{"id":21189,"date":"2020-04-25T10:34:29","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T10:34:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21189"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:46:32","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:46:32","slug":"al-hombre-roto-que-intente-arreglar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-hombre-roto-que-intente-arreglar\/","title":{"rendered":"Al hombre roto que intent\u00e9 arreglar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando te conoc\u00ed, no vi al hombre que eras. En cambio, vi al hombre en el que podr\u00edas haberte convertido.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente me negu\u00e9 a verte por la forma en que tu pasado te hab\u00eda afectado, aunque lo sab\u00eda todo sobre \u00e9l. Me negu\u00e9 a verte como t\u00fa te ve\u00edas a ti misma.<\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque no dejabas de dec\u00edrmelo, me negaba a aceptar que era <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-signs-dating-broken-man\/\"><b>saliendo con un hombre roto<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I had to admit that you were always honest \u2014 you told me you\u2019d been through a lot in the past and that you still didn\u2019t know how to deal with it.<\/p>\n<p>Me dijiste que hab\u00eda una chica que te caus\u00f3 mucho dolor. Una chica que te traicion\u00f3, a pesar de todo el amor que le diste.<\/p>\n<p>Me dijiste que ella cambi\u00f3 la esencia de lo que eras y que el da\u00f1o que te hab\u00eda causado te hab\u00eda convertido en un hombre diferente.<\/p>\n<p>That you\u2019d become a bitter and pessimistic man who had lost all of his faith in love.<\/p>\n<p>Que dejaste de creer que pudiera existir una mujer que te amara a pesar de todos tus defectos.<\/p>\n<p>Que pudiera existir una mujer que te aceptara tal y como eras, con todas tus inseguridades, imperfecciones y cicatrices emocionales.<\/p>\n<p>You told me that you\u2019d lost all of your trust in people and you advised me not to get my hopes up with you because you didn\u2019t know how much of yourself you could offer.<\/p>\n<p>But I didn\u2019t take any of this as red flags and none of it chased me away.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85306\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste sentado en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En cambio, apreci\u00e9 su honestidad m\u00e1s que nada.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y tom\u00e9 como misi\u00f3n salvarte.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-penso-que-podia-curarle\/\">pensaba que yo era el \u00fanico capaz de curar y arreglar tu coraz\u00f3n<\/a> y el alma. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>That I was the one who would show you that true love didn\u2019t have to hurt and that not every woman you let in will hurt you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Me arm\u00e9 de paciencia y esper\u00e9 a que estuvieras dispuesta a abrirte a m\u00ed, a dejarme entrar en tu vida, a confiar en m\u00ed y a amarme.<\/p>\n<p>Esper\u00e9 a que sintieras que pod\u00edas confiar en m\u00ed y a que te comprometieras conmigo.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t look at you as an unavailable and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-asombrosos-consejos-para-salir-con-un-hombre-emocionalmente-danado\/\"> hombre emocionalmente da\u00f1ado <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, era muy consciente de todas las cicatrices y heridas de tu coraz\u00f3n, pero simplemente me negaba a permitirme mirarte a trav\u00e9s de ellas.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00eda que eras un hombre con muchas cualidades y que ten\u00edas mucho que ofrecer, adem\u00e1s de tu quebranto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y decid\u00ed ser yo quien despertara al hombre que sol\u00edas ser, antes de que te rompieran el coraz\u00f3n. Decid\u00ed salvarte, te gustara o no.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85309\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-comforting-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer consolando a hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-comforting-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-comforting-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-comforting-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What I didn\u2019t know was that deep down, you didn\u2019t want to be rescued and that all of my efforts were in vain and doomed from the very beginning.<\/p>\n<p>Que ese dolor que sent\u00edas se hab\u00eda convertido en tu zona de confort y que en realidad te hab\u00edas estado aferrando a \u00e9l todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>What I didn\u2019t know was that I would lose years of my life, trying to pick up the broken pieces of your heart and soul, without any success.<\/p>\n<p>What I didn\u2019t know was that you weren\u2019t only emotionally damaged\u2014you were also damaging to everyone around you and especially to me.<\/p>\n<p>What I didn\u2019t know was that I would never be able to save your wounded soul, no matter how hard I tried.<\/p>\n<p>But most importantly \u2014 I didn\u2019t only know that you wouldn\u2019t heal but that you\u2019d end up breaking me.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 I don\u2019t blame you for anything and I still think you treated me the best way you knew.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85312\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pero el hecho es que me arrastraste a tu negatividad y que me agotaste por completo.<\/p>\n<p>El hecho es que me acostumbr\u00e9 a tus pautas de comportamiento y que t\u00fa cambiaste la persona que yo era, en lugar de al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p><b>The truth is that I didn\u2019t fix your broken heart. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/rompi-mi-propio-corazon\/\">S\u00f3lo romp\u00ed mi propio<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Obviamente era demasiado d\u00e9bil para arreglarte. Obviamente no era <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/strong-enough-love-broken-man\/\"> lo bastante fuerte para amar a un hombre roto <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>My love for you clearly wasn\u2019t strong enough to heal your wounds and scars.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo lamento.<\/p>\n<p><b>Siento no haber cumplido mi palabra y no haberte curado, como te promet\u00ed. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Siento haber tenido que elegirme a m\u00ed mismo antes que a ti. Y siento haberte abandonado cuando obviamente a\u00fan me necesitabas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pero eso es algo que ten\u00eda que hacer si quer\u00eda salvarme. Simplemente tuve que renunciar a ti.<\/p>\n<p>And that is something I\u2019ll never forgive myself for doing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85303\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/To-The-Broken-Man-I-Tried-To-Fix-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Al hombre roto que intent\u00e9 arreglar\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/To-The-Broken-Man-I-Tried-To-Fix-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/To-The-Broken-Man-I-Tried-To-Fix-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/To-The-Broken-Man-I-Tried-To-Fix-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I first met you, I didn\u2019t see the man you were. Instead, I saw the man you could\u2019ve become. I simply refused to see you through the way your past had affected you, although I knew everything about it. I refused to see you the way you saw yourself. Although you kept telling me&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":85314,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/To-The-Broken-Man-I-Tried-To-Fix.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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