{"id":21214,"date":"2019-11-26T06:34:00","date_gmt":"2019-11-26T06:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21214"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:28:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:28:34","slug":"ella-no-necesita-un-heroe-ella-solo-necesita-a-alguien-que-la-ame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-no-necesita-un-heroe-ella-solo-necesita-a-alguien-que-la-ame\/","title":{"rendered":"No necesita un h\u00e9roe. S\u00f3lo necesita a alguien que la quiera."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every tale that has a happy ending started off with a princess that needs saving and a prince who ends up being a hero. Those tales are not what life looks like. In reality, we don\u2019t have castles and fairies.<\/p>\n<p>That because we\u2019re not princesses.<\/p>\n<p>We are strong girls who don\u2019t need to be saved from anything. We are used to fighting for everything we want in life. And it\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>We never even asked to be saved. We like who we are and that\u2019s not going to change. We don\u2019t need a prince who\u2019s going to save us.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t need a hero. We are our own heroes. We just need to be loved.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/como-convertirse-en-una-mujer-alfa-guia-paso-a-paso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ser una mujer alfa<\/a> who has everything under control is not that easy. It\u2019s actually pretty exhausting. We need to rest from time to time.<\/p>\n<p>Without refueling, we couldn\u2019t function this well. But even when we\u2019re resting, our brains can\u2019t stop working.<\/p>\n<p>We constantly think of many things, such as reflecting on what we did in life or thinking about what to expect from it next. While imagining our future, it\u2019s really hard to imagine someone next to us.<\/p>\n<p>For some of us, it\u2019s even impossible. A lot of guys we meet are intimidated by our personalities.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente quieren ser h\u00e9roes para sus novias. Quieren sentir que son la soluci\u00f3n a todos sus problemas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bueno, siento dec\u00edrtelo, pero la verdad es que lo \u00fanico que necesitamos es amor.<\/strong> You see that we\u2019re not asking for much.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesitamos un buen hombro sobre el que llorar cuando nos sentimos abrumados por todo. Necesitamos a alguien que nos coja de la mano y nos lleve a comer pizza.<\/p>\n<p>We need guys who are happy to have us in their lives. We just want to be looked at like we\u2019re masterpieces.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real\u2014that\u2019s every girl\u2019s dream.<\/p>\n<p>Truth to be told, we are really busy. We work on ourselves all the time, and we won\u2019t stop until we become what we truly want to be.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos queremos ser m\u00e9dicos, otros quiz\u00e1 abrir una florister\u00eda y otros simplemente intentan ser m\u00e1s felices en la vida.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what the goal is. If you\u2019re not ready to love your girlfriend and hold her hand through everything she\u2019s planning on doing, then you should take a step back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s ready to give you the support she expects from you.<\/strong> Necesita que seas un hombre de verdad con el que pueda contar.<\/p>\n<p>She needs someone who\u2019s going to laugh with her, cry with her, and take her places she\u2019s never been to.<\/p>\n<p>Necesita sentir esa chispa de amor de vez en cuando. Necesita sentirse viva.<\/p>\n<p>Even strong women are sometimes weak. Sometimes they get overwhelmed with everything and then forget why are they doing what they\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando tu novia llegue a este punto, debes saber c\u00f3mo actuar. Debes abrazarla y decirle que todo va a ir bien.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s all she needs. Is she asking for too much? I don\u2019t think so. But sometimes it\u2019s hard for guys to give that to their girlfriends.<\/p>\n<p>All these women are asking for is to be loved, but their men would rather be their heroes and make some great gestures without any meaning\u2014not to mention that most of the guys would be the happiest if they got to play with girls\u2019 feelings.<\/p>\n<p>No hay mujer en este mundo que aceptar\u00eda este tipo de relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>La conclusi\u00f3n es que<strong> if you\u2019re not an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/11-maneras-de-ganar-el-corazon-macho-alfa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">macho alfa<\/a>no tienes nada que hacer con una mujer alfa.<\/strong> Si no eres tu propio h\u00e9roe, como lo es ella, entonces puedes olvidarte de ella.<\/p>\n<p>She will not settle for anything less than what she deserves. She\u2019s not going to be your mum; she can\u2019t take care of you like that.<\/p>\n<p>She will be your lover and your best friend only if you\u2019re willing to be hers.<\/p>\n<p>This combination will guarantee you a happy relationship. If she thinks you\u2019re not good enough for her, then you should respect her decision.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, si est\u00e1s listo para amarla como ella necesita ser amada, entonces <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-razones-por-las-que-la-vida-sentimental-sera-una-hembra-alfa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">prep\u00e1rate para pasar el mejor momento de tu vida con ella<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-57850\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER..jpg\" alt=\"ELLA NO NECESITA UN H\u00c9ROE. S\u00d3LO NECESITA A ALGUIEN QUE LA QUIERA.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER..jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER.-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER.-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/SHE-DOESN\u2019T-NEED-A-HERO.-SHE-ONLY-NEEDS-SOMEONE-TO-LOVE-HER.-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every tale that has a happy ending started off with a princess that needs saving and a prince who ends up being a hero. Those tales are not what life looks like. In reality, we don\u2019t have castles and fairies. That because we\u2019re not princesses. We are strong girls who don\u2019t need to be saved&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21216,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/timothy.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21214"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21214\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21216"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}