edas una cosa, hac\u00edas otra y s\u00f3lo Dios sabe lo que pensabas de verdad. Utilizabas esas se\u00f1ales contradictorias. Confiabas en que yo viera lo mejor de ti y te has salido con la tuya durante mucho tiempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>For way too long in fact and I should have put a stop to this a long time ago. I should have remembered that I am worthy of love\u2014that true, unconditional, can&#8217;t live without you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/amor-verdadero-besos-dulces-palabras\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tipo de amor<\/a>\u2014and not settle for this BS you were giving me. I should have seen that the message behind those mixed signals was obvious: you just don\u2019t care about me enough.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I\u2019ve finally gotten that message now. 2 years, 25 days, 2 hours and 12 minutes after but just in time to say my final goodbye and thank you for the lesson. I will never again waste my time on anybody who even tries to send me mixed signals. Next time, I will recognize the meaning behind the message. Next time, I will ignore it without giving it a second look.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve already wasted 2 years, 25 days, 2 hours and 12 minutes deciphering your mixed signals and I won\u2019t waste another second. I won\u2019t wait for a miracle. I won\u2019t spend my life hoping for something that will never be. I am putting a stop to it here and now. I know you don\u2019t agree&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21115,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/joshua-rawson-harris-665620-unsplash.jpg",800,541,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21114","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21114"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21114\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21115"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21114"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21114"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21114"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}